Wen 丨 West Wing has feelings
Time is not long, may you be in my words, see you not too late!
A woman, like a book, needs to be studied carefully to truly understand her.
It is often said that different people have different Hamlets in their hearts. Similarly, every woman has a multifaceted nature that she wants you to see.
Just like the "Painted Carambola" that we learned when we were children, the carambola seen from different angles has different shapes.
And women, in the process of knowing her, getting to know her, liking her, and "getting" her, she will certainly not be static.
There is a big difference between women before and after love, so in real life, there will be many men complaining: Why does she change so much after being together?
But in fact, if you experience it with your heart, it is not difficult to find that after being "done" by you, she is not as well-behaved and gentle as she began, and may be more often "noisy".
But you have to understand that this is not a sign of loving you. After all, one of the performances of a woman after being "screwed" by you is hilarious!
Women are like cats, after being "fixed" by you, they will also be as clingy as cats.
In the beginning, you may be like the owner of a kitten in a pet store, she tends to be very well-behaved and docile in front of you.
And when you take her home and let her integrate into your life, she will slowly "make a fuss".
You will find that cats are no longer so timid and less docile. Like her after being by you, she is like a cat, starting to toss in front of you and starting to stick to you very much.
Cats are the most clingy animals, and so are women. When she feels that you are her dependence, she will become "unscrupulous", lose her temper, want you to coax her, turn around and be eager to be by your side anytime and anywhere.
There is a saying that is right: "When a woman does not love you, she will be rational, well-behaved, obedient and have no complaints." "After a woman is fixed by you, the WeChat she sends always hopes that you will return in seconds, and her phone always hopes that you will pick up the first time."
At this time, a woman may be clingy enough to make you disgusted, and for a long time, she may be so clingy, or she may be unreasonable, but this may be the way she loves you after being "done" by you.
Women, because they are "fixed" by you, they will become suffering from loss and loss.
Remember the marriage between Wang Mingxuan and Jiang Xinyao in the TV series "Rules Before Divorce", what you see before marriage is love, and what you see after marriage is reality.
After Wang Mingxuan found a job, Jiang Xinyao became "noisy" at home, she was like a changed person, becoming suffering from gains and losses, completely insecure.
In getting along with Wang Mingxuan, she would force Wang Mingxuan almost every day: Do you still love me? And Wang Mingxuan also changed from answering lovingly at the beginning to being perfunctory until he was bored.
In fact, most women will not be rational in their feelings, more emotional. After being together, maybe your circle just adds one to her, and her circle may only have one you left.
Women are the most insecure in a relationship, as SuZen said: "Women's minds are too fine, and people who are too careful will always have a good life." ”
After paying the heart, the woman will think about many things in her head, and you need to understand that her fuss is not unloving, on the contrary, because she cares too much, she will be afraid of losing.
In her consciousness, you are hers, but if she does not feel the same response, she may think wildly for a day and start to make a fuss.
However, no matter how much she makes a fuss, the root cause is that she has taken you as her dependence.
Women, because they are "fixed" by you, will become very possessive.
"Possessiveness" has never been used only to describe men, men and women, and once she determines that it is you, then she will never show less possessiveness than you.
She will be jealous because you look at other women more, she needs only her in your eyes; she will also lose her temper because you praise other women, and she hopes you can see more of her good;
She will also think that you are out there picking flowers and weeds because you do not reply to your messages in time, and she hopes that she is partial to you;
She will think that you have a good feeling for other women because you have liked other women in the circle of friends, and she hopes that your opposite sex world has a boundary;
She will also feel that you are perfunctory because you reply "um, oh, oh, heh", and she hopes that she will always be the treasure you hold in the palm of your hand.
In short, when she is "fixed" by you, once she identifies you, she will be single-mindedly good to you. Of course, she would like to get an equal response.
You will find that she may ignore you normally, but once you touch her bottom line, then she is the rabbit that can only bite people.
After being in love for a long time, men may not feel as much love as before, while women are more and more in love. So you have to understand that all the fuss is because she loves you more and more and has a strong possessiveness towards you.
Conclusion:
What does it look like for a woman to fall in love with someone? Will she get more and more well-behaved? No, she will become more and more "noisy".
However, a woman's "noisy" is by no means unreasonable, but wants to get more attention and love from you, and her "noisy" will not take the initiative to touch your bottom line.
A woman's "fuss" is a means, a way to love you, and also a performance that depends on you.
Women's "fuss"
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Prove that she is not deliberately disguised in front of you, and true temperament is the premise of long-term relationship.
Studies in gender psychology have shown that the more "fussy" a woman is, the more men like it.
So, when a woman is "screwed" by you, she will become more and more noisy. But, in the same way, women who will "make a fuss" will also make men love more and more.
We will meet many people in this lifetime, and the probability of two people meeting and knowing each other is only 0.00487, and the probability of falling in love is even lower.
Therefore, when you meet the person who is making a fuss around you, please cherish it.