The doorman and the old couple "persuaded" three times to change the female college student's life

In the past two days, Liu Aiqin, a female teacher from Yinchuan, Ningxia, overcame many difficulties and finally found an old couple in Suzhou who has been thinking about for 20 years, which is the benefactor she has been thinking about for so many years. It turned out that when she came to Suzhou, Jiangsu Province, alone at the age of 18, for various reasons, she had the idea of dropping out of school three times, and an old couple who worked as security guards and cleaning on campus reached out to her when she was most lonely and helpless, which meticulously warmed the heart of the female college student and allowed her to graduate smoothly.

Due to many moves, Liu Aiqin lost contact with the old man. Recently, she finally found the elderly couple with the help of the media and the police, and last night, in an interview with Purple Cow News, she said: "If there was no help from my grandparents at that time, pulling me out of adversity again and again, maybe there would be no me now..."

Purple Cow News reporter Gu Qiuping

A word of advice

An 18-year-old girl has left home for thousands of miles to study three times and has the idea of dropping out of school three times

At 10:00 p.m. on December 13, purple cow news reporters contacted Liu Aiqin, who had just finished a busy day's work. Liu Aiqin studied in the Chinese Department of Suzhou Institute of Science and Technology (now Suzhou University of Science and Technology) in 2001, returned to her hometown after graduating in 2005, and is now a teacher at a local university in Ningxia.

Liu Aiqin told reporters that her road to study in a different place at that time was not smooth, the first time she left the small county town alone to go to college in a city 2,000 kilometers away, she was very uncomfortable, and for various reasons, she had the idea of quitting school three times. "When I was a freshman in college, I just went to suzhou, a strange city, I was not familiar with life, I felt so far away from home at once, and I regretted not reporting to a school close to home." Lonely and helpless, Liu Aiqin failed to adjust herself, coupled with the fact that her family was also very difficult at that time, and she wanted to give up and prepare to quit school.

At noon one day, Liu Aiqin, who had written an application for withdrawal from school, was ready to go to the department to find a counselor for approval, and met the grandfather of the janitor in the corridor.

"Grandpa asked me what was wrong, I told him that he was looking for a counselor and wanted to quit school, Grandpa was a little anxious when he heard that I was going to quit school, he comforted me, he felt a little unmoving me, he said', 'Don't let Grandma talk to you', he took me to their guard room, they talked to me for a long time, I was not so uncomfortable, I didn't want to quit school so much." 」 Liu Aiqin said.

Advise again

To save money every day to nibble on steamed bread The old couple of the doorman booed and asked for warmth to help

The grandfather and grandmother in Liu Aiqin's mouth are the doorman grandpa Wu Shiliang and his old partner Shen Xueying, whom he met in the teaching building at that time. This kind old couple constantly encouraged and enlightened her when she was most helpless and wanted to give up. Liu Aiqin recalled that after a period of time, because the course could not keep up, she once again had the idea of withdrawing from school, "My foundation is relatively poor, especially in English class, a little unable to keep up, and a little want to quit school." ”

Liu Aiqin said that at that time, she was relatively young, introverted, did not have a close friend around, encountered things and no one could communicate and solve, and wanted to give up, so she found a counselor again to prepare to quit school. "I was just about to go to the teacher, and I ran into my grandmother again in the building, and she enlightened me for a long time. Saying that everyone is the same when the school first starts, it is good to adjust slowly for a while. Listening to the patience and consolation of the old man, Liu Aiqin felt that she could no longer give up lightly, adjusted her mentality to meet the challenge, and slowly eliminated the idea of quitting school.

Liu Aiqin also admitted that there was another time in the middle because of military training, she thought about dropping out of school, and it was also the persuasion of her grandparents who pulled her back.

Because of the family's poverty, Liu Aiqin often only ate steamed buns in order to save money, and Wu Shiliang and his wife saw that they were very distressed, and made delicious meals every three to five to call Liu Aiqin to "open a small stove". "Grandma was cleaning in the dormitory building, and when she was done, she waited for me at the door to finish school and pulled me over to eat together."

At the beginning, Liu Aiqin was a little embarrassed, and Shen Xueying told her that you are not welcome, they are all home-cooked and eaten casually. "Grandma also chatted with me, asked me how I was reading, how my relationship with my classmates was, and cared about me very much, really like my own relatives." Slowly, Liu Aiqin did not have that sense of restraint, and walked very close to the old couple, "Grandma often made delicious food, and told me to go over and eat something." ”

In the summer vacation of her sophomore and junior year, Liu Aiqin did not go home in order to save travel expenses, and stayed in Suzhou as a tutor to earn some living expenses. "Because of the summer vacation, my grandparents went back to their hometown in Xishan, and they took me home for the weekend." The old couple made a good table to entertain her, and Wu's daughter-in-law took her to town to buy a new dress and shoes. "My aunt (Wu Lao's daughter-in-law) helped me buy a pink dress, and it's still in my hometown!" I am also reluctant to wear it, and I will wear it when there is something important, because this is not only a skirt, but also a strong friendship, which I have always cherished. ”

Reunion

Moving and accidentally losing the address Many times of searching for benefactors finally meet again

After graduating from university, Liu Aiqin returned to Yinchuan, Ningxia, became a university teacher, and she has been grateful to have maintained correspondence with Wu Lao and his wife. Later, because of several moves, Liu Aiqin accidentally lost the address of Wu's hometown and was impatient.

