In life, there will be many unsatisfactory. When those unsatisfactory things come, we will be discouraged, we will be depressed, and even we will have the heart to die. But at this time, we need not to indulge in it, but to survive it. When you have survived, you will find that the ups and downs of the past are actually nothing more than that; you once thought that the sky was going to fall, and when you look at it later, everything is also light and breezy.
Broad-mindedness is an attitude towards life. In the face of all kinds of unsatisfactory life, you can be sad and sad, or you can laugh through it. If you ask me what Kuangda is, I will say that Kuangda is when I encounter the storms of life, although my heart is full of suffering, on the surface it is still light and light. Leave the smiling face to your friends and family, and leave the sadness to yourself to taste.
In the ancient poems of the mainland, there are many such poems, and we may wish to read them together.
Study, work, family, love, marriage... At every stage of life, we will encounter a lot of unsatisfactory things, we will hate, we will remember.
Gradually, as we get older and experience more things, those things no longer matter, and we eventually choose to forgive or forget.
Instead of thinking about what has happened, it is better to enjoy the beauty around you and feel the beauty of having it.
From ancient times to the present, our moods and angers have been the same. When life is not satisfactory, it will feel that life is like a dream, even if it is as wide as Su Shi, it will also have such and such feelings.
In this world, some people remember the hurt and some people choose to forget. Carrying too much on your body can sometimes become a motivator and sometimes become a straw that crushes you.
In the sound of the dog barking, the peach blossoms are dewy.
Deer are seen when the trees are deep, and the creek does not hear the bell at noon.
Wild bamboo is divided into green mist, and flying springs hang on the green peaks.
No one knows where to go, and two or three pines are in sorrow.
——Tang Li Bai, "Visiting Dai Tianshan Daoists Without Encountering"
Having someone to love, something to do, something to look forward to, is the best thing in life. In Li Bai's life, it seems that there are all three points. He loved to learn the Tao, often went to the famous mountains and rivers to visit the Taoist immortals, even if the road was difficult, he never gave up.
This poem is a visit to Li Bai, although the final result is not satisfactory, Li Bai did not sigh, but could enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way.
Life is sometimes like this, what you expect, if it becomes, of course, is good; if it does not succeed, you should also thank you for your efforts along the way and appreciate the beautiful scenery along the way.
Evoking the window still awake, the crying of the crane urging and sounding again.
Danqing's old vows are like Zha, and the Zen Stick Sutra is Du Muqing.
Don't miss each other empty water, look back and forth for three lifetimes.
The clouds and the moon are still there, and the old ones are full of incense.
--Qing Huang Jingren, "Feeling Old"
There is a kind of beauty in life that is a memory, and there is a kind of pain in life that is also a memory. Although memories are important to people, people can't just live in memories. What is walked is the road, and what is being walked is life. The road has been completed, but life is in your hands.
There are many things in life that are worth cherishing, and one is feelings. Feelings bring infinite joy to people, but also bring infinite sorrow to people. Facing the gains and losses of feelings is really a major problem in life.
When the feelings are not satisfactory, we need a wide reach, and at this time, the openness is even more decisive - when the break is continuous, it is chaotic. When it is time to break up, there is a decisive breakup; when it is time to leave, there is courage to leave. Those who break the thread often bring great harm.
The double paddles are flat and the green mountains are locked.
You come home and I come home, talking about how to live.
I don't think about it, you don't think about me.
Give your heart to me before, to others.
- Southern Song Dynasty Xie Ximeng, "Bu Operator"
What to do if love fails? The poem gives a good answer. When two people are absolutely impossible, when two people are not suitable, when two people come to an end, they should leave decisively.
I will not think of you, and you will not have to think of me; you may treat the heart that was once treated to me to another person.
If we talk about sorrow, Li Yu can be called a great lord. The pain of losing one's country and the shame of humiliating one's wife are not something that ordinary people can experience. In the face of such things, Li Yu can only say lightly: The world is flowing with the flowing water, and it is calculated that a dream has come to life. The things of the world are like the water that flows away, and how can life not be a dream?
The short soaking creek of Lanya under the mountain, the sand road between the pines is pure and mud-free,
Xiao Xiao Twilight Rain Zi Zi Rule Cry.
Who says that there is nothing less in life? The water in front of the door is still possible!
Hugh will sing yellow chicken with white hair.
- Su Shi, "Huanxi Sha YouShui Qingquan Temple"
We all lament that time passes too quickly, but Su Shi tells us that even if time passes, we can still make a difference. It is true that life cannot return to youth, but our hearts can be very young. The martyrs are in their twilight years and their hearts are full of excitement. Old horses can still gallop the heavens and the earth; aging eagles can also fight in the sky. People are old, and they can also make a difference.
The wind and rain of life, just the wind and rain at that time, walked over, there may be nothing behind. When you can go light, you can go all the way forward without burden.
The city que assists the three Qins, and the wind and smoke look at the five jin.
Parting ways with Jun, the same eunuch.
Confidant in the sea, the end of the world is like a neighbor.
Nothing is wrong, and the children are together.
- Tang Wang Bo, "Sending Du Shaofu to Ren Shu Prefecture"
Parting from life and death is really a great suffering in life. In the face of the departure of his friends, Wang Bo can also tell us that as long as the heart is close, the end of the world is also within reach. Between good friends, what is important is not the distance in which they are, but the distance of their hearts.
Life is just a dream, how many storms have passed from the beginning, those fame and fortune, but the burden hanging on the body. Such a painstaking operation is not as painful as Jiang Hai's life.
Mature people do not ask about the past, smart people are not afraid of the present, and open people do not worry about the future.