When children often quarrel, it is necessary for parents to coordinate within the family and formulate a corresponding internal friendly management system, which is not biased. For example, the use of violence is punishable: penalization, writing reviews, not allowing children to play with toys and games that they particularly like, and so on.
When there is a contradiction between children, parents must treat each party with a fair attitude, and the age gap is only one or two years old, especially so, not because it is an older brother, you must give way to the small, and you cannot force either party to make concessions. Because then, children will not learn to treat things fairly, the contradictions between brothers will become larger and larger, and the children's trust in their parents will be greatly reduced, which will have a serious adverse impact on the growth and development of children's personality.
During the fight between children, parents try not to jump to conclusions as quickly as possible until they understand the situation. Parents are not necessarily accurate in judging right or wrong for their children, and they should stop fighting, and then grasp their specific reasons before making decisions. When children are in a state of agitation, it does not actually help them to reflect on their mistakes. After parents persuade them, they will separate them and provide them with their own time and space for reflection, they will be quiet, their emotions and thoughts will be sorted out, and they will find ways and answers to reconcile or justify.
Parents have a "grow up will be fine" idea, even if the child fights and ignores it, it will be a big problem. In the future, children will use violence to solve problems at every turn, not to mention brothers, and even to their parents. Under no circumstances can parents condone their children's violent solution to problems.
For children who fight frequently, parents should instill brotherly love in them. To this end, parents should try their best to let their children play some games that require mutual cooperation, such as two-person three-legged games, seesaw games, etc. Through these games, children will understand that some things can only be done by mutual cooperation, that anything can be better achieved by cooperating with each other, and that brothers and sisters will respect each other and be more friendly.
Parents should not be excited and angry because their children quarrel, but they must stop their children and give them time and space to reflect on their mistakes. Conversely, a parent's direct tantrum is no different from violence.