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Love is an unreasonable thing, it may come like a storm, fast and intense, just as it leaves without warning, just at a certain moment, you suddenly find that you and the person closest to you have been drifting away for a long time.
Although it is difficult for you to find out at what moment you have chosen to abandon each other, your actions will often betray you. Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, if you put away these three things, it is basically equivalent to the end of the fate.
One: Group photo
There will be a picture frame on many people's desks, and the ones in it are generally what they think is most important
person
。 Some people have children, some people put themselves in a group photo with their other half.
In the newlyweds' home, you will definitely be able to see their large wedding photos in the most eye-catching position, and the photos of them smiling happily at you are like telling their sweet love.
The meaning of a group photo for two people is not just a photo, he is also a witness and symbol of love between you, and at the same time, he is also swearing to other people around you that you are your ownership of each other.
Love is selfish and exclusive, and a small group photo is like a wall protecting your love and deterring those who want to violate it.
If the husband and wife or lover silently put away the group photo between you, it means that the position of the relationship in your heart has been different, and the person in the photo is no longer the person who will be happy when he saw it before, but does not want to mention it, does not want to face it, so he does not want to see any information related to him.
When the feelings between two people fade day by day, the sweet photo that was previously placed on the table or hung at home is no longer a happy memory, but an eye-catching object.
Putting away a group photo is not only collecting a photo, but also closing the door of your own heart.
Two: Take back the keys to each other's homes
In psychology, the "key" represents solution, acceptance, and trust, the key to opening the door of the home, but also the door to each other's hearts.
A big step forward in the relationship between couples Is an iconic act of giving each other the key to their own door, which means that you have regarded him as your own family in your heart, and you can spend the rest of your life together.
Home, for a person is his last safe haven, but also the most secure existence in his heart, when your lover is willing to give you the key to the door, just like he gave your trust to you without reservation.
A small key, condensed is the strong love between two people and frank trust, you have the qualifications to enter the room, you walked into not only the door, but also into his heart.
When couples take back the keys to each other's homes, this move is tantamount to a breakup declaration.
Because you are no longer the one who can give your back to each other, nor the one who walks into your heart, you can no longer have such a symbolic key.
The key was taken back, and your feelings were returned, and the relationship between you also fell back to that strange distance.
Three: Put away the wedding ring or couple's accessories
Couples always like to buy some couple accessories, just like there must be a wedding ring when you get married, these small jewelry. Not only for the sake of beauty or trend, but more importantly, the different meanings it represents.
When you're picking out a couple's accessory for yourself, your mood must be sweet.
A big feature of love is similarity, people are always easy to be attracted to people who have similarities with themselves, and couple jewelry is inadvertently reinforcing this feature.
Whether it is a wedding ring or a couple's jewelry, what it represents is the determination of the relationship between two people and mutual ownership, and it is also a signal to the outside world, representing the stability of the relationship and entering a new stage.
If the couple put away the couple's jewelry, and the couple no longer wears each other's wedding rings, then this undoubtedly means that both people have doubts about the relationship, they feel that the relationship is not necessary to continue, and naturally there is no need to wear those jewelry that can prove the relationship.
Not all separations are accompanied by quarrels, and some separations are silent. You tacitly put away the memories of the past and quit each other's lives.
Cherish the person next to you, and don't accidentally lose your happiness in this life.