People who say that nurturing grace is greater than giving birth to grace are either wrong in their three views, or they are traffickers or buyers. Think about the home of the lost child, how much effort has been spent in order to find the child over the years, how much suffering has been experienced, and how much pain can not be lived, which is not what ordinary people can imagine, and what is the buyer doing at this time? They occupy children who do not belong to them, and they are proud? They are not worthy of the word adoptive parents, they are buyers, and they belong to the same kind as traffickers, which is unforgivable!
Who can understand the suffering of Sun Zhuo's own parents in the past fourteen years, and under empathy, his heart is not so strong. It's not that people can't afford it, but that they steal the children of others. If he hadn't stolen from others, Sun Zhuo would have a better life than he is now.
People are buyers, not adoptive parents. Saying that they are good to Sun Zhuo is because Sun Zhuo is a man. People have two daughters in their own family, milk is not given to their own daughter to drink for this bought son, it is already very obvious, and some people say that adoptive parents are good to him. What is an adoptive parent? If the child is lost because of his own family reasons or becomes an orphan, and there is no one to take care of him, then someone adopts him, let him have clothes to wear, food to eat, and books to read, and does not have to be displaced and wandering, this is called adoptive parents. People's good children, they are abducted and sold, you buy other people's children to pass on to yourself, you say that you are good to your children, you have feelings, you are sincere, who believes this? Let's think about it, don't let things not happen to you, just persuade others to be kind and generous.
The so-called adoption is an adoption out of good intentions, and the adoptive parents have no fault, showing the goodness of people. Of course, grace is as heavy as a mountain. Sun Zhuo's adoption is a malicious adoption, the criminal suspect disguised as a parent, without the slightest regard for the harm to the child, the harm to the child's biological parents, where is the grace? In this incident, to say that nurturing grace is greater than being born is either stupid to the extreme, or destroying human nature!
Sun Zhuo's return to Shenzhen will only let the adoptive parents of those children who have not been found will no longer be good to them, and after 14 years of raising him as if he were his own child, he will return to his biological parents as soon as he finds it. Sun Zhuo saw that the conditions on his biological parents' side were good, if his parents were poor mountainous areas, would he still choose to go back?
Many people look at this matter from the perspective of their biological parents, it is really difficult for biological parents, looking for children for so many years, suffering for many years, but how many people occupy the perspective of this child to see this matter, from being abducted and sold as a child to being found in a big age, is all this he willing, suddenly being told that his biological parents have someone else, can he accept it, will being reported by so many media affect him, can he adapt to moving to a new school? Parents who have been together for so long day and night, even if they are buyers, will have feelings, and it is difficult to give up feelings to prove that this child is a normal person!
Those who are abducted and sold to raise are also called Yang En? This is a crime to deprive the biological parents of their parenting rights, and it is a crime to have their own children abducted and sold, will you try to say such unconscionable words? The child does not understand that he was abducted and sold, has been living in the family life of his adoptive parents, will not experience the pain of his own parents for a while and a half, is too young and has not experienced anything, and has not had too much emotional communication with his biological parents, so his initial decision cannot represent his true thoughts, and he can slowly understand the feelings of his biological parents.
People who say that they are raised are either traffickers or people who buy children, or relatives and friends who buy children. But no one who has a slight view of right and wrong can say such a thing. How much of a disaster is it for a family to have someone else's well-behaved child being stolen and sold? For more than ten years or even decades, the whole family has poured in and even ruined the family to find children. But anyone who has the slightest sympathy wants the child to return to the family, not to confess to the thief as a father.
Sun Zhuo had better not contact the so-called adoptive parents and two older sisters, if the contact is a harm to the biological parents. I am very happy that Sun Zhuo can return to his biological parents, most people are very happy, and his biological parents have finally come to their best. Thumbs up! In addition, it is best to persuade Sun Zhuo to return to the buyer's side, don't say this, you lost the child and then found it, you will send him to the buyer again, and then thank them for their years of nurturing grace for your children? Standing and talking does not hurt.
These people know that the child has been abducted, and they go to buy the child, just to get a boy. Good for him, still have a conscience, isn't it good for the child because of guilt? Isn't it good for him to be afraid that the truth will be punctured one day? This bad habit is also said to be nurturing grace. Biological parents, crossing thousands of mountains and rivers to find children, inner pain and suffering, can they use this grace to balance? This kind of value will only lead to the consequences of trafficking becoming cheap.
It is right to return to your parents. With Shenzhen's teaching and acceptance rate, children will only be better under the care of their biological parents. The "buyer" must be held criminally responsible for this. Human trafficking, buying and selling is the same crime, and "buyers" buying and selling people should definitely not be called "adoptive parents". The matter of human trafficking has nothing to do with "the grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of birth", is it a matter of people to abduct children from their biological parents and separate people's flesh and bones?
Yes, many parents are still more selfish, for their own pension interests, limit the development of their children, stay around, even if the biological parents also have a lot of this. Therefore, in the process of growing up, children have ideals and ambitions and have the ability to work hard, do not blindly follow their parents, and be resolute and assertive. When you are strong and strong, you have to stay around, limit your development, lack of ability, and when you are difficult to protect yourself, what else can you talk about?!
People are really bored, people don't go back to their biological parents and say that the child is not good, and it is not good to go back, so what? Hovering between Shandong and Shenzhen? The child was originally lured away by bad people, and it was not discarded by the biological parents, and the hard journey of finding so many years is also seen, returning to the biological parents is the right ah, parenting is of course gracious, but as many people say that he is only the only one in the biological parents, in the adoptive parents here can be replaced by any boy! What's wrong with going back!
Raising grace is greater than birth grace, dividing the situation, fatherly kindness and filial piety, brothers and brothers, it is normal to say that the child himself how to choose is not at fault, because he was abducted from childhood, but what is wrong with him choosing to return to his own parents? Unwilling is to see the lively masses, for the adoptive parents to hold uneven people have not thought about how people's children lost these years how to suffer over the years, do not give up any hope to find the child, although the adoptive parents have the grace of parenting, but the sale of children is against the law, when buying should think of this day, so do not over-consume this child, let the child return to normal life and learning.
There is no harm without buying and selling! Such a family affection through the pain of others, talk about grace! After all, their trade has caused the biological parents to suffer for most of their lives, what is the reason for forgiveness? May all the children who have been found return to their biological parents, so that if they buy other people's children through human traffickers, they will weigh their own efforts and the final benefits they finally get, and if there is no return on investment, they will not make any more transactions.