For many adults, the pressure of life is too great now, so they shout tired every day, shout every day to lie flat, and when they return home to face their children, as long as they say tired to themselves, they will become impatient, in fact, children also have their own tired time, I hope that parents do not show such a careless attitude, because the attitude of parents will greatly affect the relationship between children and parents.
First of all, let the children come and show their parents that they are very tired during this time, parents must not treat their children perfunctorily, indicating that the children have something to be tired of, and the children who are a little big don't feel tired, are they really so tired from their usual work? Such words will stimulate the child's young mind, so that he feels that the parents do not care about their own walking away, the child is not willing to open up like this type of parent, so that in later adolescence, the child is more distant from such parents, when the parents begin to reflect on their own behavior, it is too late, after all, there has been a column in the child's heart and now how easy is it to repair?
When the child says tired, parents must learn to empathize, first of all, to affirm whether the child has made a very big effort in a certain thing during this period of time, will feel some tiredness, affirm his pay, give him a comforting hug, let the child feel tired, and the parents' strong arms can be relied on, so that the child can feel the warmth given by the parents, so that the child is willing to continue to open up to the parents, he will tell the parents the real reason for their fatigue, I also hope that my parents can give themselves some advice to explain him and resolve the confusion in his heart.
After parents learn about the child's positive needs, they can give their children certain advice and help, such as the child is too hard to learn, feel tired, parents can encourage him to say that you study very hard during this time, and do not need parents to supervise from the side, is a very good child, so that after the child receives this motivational signal, he will study harder, rather than continue to complain about learning unsatisfactory.
In fact, while comforting the child, but also to enhance the interaction and contact between parents and children, for children, they are still young, do not know what are the factors of exhaustion or not exhaustion, they feel that it is just a simple small thing, they can not understand the parents in the face of the child's tiredness and powerlessness, so a hug between each other is not only to give the child warmth, but also to let parents off the guard of an important way, and in such mutual support, The relationship between parents and children will be more harmonious.
I also hope that all parents can remember a truth, when the child is the most helpless, the most in need of help, they will seek care and comfort through tears, which is the same as when we complain to others that they work too hard, hoping to seek understanding and sympathy is the same truth, children also have self-esteem, children also hope to be able to get attention, but also hope that parents can face their attitude, understand their not easy, parents' care and care is a light in Zhao Jing's child's life, So I hope that every parent can give their children a wide arm when they need comfort the most, so that they can feel the warmth of this home.
【Transferred from: Sohu original - Zhou Zhou Gossip Fun Facts 】