Introduction: Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, and the elderly are no exception.
But no matter whether we are longing, we must first distinguish between this relationship, whether it is true happiness, whether it contains sweetness, or poison, and whether this happiness of ourselves will bring bad influence and burden to our own families.
If you can't even distinguish these things, then this is not happiness, just a mirror flower, a moon, but purely for their own selfish desires to enjoy.
Event review: The 71-year-old Uncle Wu can be described as a person who is in good spirits every time he is happy, and the whole person walks lightly and flutteringly, and he is happy.
His son, on the other hand, was the complete opposite of his self-enjoyment. When Brother Wu mentioned his father's marriage, he was full of sorrow and remorse, and he regretted letting the woman enter the door.
For his father's current mess, Big Brother Wu only had two words in his heart--bad heart.
Obviously, as a family, why can they show two completely different reactions, and what kind of things are Uncle Wu and Brother Wu struggling with?
It turned out that Uncle Wu had only been married to Sister Wang for 2 months, and when he talked about his girlfriend who was 30 years younger than himself, Uncle Wu was full of red light and very proud.
It turned out that Sister Wang was already two months pregnant, which was a windfall for the lonely Uncle Wu in his later years. The son's reaction made Uncle Wu extremely unhappy, this son is really not good, not only questioning the sincerity of his girlfriend, but also doubting whether the 71-year-old himself still has fertility.
With a look of pride on Uncle Wu's face, he said, "My ability is strong, you are incomparable, what I have done myself, I know very well, this child is mine, I am sure." ”
Big Brother Wu sneered, looked at the 71-year-old father who seemed to be full of confidence, he said: "You are more than 30 years older than her, there are actually young men around her, she suddenly married you, is it what do you like, you tell me?" You go for a paternity test, and you know that this woman has set up a bureau and you have been deceived. ”
When Uncle Wu heard this, he immediately jumped up and wanted to rush up to teach the unguarded son in front of him. He roared loudly at his son: "You dare to frame your stepmother like this, then do you want to deny me as a father?" Do you believe it or not, I'm going to slap you in the mouth? ”
From the fierce quarrel between Brother Wu and his father, we find that the truth of the matter is far more complicated than we see on the surface.
The two sat on either side of the mediator, and the purpose of getting together was also very clear, that is, to coordinate the views of father and son about Aunt Wang, so that the family that had been in dispute for a long time could regain peace.
Brother Wu told the mediator: "The girlfriend my father is looking for has obvious problems, my father is 71 years old, and the difference between her and Sister Wang is 30 years, even I don't know whether to call her mother or sister, and this woman also has a husband, I am really worried that my father has been deceived." ”
Hearing that his sharp-hearted girlfriend was questioned, this made Uncle Wu on the side unable to sit still and began to explain for his girlfriend, saying that Sister Wang had long been divorced and was now a clean person.
But where would Big Brother Wu believe his father's words, only to feel that his father was blinded. Seeing that his son did not believe it, Uncle Wu began to accuse his son of never supporting himself.
Now that I have found true love, instead of blessing, I obstruct it, which is a great act of rebellion.
At the same time, Sister Wang also immediately picked up, saying that she had recently discovered that her husband had betrayed herself, but no matter what opportunity she gave, her husband was always hurting himself, so he broke off with her husband together, so with Uncle Wu, there was a de facto marriage, which was completely justified.
Looking at the two people like glue, as the son's big brother Wu, he couldn't suppress the anger in his heart.
Suo Sex also did not want to bend with the two people to play dumb, and said bluntly: "Sister Wang, who is 30 years younger, is so dead to her father, to put it bluntly, it is for the property left by her father after his death." ”
At this time, Uncle Wu couldn't hold back, how could he make his girlfriend endure such a grievance, directly get up and scold, at the same time, The elder sister Wang on the side also deliberately arched the fire: "You are my stepson, do you want to beat me?" ”
The angry Elder Brother Wu didn't even think about it, and replied directly, "Think! ”
At this point, Uncle Wu on the side was completely annoyed, you are not dead, you are like this, if you die, you must not turn the sky.
He roared loudly at his son: "You dare to beat your stepmother, so do you want to beat me as a father?" ”
The daughter-in-law on the side could not help but watch the once amiable father-in-law become so strange, and she also firmly supported her husband's idea.
