Sometimes we long to have a sweet love, to love and be loved, but when that person appears and wants to develop with us further, we are afraid of underground conscious rejection.
"I'll Be Better in the Next Life"
In front of the people you like, you obviously care about it but you have to pretend to be indifferent, and you want to get close but keep moving away.
Have you ever had such a time?
I once asked a friend, why don't you want to be in love?
She thought about it and said, I seem to have some kind of illness, once I fall in love with someone, all my suspicions, fears, doubts, stinginess, jealousy, will run out with love and frantically pounce on the person I love.
I couldn't convince myself, I couldn't comfort my lover, I didn't want to fall in love, I was just afraid of that stubborn self.
Like the line in "The Little Prince":
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I think that the meaning of love lies in the extreme desire for love, without too many worries and messy thoughts, too many ideas, that proves that I still don't want to talk.
Such a state is not always there, it always appears from time to time, and there may be a gap of three, four, five or six years in between.
Sex Education
At this time, we generously love others and accept being loved with openness, and we are far more happy than tired, and we gain far more than we lose. Just as the so-called love is always young, the person who always yearns for love will always be young until he finds another destiny.
Many netizens ridicule themselves, usually shouting that they are lonely, once someone approaches and resists, they circle around outside the door of love. Now it seems that it is not a big deal.
It's just that your passion for love hasn't really appeared yet, or the person who led you into love hasn't come.
There will always be one of the two.