Families with babies all hope that their babies can grow up well, and then Jackie Chan into phoenix, soon after the baby came to this world, new parents began to eagerly call the baby to learn to talk, eager for the baby to immediately sing a song "Only the mother is good in the world", and then moved a handful of snot and a handful of tears, but also proud, "My child is so smart, so young will sing."
But some children, no matter how parents teach to talk, will only babble or regret words like gold, which can make parents die in a hurry, afraid that their children are not developing well in the womb, whether they eat what they should not eat when they are pregnant, and their babies will not be an unhealthy baby, right?
Does the child speak sooner or later and have something to do with intelligence?
It is a good thing that children speak better than their peers, which means that children's language function develops faster than other babies, develops well, and should be a person who can speak the Tao when they grow up, but this is not directly linked to IQ. That is to say, it is not necessarily a stupid child who speaks late. In history, many celebrities have spoken much later than their peers in childhood, such as Einstein, who is revered by the people of the world, and it is said that he only began to speak at the age of seven.
In the United States, some children of the same age who spoke late or did not speak clearly were surveyed and experimented, and it was found that only one in ten children's language was related to intelligence. This result is to say that the child cannot speak late because of mental retardation, but the possibility of mental retardation is not excluded. Therefore, in life, we must pay more attention to whether our children's language is normal, not compared with the premature development, how to judge? Read on.
Baby talking progress table, see if your baby is talking late or not
February-March: The baby will laugh and will also have simple syllables, such as "ah", "oh", and drink more baby interaction.
April-May: They can shout "Mommy and Daddy", but they don't know what "Mommy and Daddy" mean.
June-September: The baby will say more words, sometimes like to talk to themselves, parents should not interrupt the child at this time.
October-November: Children will not only say more words, but also know the meaning of some words, will express their needs through gestures, and new parents should participate more.
December-15: The baby knows more about the meaning of words, and sometimes adults will not understand when talking, so communicate with the baby more.
1-2 years old: the baby will say his own name, the learning ability is enhanced, and parents can use small cards to teach their children to know more knowledge.
2 and a half years old: can say complete sentences, but sometimes will be incoherent, novice parents and the baby's simple and complete sentences, such as "are you happy today", "this flower is not good" and so on, and then let the baby think and answer.
If you find that the baby speaks late, or speaks vaguely, parents will find the reason for it, why the child is talking later than the normal child of the same age, you can see if it is the following reasons, to rule it out.
The baby's late speech is not a small thing, it may be related to these points
One: hearing impairment
We all know that if a person is hearing impaired or cannot hear at all, over time it will affect the function of language, let alone children who cannot speak. Children have not been in the world for a long time, and their eardrums are fragile and vulnerable, which then affects their hearing. For example, in a noisy environment, a child's fragile ear has been "damaged", which will cause damage to the eardrum and affect the hearing.
Two: oral problems
Human speech movements must not only have healthy vocal cords but also have normal oral muscles, and if there is a problem with muscle development, it will cause the child to speak slurredly. Children eat food supplements late, and then do not exercise the oral muscles well, it will lead to the oral muscles have no strength, can not speak well, the child can eat a little digestible complementary food at 6 months, such as egg yolk or vegetable juice.
Three: There are problems with parent education
Novice parents are busy with work will let children go to the evening nursery as soon as possible, children do not have the company of parents to teach language, talk will be late, many children can not speak at the age of four or five, is the lack of parental companionship and interaction. It is also possible to be ridiculed by talking children, who do not have self-confidence and will not want to talk. Or when the child uses language to express his needs, the parents do not have the patience to listen to the child, which will also cause the child to speak late.
What should parents do if they want their children to speak early?
Infancy, seize the golden time
The golden age of the child's language function development is before the age of 3, although the baby is still in infancy, although it will only babble, but sometimes you can see the child's meaning through the child's expression, parents do not pretend to turn a blind eye, feel troublesome, if the baby has a defecation expression, parents can say baby, really smelly, and then make a fan smell action. Over time, your baby will understand what he means by what he is doing now. Parents and babies who are still in infancy can repeat simple sentences to stimulate the child's brain.
When the child grows up, if it is excluded that it is the reason for hearing and intelligence, the new parents should capture it in time when the child sends out a signal of what they want, and then meet the child, and be patient. Taking more children out for a walk and letting them play with their older children is also a clever way to play. Or take your child to a crowded place, a zoo, etc., and then introduce the child to what it is and what it is, and the child will learn a lot of fresh vocabulary. It is also okay to show children cartoons, parents feel that cartoons are childish, but children can exercise their language skills in them.
In summary, no matter whether the child speaks sooner or later, parents should treat this little angel well, and it is very important to accompany and teach patiently.
bibliography:
1. "Is it the baby who opens early to be smarter, or the one who opens late is smarter?" ——China Food Industry Journal 2019-09-02
2. "Noble people speak late, and the baby speaks late is related to intelligence?" American researchers: The real reason is here" - Guangming Network 2019-06-24
3. "New Parents Must See: Baby Talking Progress Table, No Longer Worry About Baby Talking Late" - Guangming Network 2019-08-06