Bedding is the best test of whether a man loves you or not

Listen to happiness with you every night

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Author: Gu Qinglin (ID: Gu-QingLin)

Venus said, "The witness of marriage is not a ring, but a bed." ”

Although this sentence is only a few words, it is very philosophical.

Compared with the tens of millions of gold jewelry diamonds, a person's "performance" in bed is actually more able to reflect his love.

For example, he hurts you for having insomnia and brings you a cup of hot milk every night.

For example, he knows you're afraid of the dark, so he always turns on the bedside lamp for you.

On a small bed, you can not only witness a person's most gentle restraints, but also perceive his thoughtfulness and gentleness from the details.

This kind of action that penetrates the breath of life is not the most affectionate confession?

01

Embracing each other on the bed is the persistence of the fading passion

A reader once left a message in the background.

She said she had severe insomnia, so she often couldn't fall asleep in the middle of the night.

But the husband who was affected by this never complained, and even every time he would hug her, tuck the corners of the quilt for her, pat her back, and alleviate her anxiety that she could not sleep...

Reading these words at that time made me feel that the cold words had the temperature of love.

Perhaps, this is the best thing about love.

I embrace you, you hold me at ease, and I sleep in each other's arms at night, but it has nothing to do with desire or passion.

Just because of the deep affection in the heart.

And this affection, even decades later, will not diminish in the slightest.

Just like the description of a sentence on the Internet ——

"People who want to sleep with you don't necessarily love you, but people who love you must want to sleep with you, and only want to sleep with you for the rest of their lives." 」

Adult feelings, all in bed.

People who don't love you, always with their backs to you, no bedtime sharing, no momentary warmth.

And the people who love you are willing to rub elbows with you, sleep with you, and say good morning to you.

This kind of love falls on eating, drinking, and sleeping, plain and gentle.

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Companionship before the delivery bed is a deeply meaningful choice

Read a sentence:

"For a woman, the best love is not how much to give, but when to give."

When women give birth, they are most lonely and helpless.

If a man is unwilling to accompany him at this time, then the love in his mouth can be imagined how false it is.

In the documentary "Shengmen", the most impressive is a 33-year-old maternity Xia Jinju.

During childbirth, she underwent four major blood changes, two cardiac arrests, and almost died on the operating table.

But at this time, the husband who was supposed to be with her, but under the pretext of being "busy with work", never appeared.

I can't say for sure if he really has a hard time, but I know that this man must not love Xia Jinju.

Because there is a saying:

"The physical pain of having a child may be healed, but the trauma caused by the husband's indifference and ruthlessness may not be erased for a lifetime."

If a man really loves you, how can he be willing to leave you alone to bear this pain?

It is precisely because you do not love that you will be so indifferent, even if you will lose your life, you will not be able to impress him in the slightest.

Only a man who truly loves you will try his best to be with you, even if he can't afford it, at least he won't stand idly by.

So, just want to know if a man really loves you and have a baby.

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The care of the hospital bed is a commitment that is not abandoned

"I am willing to marry her, no matter how sick or healthy, no matter how poor or rich, I love her, take care of her, respect her, accept her, and remain loyal to her forever until the end of my life." 」

This sentence is the most touching vow at the wedding.

But the men who swore an oath at the beginning could finally do very little.

In real life, there are many abandonments and despairs of "flying separately when the big trouble is coming".

I saw a news item before.

Ms. Zhang of Liaoning Province once felt unwell and went to the hospital for examination only to learn that she had breast cancer.

As a result, after the husband who has been married for more than twenty years knows, he only leaves 2,000 yuan and completely disappears...

The phone is turned off, WeChat is blocked, and there is no hesitation and reluctance to go.

Such a man does not even have a basic sense of responsibility and responsibility, let alone that he loves you.

So Chen Daoming said:

"The love between husband and wife is not at the end of the moon before the flower, but when great trouble is imminent."

True love is not only the icing on the cake when the spirit is strong, but also the suffering and sharing when it is sloppy.

Only men who love you will take good care of you when you are sick and never give up when you are sad.

This is his unchanging commitment, but also his unchanging original intention.

Bedding is character, love to see people's hearts for a long time.

Because --

"What really drives love is not intense love, but trivial time.

True love is also in the details.

In his subconscious mind, he raises his hands and feet to protect you. ”

If there is a person who can hug you in the bed, can accompany you to the delivery bed, can take care of you in the hospital bed.

Then this person really loves you and is worth entrusting himself to for life.

If you are lucky enough to encounter it, please cherish it!

Author: Gu Qinglin (ID: Gu-QingLin). Don't always come to Japan for a long time, the world looks back between people walking tea cold, every night at 9:30, I am here waiting for you!

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