This is not an isolated case!
From the actual situation, many such siblings have an age gap of more than ten or twenty years, and some even have a difference of more than 30 years.
I would like to ask: Can you accept it?
Some netizens said: "This is simply to add chaos to the children, and when the parents are old, won't the younger brother or sister still give the sister or brother to take care of?" ”
"It's like giving birth to a son for you."
Comments like this fill the entire comment area.
A few days ago, I believe that many friends have seen such reports on a short video platform, a female college student who returned home from the winter vacation, holding a newborn baby in her arms...
Unsuspecting people thought it was: "What about the children of female college students in school!" ”
As everyone knows, the facts tell us that the truth is not like this. The baby in the arms of the female college student turned out to be her brother.
I was really confused, thinking of going home during the winter vacation to enjoy a happy holiday life, but the baby brother in my arms became a burden.
"There's nothing more tiring than babysitting"
Judging from the video content, the female college student concerned may not feel anything, after all, the facts are a foregone conclusion, and the younger brother has been born, which cannot change the status quo.
It can only be to help parents take care of it.
But the wind direction in the comment area is not like this, and many netizens have told their real family situation, which is very similar.
"As soon as I get home from vacation, I have to take care of my younger siblings because they are so young and the age gap between the siblings is too large."
Judging from this age gap, the identity of female college students is not limited to the sister, but more like a young mother.
Someone shouted, "I can't accept that."
Some of the comment areas directly complained, after all, now that they are in their 20s, parents have not consulted with themselves when they want children again, and their hearts are unbearable.
You see, the brother and sister who are 18 years apart are standing together and playing, is this like a parent-child activity?
There is fun, and children always bring joy.
In addition, some netizens are in favor of "more children and more grandchildren", in their view, parents want children without having to consult with others, adding more children to the family, is it not good?
But the actual situation tells us that raising children is not so easy. Since some college students are in their 20s and have a younger brother who is 18 years apart, his parents are at least nearly 40 years old from the perspective of age.
When the child reaches the age of 18, his parents are nearly 60 years old.
Doesn't the burden of raising a child in the end still go to the sister or brother?
The most critical question is that the sister or brother will also have their own family and will have their own children, so is the burden greater?
"My friend's parents gave birth to a younger brother in her third year of high school, and lied to him that it was her distant relative, an aunt's family, because she had been living in the school, and the child did not know until she was born."
"My friend came home from the winter break of her freshman year and found that her mother had a big belly, and then the second she got out of the car after her mother finished her maternity checkup, she jumped from the second floor in front of her mother and stepfather."
Comments like this are very unpleasant in people's hearts.
According to tradition, this is a happy thing, but reality is reality after all, and it is necessary to consider the actual situation and make a prudent decision.
I wanted a child when I was older, so I felt it was necessary to discuss it with other children.
If there is a relatively wealthy family, parents are fully capable of bringing up their children and will not bring burdens to other children, then it is not bad to add people to the family.
I am afraid that in the end, "the family will become a pot of porridge", and the addition of people will make the feelings between the existing parents and children break down, which is a little more than worth the loss.
All conditions allow, and it is actually a beautiful thing to have more children to contribute to the country and enjoy the joy of children and grandchildren around the knees.
The controversy caused by such a thing is really not small, and this is a matter of concern. The main reason is because the reality is more complicated.
What do you think about that?