Because I love you, I spoil you.
Source: Gu Qinglin (ID: Gu-QingLin)
Love is beautiful, but it is also realistic.
As Zhang Ailing said:
"I thought that love could fill the regrets of life, but what made more regrets was love." 」
Many times, we think we have met true love.
But I don't want to, the love words are warm, but they may not show the true meaning; the confession is moving, and it may not come from the heart.
The most important thing a woman should learn is to stay sane and sober in her feelings.
Even if the other party calls himself "wife", it may be "a scene".
Only when he has the following 3 titles for you, is he really in love with you.
1
"Baby/Baby"
What is love?
It is unique, it is spoiled, it is cherished.
As Hrabar said:
"When you meet the right person, he will spoil you and love you and tolerate you, even if you were full of armor and thorns before, you will become a childlike childishness, like a child's laughter and life." 」
In life, only when a man really loves you, he will regard you as his most precious existence in his heart.
Everything is based on you first, to relieve your worries, even if it is only to help you do some small things within your ability, your heart is also excited, willing, and without regrets.
It is precisely because of this cherishing that he will do his best to guard your original intention, call you "baby", and let you be a child again.
I remember that the actor Hu Xing'er once said:
"My ex and ex were great, one of them told me to be a gentle woman, one taught me to be a mature adult, but I liked the current one the most, he taught me to be a child back." 」
True love is that you are in front of him, do not have to be careful, do not have to be afraid, you can enjoy being the happiest self.
And this is also the best love a man can give you.
2
"Fool/Idiot"
Someone said:
"Loving someone will overflow from the mouth, and even a name is full of sweet love."
This point was best verified in the relationship between Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu.
Qin Hailu loves to sleep lazily, Wang Xinjun got up early to make breakfast; went out together, worried that she was tired of wearing high heels, and would take the initiative to help her carry sneakers; there was no air conditioning in the car, and immediately found a tissue to help her wipe her sweat...
As a result, Qin Hailu, the "domineering president" who is fierce in our eyes, instantly became the "lazy baby" and "little idiot" in her husband's mouth.
Especially in the variety show "Wife's Romantic Trip", a dialogue between the two is even more moving:
"Others can do so many things when they find a daughter-in-law, and you look for a daughter-in-law like a fool." Do I want to change it too? ”
"There is no need to change. Because you have changed, you are not dependent on me. If you don't rely on me, I don't have a sense of accomplishment. ”
In both of them, I saw the most innocent appearance of love:
As Zhou Guoping said:
"Love is heartache without reason and tolerance without preconditions."
Therefore, a man is willing to call you "fool" and "stupid", which at first glance sounds like a derogatory term, but in fact, these two words contain a lot of pampering and ambiguity.
If you meet, please be sure to cherish, because such a man is really in love with you.
3
Exclusive nicknames for two people
Between people -
The stranger, the more polite; the more familiar, the more greasy.
Therefore, the more people who love you, the less they will call you by your big name or full name, but will give you a nickname that only you know.
Or a childish nickname, or a silly nickname, in short, it is a story between you, which has a special meaning.
It also represents his unique love and sincerity for you.
Remember a saying that said:
"What makes people feel safe is never love, but preference, the only one."
A man who has an exclusive nickname for you must be willing to give you enough preferences for men.
Everything about you, he will treat you specially, even if it is just a small title, he has a paranoid concentration, a paranoid seriousness and a paranoid intention.
Because in his heart, you are irreplaceable.
And this feeling of not caring will make people feel very at ease and very lucky.
Because you know that whenever you turn around, he will silently wait for you.
4
Many times, love or not love, the answer is hidden in the details.
For example, the speed with which he replies to your WeChat;
For example, taking care of you when you are sick;
For example, what he calls you on a weekday...
The more detailed it is, the more he hides his love for you, and the more it shows how much he loves you.
Therefore, you must feel his love for you with your heart, and don't lose your calm and judgment because of his "wife".
Only when he calls out these 3 titles to you does it mean that he really loves you.
The rest of my life is not long, may you and I both be able to stay sane in love and meet the man who really loves himself.
Then the morning can accompany, the sunset can accompany, from then on the heart has no far, the thin water flows long, the earth is desolate.
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Author: Gu Qinglin (ID: Gu-QingLin). Don't always come to Japan for a long time, the world looks back between people walking tea cold, every night at 9:30, I am here waiting for you! Please contact wayy3908 for reproduction. Jiang, who has a story, published it with authorization, please contact the original author for reprinting.
Lucky to meet, just in time.