"In 2008, I went back to Suzhou, went back to my alma mater to find my grandparents, but they were all retired, and then called the town and the village to find it, but I couldn't find it, and at that time I was particularly disappointed and disappointed." Liu Aiqin introduced that after returning, she contacted the enthusiastic old couple in Suzhou many times, but she did not find it.

"Every time I think about those past events, I feel very uncomfortable, and I want to find my grandparents again, and I don't know if I can fulfill my wishes in this life." At the beginning of December this year, Liu Aiqin, with the psychology of trying it out, contacted the local media in Suzhou for help.

With the help of the Suzhou media and police, Liu Aiqin finally found the grandparents she thought about day and night, and a touching story that had been sealed for 20 years was known to outsiders.

On the evening of December 13, Purple Cow News reporters came to the home of the elderly Wu Shiliang in Dongcai Village, Jinting Town, Wuzhong District, Suzhou City. The 89-year-old Wu lao is not in good health, lying in bed, and he can't remember the things that he enthusiastically helped Xiao Liu 20 years ago. Shen Xueying, an 89-year-old wife, is still very healthy, and from time to time she enters the house to take care of it and stuff a quilt for Elder Wu.

After 20 years, Grandma Shen did not think about the previous events for a while, but when she was on a video call with Liu Aiqin, she recognized it at once, "It is the little Liu girl, it is not easy for her to run so far to go to college alone." Grandma Shen told the Purple Cow News reporter that at that time, the little girl was far away from home, it was very difficult to study alone, and she did not adapt to it at first and wanted to quit school, so she enlightened her several times and encouraged her to read. It is very painful to see Xiao Liu eating steamed buns all day in order to save money, "How can eating steamed buns have nutrition?" I cooked a dish and told her to come and eat it together. It's nothing, don't take it to heart. ”

She said

"Will continue and pass on this warmth and love"

"I'm so excited and happy to find my grandparents!" Liu Aiqin told the Purple Cow News reporter that the long-lost benefactor through the video that night was very excited, "Grandma actually did not change much, she has always felt quite young, Grandpa has changed quite a lot, Grandpa was quite capable at the time, looking very spirited, but that day to see Grandpa has not remembered the previous things, the heart is still particularly uncomfortable." ”

Wu Jianjun, the son of Wu Lao, said that Liu Aiqin was not a few years older than his son, and at that time, her parents felt that she had the same sense of affection as their grandchildren, so they paid more attention and helped. "My in-laws were also temporary workers at school at that time, and their monthly salaries were very small, but they were very enthusiastic, encouraging Xiao Liu three times when she wanted to quit school and help her in life." Daughter-in-law Shen Yunmei said. Seeing that Liu Aiqin now has a successful career and has both children, Grandma Shen's family is very pleased. "She has two babies and is so cute!" In the video, Shen Xueying saw the two children surrounding Liu Aiqin and also blossomed happily. "If you have time to bring your children to Suzhou to play, our whole family welcomes you!" Grandma Shen said happily.

Liu Aiqin told reporters that when she went to college in the past, she often went home to talk to her parents about suzhou grandparents helping her, and her parents were grateful and always wanted to thank her in person. She plans to bring her parents to Suzhou next summer to visit the Wu family. "Grandparents are also older, time does not allow us to wait any longer, the conditions were not allowed before, now the traffic is developed, the living conditions are a little better, I will try to see them as much as possible, express my gratitude."

"Getting the help of my grandparents changed my life, and if I hadn't had the encouragement and help of my grandparents at that time, I don't know if I was still in college." I am forever grateful for this friendship. Liu Aiqin said that as a people's teacher who teaches and educates people, she has also been practicing and continuing this love. The warmth and love that my grandparents passed on to me in those years will continue to be passed on to my students. She said that every time she encountered students who had difficulties, she thought of some of the help her grandparents had helped her at that time, "Whether it is spiritual or material help, I always remember that I will help my students within my ability." ”

During the video, Liu Aiqin also said to Mr. and Mrs. Wu: "I will continue to pass on this love that you have passed on to us." ”

Source: Yangtze Evening News