Lu Xiaoman was poached by Xu Zhimo in marriage, and Lin Huiyin was "old jin next door" for a long time after marriage. But fortunately, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng still walked through their lives, and were not put on the hat of "cheating in marriage" and left a clear name.
But even so, Lin Huiyin's voice as "green tea" still comes out of the mouths of different people, and even a generation of literati Bingxin still writes articles mocking Lin Huiyin.
And Lin Huiyin? While she has the love of Liang Sicheng, she is also remembered by Xu Zhimo and Jin Yuelin. Lin Hui is because "a kaleidoscope of flowers has passed, and the leaves do not stick to the body", which not only requires a super high IQ, but also requires a fairly high emotional intelligence to do it.
So the question is, Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman also suffered from marital poaching, why did Lu Xiaoman overturn the car again and again, and Lin Huiyin was able to hold it?
Lu Xiaoman, who overturned the car again and again, became the representative of the "scumbag girl", while Lin Huiyin, who was "guarding like a jade", was called "green tea"?
Lin Huiyin: Feelings are also full of careful machines
Since we stepped into society, simplicity seems to have slowly become a "neutral word", and I am really embarrassed to define simplicity as a derogatory word, because there are too many people who are so hard-hearted that I can't bear it.
Lin Huiyin's achievements, I will not repeat it, as the top architect in the Republic of China period, his talent and contribution naturally need not be said, even in another hundred years, can be equal to Lin Huiyin in terms of architectural achievements, I believe that a hand can also be counted.
However, Lin Huiyin's emotional history, after many years, can still mobilize the appetite of the melon-eating masses.
Lin Huiyin was born in 1904, she is a daughter of Lin Changmin, although her mother is not very popular with Lin Changmin, but Lin Huiyin has been clever and clever since childhood, which makes Lin Changmin like it very much.
When she was 16 years old, Lin Changmin took Lin Huiyin on a trip to Europe, where she met the first person who made her heart move, Xu Zhimo.
Teenage Lin Hui is still in the early age of love, while the handsome "Oba" Xu Zhimo is a full "old driver". If the time is faster, Mrs. Xu will even have a second child.
Originally, Xu Zhimo had a harmonious family, but he was an uneasy person. He always felt that his marriage was not perfect and always tried to pursue his love.
Xu Zhimo's face is also thick enough, and he says that he doesn't like it, but his body is very honest, and the two dolls in the family can't always be blown by the wind. Man, indeed, is an animal with a lower body.
Lin Huiyin and Xu Zhimo did rub the spark of love, but Lin Huiyin insisted on not being a "little three", in her opinion, her love should be white and flawless.
So, she left Xu Zhimo and quickly got to know Liang Sicheng and began her next relationship. In my opinion, Lin Huiyin left Xu Zhimo, not because she had no feelings for him, but because she couldn't bear to be a third party.
And she looked for Liang Sicheng, in my opinion, to make Xu Zhimo die to her. Although Xu Zhimo made an attempt, it was obvious that Liang Sicheng's weight was there, and Xu Zhimo had to choose to give up.
And Liang Sicheng is really a good man suitable for marriage. But I think that Lin Huiyin's love for Liang Sicheng may be far less deep than Liang Sicheng's love for her.
Lin Huiyin has publicly stated that if her life can be repeated, she will still choose to be with Liang Sicheng and use her life to repay Liang Sicheng's love.
It can be seen from this that Liang Sicheng is a good marriage partner for Lin Huiyin, but it is not her love. From her later actions, it can be seen that Lin Huiyin is not a master of peace.
When Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng lived in Beijing, they always held cultural salons every weekend, and celebrities from the cultural field with heads and faces in Beijing would participate.
As Bing Xin said, in the wife's parlor, she is the eternal protagonist. And Jin Yuelin also became Lin Huiyin's blue-faced confidant.
Lin Huiyin had a showdown, and Liang Sicheng was very distressed
Lin Huiyin once told Liang Sicheng that she fell in love with two people at the same time, and Lin Huiyin's words were also full of careful machines, and she fully took care of Liang Sicheng's face.
The implication is that she is in love with Old Kim again. And Liang Sicheng's answer is also quite sincere, to the effect that if Lin Huiyin chooses old Jin, he will bless them, typically retreating to advance.
But this also shows from the side that Liang Sicheng did not hold lin Huiyin at all, and in the love of two people, Liang Sicheng was always the passive bearer.
As Qian Zhongshu said, Lin Huiyin has a wide range of friends because her husband is "the most tame and the least obstructive." I don't know what liang Sicheng felt in his heart when he heard Qian Zhongshu say this.
Lin Huiyin did not leave Liang Sicheng in the end, but the relationship between her and Jin Yuelin was not completely severed, and the three of them lived together for many years in the name of friends.
From Liang Sicheng's position, although Jin Yuelin put down the "hoe" of digging corners, for Liang Sicheng, he could only be a passive bearer.
Therefore, when Lin Huiyin became the core of the whole scene like a flower butterfly, Liang Sicheng could only choose to cooperate with her and let himself love Lin Huiyin as wide as the sea. This is also the fundamental reason why Lin Huiyin was able to hold on to Jin Yuelin, and she was bound by Liang Sicheng's love.
Although Lin Huiyin did not cheat in marriage like Lu Xiaoman, from the moment she showdown with Liang Sicheng, it can be said that although Lin Huiyin did not physically cheat, her spirit was already there.
Why did Lu Xiaoman overturn the car one after another
There is not one derailment, only 0 times and countless times. Wang Geng is not Liang Sicheng, and Xu Zhimo is not Jin Yuelin. Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo both lived realistically.
And the foundation of Wang Geng's relationship with Lu Xiaoman is indeed not as strong as liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin, Xu Zhimo is fierce and fierce, and Lu Xiaoman's marriage foundation is soft.
The two were like dry firewood, and they could not be contained at once. But after marrying Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman still spent money like water, in order to support his family, Xu Zhimo could not afford to support her when he worked seven jobs at most.
Lu Xiaoman and Weng Ruiwu got together at home, in Lu Xiaoman's heart, the real experience is the most attractive, and Lin Huiyin is more concerned about the spiritual level of pleasure, which also causes the two people to have similar experiences, but ultimately have a completely different ending.
postscript
It is not easy to distinguish between right and wrong in feelings, Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin were together, silently understood the pressure for many years, but after Lin Huiyin's death, he continued to string one.
However, Lin Huiyin's spiritual partner Jin Yuelin chose not to marry for life, and I don't know whether Lin Huiyin regretted that she did not choose Jin Yuelin after seeing the different practices of the two under the Nine Springs.
Two different people, two different encounters, also caused two different endings, life has no if, and the legend and meaning of life are also here.