"Phobia" is a little devil

In each of our hearts, there is a little devil called "Phobia", which will jump out from time to time and sneak up on you when you are not paying attention.

The greatest enemy a person faces is fear. Fear can bring great resistance to your life, and it will have different rents on your physical and mental health, family relationships, social life, etc. In this world, I don't know how many people are afraid of the past, afraid of the future, old, afraid of death. But fear is only a thought in your mind, and what scares you is only your own thoughts.

Rove Waldo Emerson said, "Do what you are afraid to do, and fear will naturally disappear." Dale Carnegie also said, "If you make up your mind to overcome fear, you can overcome almost any fear." Because, remember, there is nowhere to hide fear except in your mind. "Fear is like a spring, you are strong it is weak, you are weak it is strong, the more you avoid it, the more you avoid it, the more it deceives people too much, only if you despise it and challenge it, it is possible to overcome it." 」

Thomson is the General Manager of a cultural media company. When he first arrived at the company, he worked as an advertising salesman. His boss at the time was a very competent man. One day, the boss approached Thomson and said to him, "You're very good, and I'm sure you can be even better." One thing I hope you can agree to, you will make adjustments to your salary in the future, I mean, in the future, your basic salary will be gone, and you will only take the commission according to the advertising fee, of course, the proportion of the withdrawal will be greater than before. Obviously, this put some pressure on Thomson, and for Thomson's life situation at that time, it was tantamount to Giving Thomson a big problem. But Thomson knew that his boss had a reason for doing so, not to mention that it was also a challenge to himself. After that, through his own efforts, he rose step by step. This proves that the phobia can be completely overcome and make yourself better.