Small details of raising boys

Raising a boy is an art.

Some children are clever and can understand the words of adults

Some children are more introverted, but they can make people feel cute and cute

Some children are naughty and reluctant not to cooperate with others, and they are always full of aggression against foreign objects, some people will say that this is the nature of children, and boys are naughty and naughty

In fact, the above only shows a kind of interpersonal communication ability of children, children's communication and expression

In fact, the time for children and mothers to get along is the most, from a seed, slowly sprouting and rooting, October's pregnancy, croaking, December breastfeeding, so the child is like a mother's mirror, the mother does not like to read, the child naturally does not like to read, the mother likes to look at the mobile phone, the child will also start to look at the mobile phone from an early age

The first teacher of a child is the mother.

In the initial stage of children's growth, parents will carefully cultivate care, help children develop intellectual ability, cultivate children's interpersonal communication, communication skills, mother is the closest contact with children to communicate with people, in general, enthusiastic and optimistic children will have a gentle and kind mother, and some strange and irritable children, most of them lack maternal love, or mothers have strange personalities, such children are easy to go to the extreme of indifference and loneliness

Children do the wrong thing, parents should understand, comfort and encourage, unpleasant things happen in school, learn to listen patiently, to give help, rather than the child's so-called filial piety under the stick, impatient with the child, often scolding, so that the child's self-esteem is hurt, let the child feel that his own is not valued, his own dispensable, the child will imitate the joys and sorrows of adults, long-term disrespect, not valued, and eventually the child will go astray

So to sum up the above points, I personally think that if you want to cultivate a responsible, responsible, intelligent and clever boy, first of all, we parents should first cultivate ourselves into an all-round parent!