But the father-in-law is completely like a crazy beast, desperately defending his girlfriend, and pouring out his anger at his daughter-in-law on the side.
At this time, the last string in Brother Wu's mind was also broken, and he grabbed the bench with his hand and smashed it at his father, but he didn't expect that his father was really old and strong, and after flexibly avoiding it, he didn't show any weakness and picked up the bench on the ground and smashed it his son.
His strength this time was completely confiscated, and Uncle Wu directly hung a color for his son.
However, the injured Wu Brother was even more irritable, and chased after his father, but in the end he did not make a move, and was pulled by the people on the side and stayed in place.
At the same time, the daughter-in-law saw that her husband was injured and directly entangled with Sister Wang, and a family that was originally peaceful and peaceful became a chicken and a dog because of the woman in front of her.
The daughter-in-law with the dominant height easily pinched Sister Wang, but Uncle Wu on the side could not stand up and dared to attack his girlfriend?
Picking up the wooden strip on the ground, he slashed at the daughter-in-law's head, obviously one of the sons just now had not been addicted, and once again gave a heavy hand to his daughter-in-law.
A good mediation meeting was staged by the Wu family as an all-martial arts act.
Uncle Wu explained bitterly to the mediator: He just wanted to find someone who could accompany him in his old age, so why did he have to be blocked? Sons and daughters have become a family, why can't they let themselves pursue their own happiness?
At this time, the daughter-in-law on the side silently came over and said that since she felt that Brother Wu was greedy for the old man's money, then we would write an agreement to sever the relationship, and the white paper and black characters would clearly distinguish us.
At this time, the mediator who had done nothing in front of him stood up and stood on the moral high ground and said: No matter what kind of confusion Uncle Wu has committed, you are obliged to support Uncle Wu and have no right to refuse. ”
Big Brother Wu said bluntly: "Now the most important thing about this pair of twilight love is not the money problem, but the reputation of the Wu family in the town, Sister Wang is everywhere in the town to show that she is pregnant with Uncle Wu's child, and now the whole town is watching the jokes of the Wu family." Besides, the father is now 71, is the child his? Then you go to the paternity test, and who should be raised after the birth of the child. ”
Not to say that this is okay, as soon as he said that Uncle Wu was energetic again, he shouted in his throat: "Who wants you to take care of it!" ”
Sister Wang, who was beside her, saw that her stepson was still so unwelcome with herself, and threatened to leave Uncle Wu and no longer have a relationship with the Wu family.
However, Uncle Wu, who had been busy for half a day, was willing to say that he wanted to live separately from his son and pursue his own happiness. The next mediator was another piece of advice, so that Brother Wu could not rebel and completely cut off the idea of expelling Sister Wang.
After Uncle Wu's mood eased up a bit, he also said that he was not sure whether the child was his own, he hoped that the child was his own, and it was a beautiful thing to have a son after all.
Coupled with the fact that he thinks that his son does not care about himself, so he wants to find a wife and accompany each other to live a life, and now he will try to overcome the problem and wait until the child is born.
But Brother Wu was unwilling, he felt that when people were old, they should be a little more peaceful, don't cause trouble for the younger generations, no matter what, he wouldn't recognize this stepmother.
Author's point of view: Uncle Wu's performance is really disappointing, and if he wants to make his son accept his girlfriend, he does not rely on fists and rogues, but reasonable reasons.
Uncle Wu did not see the slightest affection for his family members who had been with him day and night, and he had no scruples about it, and he was completely indifferent.
Even if you really love each other, you must know that your son is at least thinking about him now, and using facts or solutions to prove his happiness to his son is the most correct means.
In fact, we can also understand Uncle Wu's thoughts, in his later years, his ex-wife has remarried, and the children of the family have set up their own small families, and they are like the lone ghosts in the whole family, no one wants, no one cares.
At this time, a young, gentle woman suddenly appeared who was willing to follow her with a dead heart, and the fall of Uncle Wu was also forgivable.
Here we have to criticize Brother Wu, as a son for the father in his later years whether to fulfill the obligation of support, let's not say, the most basic accompaniment has not been done, the father's desire at this time, in fact, there is a large part of the reason, is in the body of Brother Wu himself.
If we don't want to have a father who is looking for warmth outside, then as a child, we must fulfill the obligation of support, fill the emptiness and loneliness in the heart of the elderly, and companionship is the best medicine.