The reason why many single men are not smooth in the process of pursuing love is not because their conditions are not good, but because there are some common sense errors in the process of pursuit, so they have no way to get the love they want.
Because girls in the face of suitors, often through the two sides of the relationship to judge whether each other is appropriate, on the one hand, girls will decide whether to get along with each other according to the actual conditions of the suitors, on the other hand, girls will decide whether to agree through each other's feelings.
Just imagine, if a man has some common sense mistakes in the process of pursuing girls, it will leave a bad influence on girls, and there is no way to make girls feel love, and eventually men will not be able to create love with each other.
Therefore, as a man, in the process of pursuing girls, in addition to paying feelings, you also need to reflect on whether your pursuit method is correct, and make corresponding changes after reflection, so that you can satisfy the girls you like.
For example, men need to think about whether there are some mistakes when they date girls, and they also need to think about whether the way they express their feelings to girls is wrong, and only by thinking clearly about these aspects of the problem can they choose the most correct way to pursue.
In fact, in real life, many men are prone to make these three mistakes when pursuing girls, and only by changing these problems can they quickly go to the hearts of girls, and then embrace love and marriage with each other, which is the key to happiness.
1, just met the girl to confess
Many men are eager to go with each other immediately after they like a girl, so they confess to each other within a few days of just knowing this girl, and such a practice will often get a failed ending, and there is no way to succeed.
Because the feelings between men and women are gradual, only after the men and women are familiar with each other and attract each other can they come together, if this requirement is not met, then it is difficult for two people to go together, nor can they have the ultimate happiness.
In real life, some men confess to each other not long after they first met the girl, and such a practice will make the girl feel particularly abrupt, and there is no way to get the girl's heart, and finally can only usher in a failed ending.
It should be known that girls will have an investigation period when facing suitors, on the one hand, they will examine the conditions and essence of the man, and on the other hand, they will examine the situation between each other, so in many cases they will not accept a man who is not familiar with it at all.
Therefore, men cannot make this mistake when pursuing girls, and they must not confess when they first know girls, and they must improve the relationship between themselves and girls through a step-by-step way, so that they can embrace happiness.
For example, when a man first knows a girl, he should get along with each other in the way of ordinary friends, and in the process of getting along, slowly attract the girl's attention through his own advantages, so that he can launch a fierce pursuit in the back.
In addition, after men gradually become familiar with this girl, they can try to enhance their feelings for each other by dating, and they can create romance through other aspects of behavior, and eventually they can come together with each other.
In short, as a man, in the process of pursuing girls, it must not be too abrupt, not too sudden, can not be confessed to girls at the beginning, which can be said to be a very taboo problem, but also every single man must understand the situation.
2, only verbal commitment, but no practical action
Many men have this situation in the process of pursuing girls: they often promise to the girl to "love her for a lifetime", but there is no expression of actual action, always giving the girl a false feeling, and eventually ushering in the end of failure.
Many men have such a problem, they often make a certain commitment to the girl, but there is no actual action, in such a situation, the man will give the girl a very bad impression, and even make the girl feel cheated.
You should know that girls will have a kind of concern when facing emotional problems, they are afraid of encountering a man who cheats on their feelings, and they are also afraid of the non-people they entrust, so in many cases they will examine the true attitude of the suitor.
And when girls often hear men's commitments, but do not see the actual actions of men, in this state, girls will feel that this man is simply deceiving themselves, and in the later life, girls will not like this man.
So for a single man, you can't make this mistake when facing emotional problems, you need to give girls commitment, but also need to have certain practical actions, only by combining these two aspects can you embrace the love you want.
For example, while making a commitment to a girl, a man also needs to express his love for this girl through details, care a little more in daily life, and take practical actions to care for this girl in ordinary times, so that he can make the other party feel love.
In addition, when men promise to girls, they don't want space holes, can't say some things they can't do at all, and can't say some exaggerated things, otherwise they will only make girls feel that false is not enough to impress girls' hearts.
When a man can combine his commitment with practical actions, he can make the girl feel a strong sense of love, and can let the girl see his sincerity, and in the later life, the man can gradually go to the other party's heart.
3, only know how to pay, but do not know how to attract
For a man, after liking a girl, he should indeed pay for the other party, and through this method, he can indeed make the girl moved, but if he only knows how to pay but does not know other ways, it is difficult to get the girl's heart.
Because in the world of male and female feelings, if the two sides want to create love, then they must be attracted to each other, and only when two people have enough charm to attract each other's eyes, then they can come together, which is a very important factor.
However, many men do not understand this principle, they often pay a lot to the girl, and even hate to take out their hearts to the girl, but do not know how to attract each other's attention, in this situation it is difficult to achieve their goals.
Maybe girls will be particularly touched by men's efforts, and even because of men's efforts and regard this man as their best friend, but it is difficult for girls to choose to fall in love with each other because of men's efforts, which is a very realistic situation.
Therefore, if a single man wants to quickly pursue the girl he likes, then in the process, he needs to know how to attract each other, and he must not only know how to pay, otherwise he may not be rewarded for his efforts, and will usher in a failed ending.
For example, men can pay for each other after liking a girl, but it is more important to play their own charm, especially when dating each other, they should show their own advantages, so that they can make girls have an admiring eye.
In addition, men also need to think about what type of men girls like, and then let themselves become this type, such a practice not only meets the requirements of girls, but also makes themselves more excellent, and finally can get the love they want.
When men can attract girls in the process of pursuing love, they can become the ideal partner in the hearts of girls, and they can improve the success rate of pursuing this girl in the future, which is the principle that single men need to understand when facing emotional problems.
Emotional advice for The South Bridge:
In fact, for many single men, the reason why they can't catch up with girls is not because their own conditions are too poor, but because they lack enough skills in the process of pursuing girls, and even some mistakes, which is a very common problem.
Therefore, when single men face emotional problems, they should still have appropriate reflection, think more about what they have done wrong, and then make corresponding changes, so that they can make themselves better and embrace love.
Therefore, the author suggests that when single men pursue girls, it is best not to make these three mistakes, and to learn some lessons from these mistakes, so that girls can be more satisfied, and at the same time, they can meet their pursuit of love.