As the saying goes, lazy women attend work, this is not unreasonable, some mothers are deliberately lazy, to cultivate the child's sense of responsibility, and some mothers are really lazy, the result is to provoke the child a stomach complaint.
Beaten by his own son and ran away from home
A week ago, she had an argument with her son, who beat her up, and was injured in the face and corner of her eyes, and the sad Ms. Liu ran away from home. A week had passed, and no one in the family had come to look for her, which made her chill.
The son was even more excessive, and at every turn he asked his uncle to come and pick her up, and he also asked his father to divorce her.
These desperate actions of the son are obviously the acts of the contrarian son, but things are not as simple as they seem...
Ms. Liu came to the house with the mediator, and saw that her mother, who had been away from home for many days, and her son Shicheng did not even have half a word of concern, but a look of disgust and irritability: I had nothing to say to her, she came back, I will leave.
Shicheng is 22 years old, just married for a month, and should have enjoyed the sweet time of his new marriage, but he was overwhelmed by his mother's actions.
Shicheng said that in the week of his mother's absence, he was more relaxed than ever, his life was good, and as long as his mother was at home, he would move out with his daughter-in-law, and he would not be bothered.
It is said that mother and son have a deep affection, and the son rejects the mother so much, what happened?
Shicheng admitted that he did move, but this was all forced by his mother, look at what she did, what she did, Shicheng emotionally counted down his mother's not.
And Ms. Liu bowed her head and did not say a word, and the tears could not stop flowing.
The lazy and dirty mother on the stall, the son is miserable
Shi Cheng poured bitter water, saying that his mother was lazy and dirty, his clothes were casually thrown on the bed and on the ground, he never cleaned up, he often brought some messy garbage from outside, thrown all over the ground, not even the ground under his feet, and the original newly renovated house was made like a garbage dump by his mother.
The bed where she slept was so full of clutter that she couldn't even stretch her legs, and even then, my mother didn't bother to tidy up.
Shicheng had to clean up for a long time every time he came home, but not long after cleaning up, he was messed up by his mother, who said that the speed of cleaning would never catch up with the speed of his mother's garbage.
For his mother, Shicheng hates iron not steel, and can't help but feel pain. Once, my mother picked up a handful of beans on the road and put them in her pocket, went home and leaned on the head of the bed to play with her mobile phone, and fell asleep without taking off her clothes, so that the beans were sprinkled on the bed.
Shicheng saw his mother like this, it was very painful, sleeping was originally relaxed, but you were good, and you didn't sleep well.
Mothers often take the broken shell eggs from the chicken farm back to the room, forget to put them in the refrigerator, and the result is that the home is stinky, which not only affects the quality of sleep, but also is not conducive to the mother's physical and mental health.
There are many more things like this...
Shicheng's father, Mr. Lu, said that from the moment of marriage, he found that his wife was sloppy and did not like to be clean, and he was unwilling to clean up as a man, and he got used to it after a long time.
Ms. Liu admitted that she did not like to clean up, and she did not have time, so she went to the chicken farm together, feeding chickens, collecting eggs, sending eggs, and had no time to empty the house. Husband Mr. Lu believes that these are all excuses, on the spot to expose his wife, collect the eggs for an hour to finish, every day is to brush the mobile phone to watch videos.
Shicheng persuaded his mother many times, and asked his uncle to persuade him, but his mother was very stubborn and still went his own way, which made Shicheng feel doubly exhausted.
Shi Cheng's heart was not good for his mother, he just hated it too much, and the hatred that had accumulated for many years was ignited that day, and all of it broke out.
The laziness of his parents made him independent prematurely
Recalling his own growth experience, Shicheng was both aggrieved and sad. Since I can remember, my parents have quarreled endlessly every day, indifferent to him, and whenever they see other people's children have mother pain, he is envious to death.
The laziness and neglect of his parents made Shicheng mature and sensible prematurely, and from elementary school, he learned to help the family share, take on everything in the family, cook, do housework, and make breakfast for his parents who are still sleeping before going to school.
At a young age, he worried about everything in the family, worried about his parents, prematurely took on the pressure that his peers did not have, and Shicheng's childhood was not happy.
In his memory, his parents always quarreled and fought endlessly, completely disregarding his feelings. Once when his mother ran out in the middle of the night after a quarrel, Shicheng was worried about his mother, and followed behind, but his mother said to him fiercely: You go, I don't want you.
Even if he did it well, his mother always picked his faults and verbally attacked him, and Shicheng bluntly said that he hated his mother since he was a child.
Mother and child reconcile, starting from scratch
Shicheng said that he did not expect his mother to clean up, he and his daughter-in-law could clean up for her, and only hoped that her mother would reduce the garbage she brought into the house.
Shi Cheng exhorted his mother bitterly, in the same tone as an adult reprimanding a disobedient child. Ms. Liu listened silently and did not take a stand. She has her own ideas about this, she doesn't want her son to manage, she wants to live with her sex.
After the mediator's patient guidance, Ms. Liu regretted that when she was a child, she and her husband were busy doing business and neglecting the parenting of the children, only knowing nagging, causing the children to have great opinions about her.
Ms. Liu was full of tears, took the initiative to take her son's hand, in the face of the mother's overtures, Shicheng's soft heartstrings were touched, apologized to her mother, should not move, said that she would try to control her emotions in the future and speak well.
In order to show her determination to repent, Ms. Liu came to the house to carefully sort out her clothes and clean up.
Write at the end
The laziness of his parents makes Shicheng prematurely independent, worrying about this family, he suppresses his dissatisfaction with his parents, and grows up carefully in a loveless family environment.
The trivialities of life accumulate his dissatisfaction with his mother, and when this dissatisfaction is accumulated to the limit, the mother-child conflict is triggered. He vented his hatred, like a parent who could not control his emotions, reprimanding his mother, hating iron is not steel.
But no matter how wrong the mother is, Shicheng, as a child, should not do anything to the mother who gave birth to her, which is a great filial piety.
As a child, of course, we must point out the improper practices of our parents, but we must pay attention to the way and tone, do not reprimand without moving, and do not choose words, which chills the hearts of parents. Talk to your parents well, don't rush in tone, and show a respectful attitude, so that the other party can listen to the heart, and they are willing to make changes in their hearts.
The lazy and dirty mother on the stall, Shicheng was not taken crooked, but more diligent and sensible, taking on the burden of the family prematurely, many netizens sympathized with him, and it was painful to understand things
Lazy mother attendance baby is just a case, more facts have proved that parents are lazy, and the baby raised will only be lazier than you.
Parents are a mirror of children, the best gift to children is a role model, parents should lead by example, set a good image for their children, and set a good example.