Many parents will panic as long as the baby cries, and they cannot accurately judge what the situation is, so they have no way to start and cannot find a solution. Most parents don't want their children to cry, and when they cry, they use all kinds of methods to coax them. Before speaking, crying is the language in which children communicate with others to convey their needs, and crying is beneficial to physical and mental development.
Babies crying is not all about physical discomfort or illness, but often also due to emotions or due to some need.
Crying is good for the body and mind
If you cry due to illness that causes physical discomfort, the child will generally have certain symptoms, such as fever and cold or stomach pain and other diseases, in addition to crying, the child will also be accompanied by fever or rolling situation. Usually, parents will perceive by common sense that if it is not because of illness and crying, it is beneficial to the physical and mental development of children.
First of all, it is beneficial to increase lung capacity, promote blood circulation during the process of crying, facilitate the exchange of gases with each other, more oxygen will be inhaled, and also make carbon dioxide excreted to increase lung capacity. Babies with large lung capacity are not only in good health, but also provide enough oxygen to the brain, which is beneficial to brain development.
Secondly, crying is a kind of exercise, crying is also a matter of physical exertion, some children cry with red faces and sweat, and the process takes effort. For babies who can't turn over or crawl or walk, crying is also a sport.
When crying, it consumes physical strength, promotes rapid peristalsis of the stomach and intestines, helps to absorb and digest, and enhances appetite.
Finally, to promote brain development, babies cry when there is a need, cry when there is emotion, and they express different needs through crying. If you realize that adults do not understand the meaning of their crying, they will also use body movements to express the need again, this series of processes is also the process of exercising the child's brain, in the continuous exercise, it is also beneficial to the child's brain development.
With an urgent need for the family to understand and satisfy, the child has the desire to speak and promote the development of language skills.
Decipher the emotions and meanings behind the crying
When the baby can't speak, thirsty, hungry, pulling urine need to be passed on to the mother with crying, the baby's crying is very learned, interpreting the meaning of 15 different cries, parenting has become less difficult.
1, hungry
Babies under 3 months of age should be fed as needed, hungry to feed, there is no strict time interval. So many times when a baby of this month cries, mom and dad think they're hungry.
Hungry crying is extremely irritable, and the mouth will move, due to physiological reflexes the eyes will search around, the head will turn back and forth, if the mother touches him with her hand, the baby's eyes will follow the manual, or there is a phenomenon of eating fingers.
2, thirsty
Whether it is eating breast milk or milk powder, you need to replenish the right amount of water, once you drink it, your mouth will dry up and you will behave irritable. Not only will he cry but he will also keep licking his mouth, and after feeding the water, the needs will be met and the child will calm down.
3, pee
After the baby pees, the diaper is not changed in time, and it is very uncomfortable and will cry to express dissatisfaction. At the same time, the body will move randomly, the small feet will also be chaotic, once the mother finds out that the diaper is not wet, the baby will naturally be quiet when it is comfortable.
4, want to move
When children have no autonomy at all, even the most basic turning over or changing postures needs to rely on adults. If you lie in the same position for a long time, the baby is tired and wants to move, and will cry, which is asking the mother for help, hoping to be picked up and moved.
If you find that your baby is restless when he cries, and his little hands and feet are moving randomly, you must realize that your baby wants to change position.
5, eat too full and uncomfortable
When feeding the baby, even very experienced mothers may not be able to fully grasp the baby's food intake, and it is inevitable that sometimes too much is fed, and the baby cannot express it. Eating too full, it is difficult to digest for a while, the baby's stomach is uncomfortable, the crying reaction is more intense, and the little feet will continue to pedal. Even some babies will leak milk, and after a while their stomachs will be more comfortable and they will stop crying.
6. Irritability
Everyone has mood swings, and the baby will also have irritable times, such as taking it out for a walk, and the child will have emotions if he does not like the outside environment, showing irritability and crying. The body will also writhe, look around, and be restless.
7, sleepy, want to sleep
Babies without autonomy cannot fall asleep on their own when they are sleepy, and sleepiness makes him uneasy and crying, and he will rub his eyes. The mother pays attention to the baby's state, finds signs of drowsiness, and falls asleep in time.
8, fear of black
Many babies can't adapt to the transition from day to night right away, fear dark, and cry. Parents need to pay attention to turning on the lights in time after dark to eliminate the baby's sense of fear.
In addition, pay attention to the regularity of work and rest, control the daytime sleep time, and after dark at night, the baby can fall asleep on time.
9, too cold
When sleeping or when the child is playing, he will cry if he feels cold. If you find that the baby's hands are relatively cold, and even the lips are purple, and there is a situation of trembling, you must pay attention to keep warm in time, or open the heating equipment.
10, too hot
Baby is very sensitive to the external environment, too cold or too hot are uncomfortable will show crying, if you find that crying has sweated, and the small face is red, you must pay attention to judge whether the ambient temperature is high The child is hot, and hold it in time to the moderate temperature environment.
11, easy to ignore the pain
Young babies do not have awareness of the surrounding things and environment, and sometimes accidentally touch their hands and feet or bodies by objects next to them, cry when they feel pain, or cry when they are uncomfortable with mosquito bites and itch, and so on.
If you exclude the physiological needs of hunger, drinking, etc., the baby is crying for unknown reasons, it is necessary to check all parts of the body, whether there is pain that is easy to ignore, such as checking which parts are touched and hurt.
12. Lack of security
The baby can't see his family after sleeping and wakes up, or is insecure after entering an unfamiliar environment, psychologically afraid, and can't express it, only crying. Parents must pay attention to the length of the baby's sleep time, make sure that when he wakes up, he can find the adult at the first glance and give him enough security.
13. Uncomfortable when drinking milk
When feeding, the baby feels uncomfortable, such as using a lot of force to suck, has not been able to eat milk, or the bottle mouth is not suitable, too big to be choked, too small to suck and laborious, these situations will make the baby uncomfortable.
Feeding needs to be careful, eliminate all possible hidden dangers, so that the baby can eat with peace of mind, and he will be quiet.
14. Symptoms of stool
When the baby wants to defecate, due to the rapid peristalsis of the stomach, it will feel uncomfortable, the baby will cry, and the stool will return to calm after solving the stool.
15, the outside world makes him uncomfortable
The baby's life needs adult care, and many times adults, will not understand the child's feelings, in the undress or bath, the action is slightly inattentive, will make the baby feel uncomfortable and cry to show resistance, this is he is expressing dissatisfaction.
Pillow Parenting Message:
Babies come into this world with cries at birth, and the first cry brings hope to the family and joy to the parents. But in the process of raising the baby's every cry will make the parents helpless, before learning to speak, the cry is the baby's way of communicating with the outside world, which is a natural ability.
Whether it is a physical or psychological need or a sick or emotional condition, the most prominent manifestation of the baby is crying, if you understand the meaning behind the crying and the baby's emotions, parenting will become simple.
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