Love and love in the world are so complex that many people can't understand the mysteries of it even after a lifetime. But because of this, there are some people who understand the mysteries of it, and they have ulterior motives, and they regard this as a necessary skill to release their inner desires, and they can arbitrarily usurp the feelings of others.
There are many people who love another person in the name of friends of the opposite sex, and the unspeakable relationship between the two is justly hidden.
But friends are just friends in the end, there is still a clear difference between lovers, now go to the park to walk around and see, the two people who come in front of you are friends or lovers, lovers or husbands and wives, it seems that you don't need to look at them more than a few times to tell.
It's just that the boundaries between them are very unclear, and we need to know that the identities of friends and lovers are not the same, and they are always just points and insurmountable. Lovers, obviously, go deeper into several levels, can say or do many things that friends can't do. To put it simply, many things, friends are not worthy to speak and practice.
If a friend of the opposite sex crosses a boundary, the relationship between them is no longer pure, and the two have come to the end of their feelings.
This invisibly gives us a solemn warning, reminding us that no matter how good the relationship between the opposite sex is, we cannot say these two words, otherwise, what awaits us will be the end of friendship.
First, don't say "sex"
Sex, this word is very sensitive, between couples, two people rush to say it, will feel blushing heartbeat faster, not to mention the opposite sex who is not how to communicate in depth? If the interaction with the opposite sex becomes close and frequent, and the word is used excessively, then I am afraid that the heartbeat of the two people will be accelerated, and the other party will mistakenly think that this is a sign before the arrival of love.
If both parties have not been in love, are an elegant single nobleman and have a good feeling for each other, it does not matter, but be vigilant, if you have no intention of him, then you must not talk like this, such a small act, may be harmless in front of you, but the small words deeply poke into his heart, he is serious, inevitable the follow-up trouble.
The interaction between the opposite sex, the most need to understand the identity, not everything can be said freely, do not involve some obscure and in-depth topics, not everyone can maintain their inner calm under this occasion.
If you don't live too late, you will harm yourself, and you will ruin this originally pure and clean friendship.
Second, don't say "love"
Love, the word, is even more difficult to say. You can say love for your relatives, and you can say love for your partner, but for friends who are just of the opposite sex, this word is taboo.
From ancient times to the present, human nature has been like this. If you rush to say love to the opposite sex, it will make her create an illusion, move her mind, so that she will pay full attention to you, and even like you, slowly, become not thinking about tea, just missing you alone.
You say love to the opposite sex, will give him an inexplicable sense of happiness, increase his confidence, love can charm people's hearts, make people dizzy, love is wonderful and can not be specifically said, really to that point, simple friendship will no longer exist.
This layer of boundaries must be properly grasped.
If you want to maintain a long-term pure friendship, even if you are joking, you must not say these two words casually, and then regret it, it is not good. Speaking is to be measured, if you really do as you please, in your opinion, there is no malice and other bad thoughts, but how will the other party think?
To put an end to future troubles, we must cure them from the source, do not say these two words, ambiguous relationships harm others and harm themselves.
In fact, why isn't this the case in life? If you want to get pure friendship, you have to give up some of the power to talk nonsense, and if you want to achieve great success in career love, you have to sacrifice some things that you don't want to lose. Speaking of which, it is nothing more than those twelve words, small house is small, big house is big, not reluctant.