Author | Wansheng
Source | Gu Qinglin (ID:Gu-QingLin)
"Feel bitter? Chewed and swallowed..."
This sentence is a sentence that Zhou Bingkun said to his son in the popular TV series "The World of Man".
At that time, it was not too touched, but later, after carefully tasting, I understood the reasoning and weight.
Life, after all, is a lonely feast.
No matter how much prosperity there has been, how much noise has passed, in the end, everyone is walking alone.
As Marquez put it:
"All the splendor in life must eventually be repaid with loneliness."
Since this is the case, it is better to be your own ferryman, while experiencing wind and rain, while learning to grow.
Then he slept with the conditions of the years, was with the sun and the moon, and reconciled with time.
No need to be extravagant
Everyone understands your joys and sorrows
Liu Liangcheng said:
"The snow that falls on you in your life cannot be seen by others, and everyone spends the winter alone in their own lives."
Some people think it's too miserable, but it's actually the opposite.
Human sorrow and joy are not the same, and others will not bear the burden for you because of your cries, nor will they bear for you because of your cries.
On the contrary, the more you talk, the more upset and noisy others become.
The world is like this, like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
So --
Bittersweet taste alone, but it is a taste of life;
Good or bad is good to carry one person, but it is the vicissitudes of time.
As long as you learn to hold your own umbrella, there is no endless scenery to see, and there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.
Survive, the sky will always be clear.
As Uncle Bei said:
"The world doesn't feel empathy, it's just the strength to continue to rush after you dry your tears."
Do not depend on people, do not rely on people, just make your own armor.
From then on, not being humble, not complaining, not crying, is the only stepping stone to happiness.
In the quiet
Be strong without panic
Have you ever had a breakdown as an adult?
I think the answer for a lot of people is – "there was".
Maybe it's not a hoarse cry, maybe it's not a chest-pounding out-of-control, but under the seemingly calm "disguise", the heart has long been full of holes.
But there's a good saying:
There is no template for life, just a heart lamp. If laughter can make you feel relieved, laugh, and if crying can make you less stressed, let the tears flow.
Just after crying, remember to dry your tears and move on.
Especially in the face of adversity, a little more perseverance, gritted your teeth and survived the saddest moment, people can regain a new life.
Remember King Chu Zhuang's lying down?
In the face of setbacks and suffering, he did not complain, but endured loneliness, silent accumulation, planning and then moving.
Finally, like the rising sun, it broke through the darkness and made a splash.
Nietzsche said:
"Whoever shakes the earth with his voice will be silent for a long time."
No one is born strong, they all draw strength from suffering, they become strong in silence.
Only when a person faces, a person grows, and is bittersweet can we reach the other side of life and obtain inner peace.
There are cracks in everything
Where there is light, there is hope
The sadder the world, the happier I want to be.
When the heart is more sinister, the kinder I am.
When setbacks come, I have to stand up for them.
I want to be an optimistic person, not to shrink back, not to give in, not to complain, to be brave enough to accept all the challenges of life.
Life is like this, there will always be some small to the point of not being able to do it, disappointing, frustrating moments.
But so what?
If no one holds an umbrella, he will make his own eaves; if he has no one to accompany him, he will be with heaven and earth.
The more difficult it is, the stronger it is, the more difficult it is, the more optimistic it is.
We always have to fantasize about the world, because where there is light coming in, it is called hope.
There is light in the heart, and it is the past!
With a breeze, ascend to the distance, embrace the sun, warm illumination.
With strength, optimism, and positivity, laugh at the ups and downs of this world.
Let it be terrifying, the heart is still open-minded and calm, and the fireworks are as usual.
"There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to love life after seeing the truth of life."
Roman Rolland's words let us see the truth of "strong".
The life of an adult is a continuous collapse and then habitual self-healing.
Except for self-crossing, others can't help it.
But one thing is certain, when you get through the storm, you're long gone.
At that point, you'll be thankful for the self who didn't give up and compromise at that time!
Click [in the watch], for the rest of your life, may you and I survive the thorns, but also survive the suffering, do not complain, do not bow their heads, do not grievances, do not please.
After the cold winter, it is the warm blossoms of spring!
About author: Wan Sheng, Source: Gu-QingLin. Don't always come to Japan for a long time, the world looks back between people walking tea cold, every night at 9:30, I am here waiting for you!