I believe that we will all have children around us, who speak warmly, are considerate, empathetic, and have a close relationship with their parents. We always sigh, why are other people's children so smart and sensible?
In fact, there is a trick to this, that is, to talk to your children every day.
Parents can start practicing from the following six sentences to make their children better and better every day.
First: Mom and Dad also make mistakes, and I hope you can help me point them out
Parents always teach their children to obey this and that, and they don't do it themselves.
Making mistakes is never the exclusive product of children, and adults can't guarantee that they haven't made mistakes. Everyone grows from mistakes, and it's not terrible to make mistakes, as long as you have the courage to correct them.
Second, have confidence in yourself
When children encounter setbacks and failures, parents should encourage their children to give him confidence, tell children that setbacks and pains are the norm in your growth process, and this is not a bad thing. If you are very sad and want to cry now, you will cry out loud, and after crying, we will carefully analyze the reasons for failure to pave the way for the next success.
Everyone craves love, craves affirmation. Being affirmed, recognized, and encouraged is the spiritual nourishment that enhances self-recognition.
Our self-recognition is developed by the approval of others in the relationship, and we need to know what we can do in order to develop the belief that "I can do it".
Give the child more affirmation, let this affirmation become the source of the child's life energy, a sharp weapon to resist the wind and rain, and an armor to move forward.
"You improved by 20 points in mathematics this time and scored a good score of 98 points, which is the result of your own efforts."
"You won the first place in the Olympiad competition, which is the result of your hard work and perseverance."
Third, where do we go to play together?
Reading thousands of books is not as good as walking thousands of miles, going out for a walk can increase children's insights, experiences and feelings, which cannot be obtained in books.
There are actually a lot of places to play with children, especially in some, well, second-tier cities or third-tier cities, basically in the city a little bit larger will have a variety of aquariums, or zoos, or the simplest to go to the city park is also a good choice, children for play is not too much requirements, as long as parents can accompany around, and then can make children feel a little fun, they are very happy, children's requirements are actually very easy to meet.
Fourth, I like the way you laugh
Emotions will be contagious, if parents always smile in front of their children, children will be very lively and cheerful; if parents often frown and feel depressed, then the children will also be dull and unsociable. Parents are the closest people to the child, the parents' words and deeds and every move are looked at by the child, but sometimes the child is too young to express their emotions very accurately, they will observe the parents' expressions to judge whether the parents are happy or unhappy today.
Parents face every day with a smile, which is a happy thing for children.
Fifth, I'm sorry, I misunderstood you
Sorry, mom misunderstood you!
When educating children, parents should give their children as much time as possible, so that they have the opportunity to explain, rather than parents subjectively judging, sometimes what you see is not real, it may be misunderstanding the child.
Sixth, what you say makes sense, and then move on
Sometimes children will talk to their parents about their own ideas, and as parents, they must learn to listen, whether he is right or wrong, they must listen patiently and carefully. Give your child the opportunity to express their thoughts and understand what is really going on in your child's heart. Parents patiently listen to their children when they express their ideas, which gives their children the greatest respect, and children will be more willing to talk to their parents. Even if the child has something wrong, parents should not laugh and interrupt. After the child has expressed his opinions and suggestions, after listening to the whole thing, the parents also have a general understanding of the whole incident, know which of the child's ideas are correct and which need to be improved, and then give the child a positive and positive perspective to help the child solve the problem.
Raising children is a practice, and the most important thing is not to reach the end of life, but to accompany the life itself. None of us have the experience of parenthood, and when we have experience, we find that we miss the opportunity to accompany our children to grow, and some of the damage has become irreparable. Only by growing up ourselves and first becoming loving, wise, and methodical parents can we support our children to bravely create a future that will come to fruition.
Parents are the guides who lead their children forward, from now on, they learn, grow and change; in the future, children will have an excellent, happy and successful life.
Practice a sentence every day, change a little bit every day, and you will find that there will be positive changes for yourself and your child.
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