The health of the child is always the most concerned issue for parents, and every parent will be very careful when taking care of the child, for fear of hurting the child due to their own negligence.
However, sometimes due to insufficient professional knowledge and too much trust in the parenting experience of the older generation, it will cause irreparable harm to the child and lead to tragedy.
The 8-month-old baby was coaxed into a "cerebral hemorrhage" by the grandmother, and the whole family washed their faces with tears
The 27-year-old Kobayashi is my neighbor, and soon after graduating from college, he and his boyfriend stepped into the palace of marriage, and the little life after marriage was also very happy, and last year he gave birth to a cute little boy, and the family was overjoyed.
Because it was the first child and relatively young, Xiaolin was worried about his lack of experience in child-rearing, so he invited his mother-in-law to the home to help take care of the children, for which the mother-in-law naturally agreed and lived in The Kobayashi family.
After the arrival of the mother-in-law, Xiaolin suddenly relaxed a lot, whether it is the child drinking milk or changing diapers, the mother-in-law can be arranged in an orderly manner, Xiaolin can't help but feel very fortunate, and she is also very grateful to the mother-in-law, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was once very harmonious.
And the mother-in-law most surprised Xiaolin is her ability to comfort the child, the mother-in-law came before the child always howled and cried, Xiaolin as a novice bao mom can be described as helpless, who thought that after the mother-in-law came, the child cried in her arms and shook a few times, the child quickly stopped crying, slowly calmed the mood, all this made Xiaolin can't help but shout magic.
However, this situation did not last long, the child was close to 8 months old when the accident occurred, this day the child cried as usual, but also accompanied by a high fever, Kobayashi could not help but be very worried, for which Kobayashi's mother-in-law said that the child was just some cold and suffered from a common cold, and Kobayashi, who was convinced of his mother-in-law, put his mind at ease.
However, several days passed, the child's condition not only did not improve, but even showed signs of coma, and the family rushed the child to the hospital.
After some examination, when the doctor announced the results of the examination, the Kobayashi family could not help but be confused, it turned out that the child did not have a cold, but a "cerebral hemorrhage" situation, which required emergency hospitalization, and the prognosis was not optimistic.
The "culprit" that led to cerebral hemorrhage is likely to be the shaky parenting method of the child's grandmother, for which the Kobayashi family can't help but wash their faces with tears, And Kobayashi's mother-in-law is even more remorseful, and the originally happy family has become a human tragedy in the blink of an eye, which can't help but make people very sad.
"Baby shaking syndrome" occurs frequently, and parents should not be careless with their babies
It is well known that compared with adults, the child's physical development is immature, especially for newborns with a lower age, the baby's brain development is not mature, parents hold the child back and forth for a long time, it is easy to form a squeeze on the child's cranial brain tissue, causing irreversible damage to the brain tissue.
There is also a special term for this point in medicine called "baby shaking syndrome", which causes the baby to have headaches and dizziness, and the heavy causes the rupture of blood vessels in the brain, and even leads to cerebral palsy or death, and the consequences are not serious.
In fact, with the development of medicine, people are paying more and more attention to children's health problems, in recent years, more and more incidents about infant shaking syndrome have been exposed, before there were media reports that a baby in Wuhan was treated by parents who shook their heads wildly because of slow growth and development, resulting in the baby becoming cerebral palsy.
So for parents, shake the child must be cautious, especially before the age of 10 months of small babies, when the child is crying, parents can hold in the arms gently shake, to give the child comfort, but the attention must not be too large, but also pay attention to the correct posture of holding the child, otherwise it may also damage the child's spine, the same may cause damage to the child's brain.
New mom? There are 3 points to pay attention to when caring for newborns
1. Feed on time
Due to the small stomach capacity of the baby, but it is in the process of rapid growth and development, the mother must feed on time, control the amount of each feeding, and appropriately increase the number of feedings. And for the baby who is relatively young, spitting up milk is relatively normal, generally such a situation will last until the baby is about 3-4 months old, in order to alleviate the symptoms of spitting up the baby can make the baby stand up after each feeding of the child, let the baby's head lean on his body and gently pat the child's back, give the baby "milk burp".
2. Ensure adequate sleep for your baby
The healthy growth of the baby is inseparable from adequate sleep, the newborn is just born when the daily sleep time will even reach about 20 hours, parents should provide a comfortable environment for the child's sleep, avoid making sounds, and ensure adequate sleep for the baby.
3. Control the ambient temperature and humidity
Baby's body resistance is relatively low, for the environment temperature and humidity will be more sensitive, for the baby room temperature to 24-25 ° C is appropriate, humidity to about 50% is appropriate, parents need to control the temperature and humidity of the home environment.
Mom's Message:
There is no small matter about the child's health, and parents must be careful not to use this "shaking" way of bringing a baby. If the child often cries, you can see if it is time to breastfeed, or if the child has any other appeals, rather than holding the child and shaking to soothe, and it is worth mentioning that once the child is found to have any physical discomfort, it is necessary to take the child to the hospital in time to seek professional help from a doctor, so as not to have an accident and regret it.
Today's topic: Do you have parents around you who like to hold their children and shake and soothe?
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