Schopenhauer said: We bear all our misfortunes because we cannot be alone.
A person's time is a comfortable and beautiful, and sometimes, a person can withstand thousands of troops.
Learning to be alone, learning to get along with yourself, and reconciling with life are compulsory courses for everyone.
Solitude is the melancholy of "falling flower people independent, micro swift double flying";
Solitude is the loneliness of "the birds fly high, and the lonely clouds go alone";
Solitude is the freedom of "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely seeing the South Mountain";
Alone is the openness of "the boat has passed away since then, and the river and the sea have lived the rest of their lives".
Everyone faces being alone and feels differently.
Or boredom, or loneliness, or pleasure, or calm.
The adult world, too much helplessness, needs a quiet space, release themselves, warm and nourishing.
Unload the exhaustion of the day and give yourself a space to be alone.
Or close your eyes and recuperate, integrate within; or read under the lamp to enrich the soul; or raise a pen to send a message, cook words to heal the wounds.
Live in a quiet corner of time, listen to the drizzle under the porch, admire the flowers blooming outside the window, and taste the fragrance of the years.
Being alone can make a person lonely and unbearable, living like a year;
Being alone can also make a person quiet and plump, warm and peaceful.
A person is in the best state, enjoys the prosperity, settles in loneliness, endures loneliness, and likes to be alone.
Throughout the ages, many excellent people have liked to be alone.
The famous writer Zhang Ailing once said: Prosperity fades, and people are lonelier than fireworks.
When you learn to be alone, you learn the courage and ability to face life head-on.
Learn to be alone, you will not be afraid of loneliness;
Learn to be alone, and be able to resist setbacks and blows;
When you learn to be alone, you can grow quickly;
When we learn to be alone, we become better, more remarkable.
The German philosopher Immanuel Kant never walked out of Gönigsburg in his lifetime. He had no wife and no children, lived for decades, guarded every inch, and wrote the Critique of Pure Reason.
Those who will not be alone are often afraid of quiet and leisure. They use busyness to drive away loneliness, and they use noise to drive away loneliness.
They are fragile in heart, timid and afraid of things, dare not face the misfortunes of life, always run away from their hearts, and deceive themselves.
Their days were monotonous and boring, and their lives were barren and desolate.
If you can't be alone, you will never be able to recognize yourself;
If you are not alone, you will never heal yourself;
Will not be alone, can not feel the peace and beauty of the heart;
I will not be alone, and I will not be able to enjoy true freedom and openness.
Excellent people, often like to be alone, mediocre, often afraid of being alone.
Quiet afternoon, the sun is just right, the breeze is not dry, a book, a cup of tea, a beautiful melody, let a floating heart, slowly calm down, to feel the years quiet, the world is like smoke.
The days are quiet and gentle to the eye.
As I grew older, I gradually learned to cut out the complexity and reduce it.
No longer wronged yourself to do things you don't like to do, no longer deliberately pander to others in order to fit into a circle.
More often, I choose to deliberately alienate, away from all the social i don't like, immerse myself in the world of one person, do what I like, let go of my heart, and enrich myself.
On leisure days, I also walked alone in the fields to breathe fresh air. Occasionally look up at the sky, occasionally pick up a fallen leaf, write the name of the person you like, and clip it in the bookmark of the years to save the flowing years.
Away from the hustle and bustle, seemed to shield all the troubles.
Alone between heaven and earth, the grass is the neighbor, the green mountains are dependent on each other, the bright moon is the companion, spend time together, and count the years.
Solitude is a practice and an ability;
Being alone is a realm and a feeling.
People with abundant hearts like to be alone, and people with desolation at heart are afraid of being alone.
Being alone is a person's joy.
Learn to be alone and be brave to be yourself.
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The author | Yuanshan Ruodai Source: Anban Ruo (ID: anbanlr)
The anchor | Lin Jing, in the world of sound and words, runs with you to the mountains and seas.
Pictures | Visual China
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