In the relationship, we often doubt each other, whether they are as loving as ourselves, especially when some opinions are inappropriate, this doubt is even heavier.
In the face of a relationship, let yourself be in a dilemma, want to let go, afraid of missing true love, continue to love, and afraid of being hurt.
One is like a departure, the other is sincerely afraid, both entangled and distressed.
The authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, and in a relationship, if you can stay sober, you will not lose yourself.
If a person really loves you, it can still be seen in some details.
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He will tolerate you and indulge you, but also depend on you and need you.
There's a saying: You're making trouble, he's laughing. No matter how unreasonable you are, he will look at you with spoiled eyes.
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and teeth and tongues are bitten no matter how good they are.
No matter how harmonious two people get along, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions, there are disagreements, it does not matter, the most important thing is how to deal with problems when there is disagreement between two people.
Do you stand by your own opinion, or do you stand in the other person's shoes and consider the other person?
The person who truly loves you will first stand up and bow his head and admit his mistake, which does not mean that he is not necessarily at fault, but he does not want some external factors to affect the feelings between the two people.
People who truly love you are reluctant to make you sad.
People who truly love you will always think about you from your point of view, rather than being selfish enough to think only of their own situation.
People who truly love you will not have an overnight vendetta against you.
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Because I love you, I understand you, because I understand you, and I know how to love you even more.
True love is to transform each other into a better version of themselves, not to fall.
True love is to give and make appropriate sacrifices for each other, rather than becoming a drag on the other party.
True love is that each other can draw nourishment from it, not make each other worse.
True love is mutual progress, not more and more negative.
True love is not a coincidence, not a will, but mutual appreciation, mutual admiration.
In "The Dream of the Covered Bridge", 52-year-old Jin Kai met 45-year-old Francesca, and the two fell in love at first sight.
Because I love you, I understand you, because I understand you, and I know how to love you even more.
Kinkai understands Francesca's heart, understands her situation, understands her life, understands her difficulties.
In the end, Kinkay chose her way to love her—to leave, to hide the love deeply, and to be the best love for Francesca.
True love is to be able to make the other person happy, not to make the other person embarrassed.
True love is to love in the way that you know Him, not to selfishly possess it with your own selfish desires.
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He will choose to use marriage to maintain the love between you and accompany you.
Companionship is the longest confession of affection, if the man and the woman are unmarried at the age of love, when the love of two people heats up to a certain extent, they want to use marriage to maintain for a long time.
What can be thought of maintaining with marriage is absolutely true love, which means being responsible for you.
In life, there are always some people who say honey words about loving you, but never want to talk to your future, nor mention marriage, it is best to stay away as soon as possible.
Don't fall into his gentle township, and finally wait for a game and suffer yourself.
In life, there are always some people who say they love you, but never let you enter his circle of life, and do not care about your feelings, break up early.
Because she can't give the results you want, waiting is equivalent to wasting youth.
Someone who truly loves you, she will let you into his social circle, he will be with you in your life, and must be by your side when you need it.
He is willing to give you a name, he will be responsible for you, and to truly love someone is to be responsible for the other person.
If the person who says you love you ignores you and is irresponsible, saying goodbye early and stopping the loss in time is your best policy.
In life, if you meet someone who is willing to be responsible for you, remember to cherish it, because some misses, and you can't get it back with a lantern.
May everyone be able to meet the person who is really good to you at the right age, and the person who is willing to be responsible for you, remember to cherish it, and some misses are a lifetime.