Text: Xi Xihuan
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Now many women feel that men and women are equal, and those men with machismo ideas often do not get the obedience of women in the relationship, but will make women unwilling to accept the relationship.
In the world of love, whether a man knows how to respect women, whether he can truly understand the psychology of women, directly determines the feelings between him and women, and also determines whether this relationship can be long-lasting.
Some people say that women are actually like cats, like to be spoiled by men, and even some domineering, so if men can quit machismo in love, but in these aspects of "overbearing", maybe more able to eat women.
01 Will be jealous of your relationship with the opposite sex
Jealousy, more likely to appear in women's bodies, women who fall into love are often insecure, often suffer from gains and losses, and think wildly.
Even if you know that men may not be what you think, if you don't get confirmation, you will automatically put yourself into a pessimistic role.
Sometimes, men can't stand women's jealousy, because if women are overly jealous, it will make men feel that they have no freedom.
But for women, if a man will eat her vinegar with other members of the opposite sex, or even behave very domineeringly, it will make the woman feel sweet in her heart, because she will think that it is a manifestation of a man's love for her.
Friend Lin Qing fell out of love, and in more than a year with her ex-boyfriend, she changed from full of enthusiasm to the final despair.
When she first started with men, Lin Qing almost gave up her social circle, afraid that she would affect her relationship with men because she was with her friends.
Lin Qing can't cook, because men don't like to eat takeaway, she specially signed up for classes to learn to cook; Lin Qing doesn't like to watch ball, but in order to have a common language with men, she checked a lot of news on the Internet, and finally even knew more than men.
But what disappointed Lin Qing was that the man seemed to be a little too generous and would never eat her vinegar.
Sometimes, Lin Qing worked late overtime, took the car of the opposite sex colleague to go home, the man instead of going downstairs to pick her up, but felt that he had left a good place, and also let Lin Qing have a good relationship with this colleague of the opposite sex, so that he could often take his car in the future, and he did not have to bother to pick her up.
At the beginning, Lin Qing also felt that men were very generous and would not have small belly chicken intestines, but after a long time, she felt that no matter whether her relationship with other members of the opposite sex was intimate or not, men would not care, let alone be jealous, and even never asked her carefully.
Friends around her all say that men are generous in their hearts and believe that Lin Qingcai will not be jealous, but Lin Qing does not think so, because she has seen men jealous for other women, and she knows that this is the performance of men loving a person.
Finally one day, Lin Qing deliberately showed that he was very close to other heterosexual relationships in front of men, and the men were still indifferent, Lin Qing proposed to break up, and the man agreed without hesitation.
A few months later, Lin Qing had a new boyfriend, loved her so much that he would be jealous of her good relationship with a friend of the opposite sex and ignore him.
In Lin Qing's view, it is not that the man is careful with his eyes, but that he cares about her, which is the love she wants, so Lin Qing is quickly eaten by him.
Men sometimes feel that since they want to eat a woman, they must give her enough tolerance, let her feel their generosity, rather than being jealous at every turn, but appear stingy.
In fact, women's real psychology is not like this, if men behave domineering in this regard, they will be jealous because women are too close to other people of the opposite sex, or directly tell women that such behavior makes him feel very uncomfortable, but it will make women care more about her.
So, if a man really loves this woman, then don't skimp on your emotions and show it directly, maybe you will perceive that women are more dependent on you.
02 Force her to give her everything she needs
Women are often reserved in their feelings, and sometimes the real thoughts in their hearts will be embarrassed to show them directly to men, so men always feel that women are duplicitous.
The reason why men find women's minds difficult to guess is because they have not really entered the heart of women, so they cannot stand in the woman's point of view, and they cannot think of her careful thoughts.
Sometimes men's concern is to the point, will not say clearly, more likely to be tentative, such as women are cold, men will ask "are you cold", at this time women if they are embarrassed to say directly, they will deny.
And if the man changes his approach, perceives that the woman is cold, directly takes off his coat and overbears her, and even orders her not to take it off, the woman is actually very sweet and happy at this time.
Women in the relationship are eager to get the love and care of men, they hope to be the preference and special existence in men's hearts, so your domineering will not make her feel uncomfortable, but more able to eat her.
Friend Zhang Ya is a very independent woman, once because of her independence to scare off many men who like her, even if they have the heart to pursue her, but in the end they dare not put it into action.
In the face of these men's withdrawal, Zhang Ya does not want to fall in love, and she feels that if a man does not even dare to try, it is even less worthy of love.
Later, the appearance of a man made Zhang Ya change a lot.
The man was very strong, even very domineering, and the former suitors carefully asked Zhang Ya for advice no matter what they did, until she nodded.
But this man is different, whether Zhang Ya agrees or not, and whether Zhang Ya will refuse or not, as long as he feels that Zhang Ya needs it, he will do it domineeringly and "force" Zhang Ya to accept.
Friends around them all think that the man's approach will anger Zhang Ya, and the two people are not suitable for being together at all, but the final result is that the two people have the news that they are going to get married.
When I saw Zhang Ya again, I found that she had changed from the lonely and cold woman to a small woman who would soften, her temperament had become softer, and her temper had become better.
It is undeniable that the man's strength and domineering made Zhang Ya truly feel the feeling of being cared for and cared for in love, so the man completely conquered Zhang Ya.
In a relationship, if a man can do everything that a woman needs to be domineering, in fact, what is hidden behind him is his intention for women, and only by understanding women with his heart will he know what she really needs, which is also a manifestation of deep love for her, and naturally he can conquer women.
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