1, only love can cultivate children.
2. The education of children is often a fallacy of ordinary people: the education of daughters pays attention to their bodies and ignores their spirits; while the sons are busy modifying their spirits and ignoring their bodies.
3. As a person in social life, moral quality is an important connotation of human beings, which determines human dignity, value and achievement.
4. Master the methods and techniques of scolding and reprimanding in order to achieve the purpose and effect of education. Improper punishment will unconsciously hurt the child.
5) In a family, if there is no laughter and the sound of learning, there is no hope for this family.
6. In family education, strive to create a happy and encouraging atmosphere, so that children have a sense of realization and achievement.
7, in the children's work, constantly look for praiseworthy places.
8. Children are allowed to play with all kinds of waste.
9. Children are allowed to participate in planning housework and travel.
10) A sense of stability and security is very important for children, and if children can experience a sense of security from a stable family, then it will help them cope with challenges from inside and outside the school.
11, we live their lives, may not accumulate too much property, there is no reputation, but each parent has accumulated some good experience and quality through life. Give this little bit to the child, and they will enlarge it with new life and shine.
12. Believe in your child's sanity and trust him.
13. Make a detailed experimental plan to help children learn more things.
14, explain to the child that he is already very cute and does not need to express himself again.
15) Give your child the opportunity to actually make a decision.
16) Let the child do what he can.
17, love of reading, is the greatest gift you can give to your child, it is more effective than you spend a lot of money to arrange for your child to go to private school, more effective than you give your child a computer, and even more practical than getting a harvard degree.
18 The most dangerous period of life is from birth to 12 years old. If the means of destroying all kinds of errors and vices are not adopted during this time, they will sprout and grow, and by the time they are later adopted by means to change them, they will already be deeply rooted, so that they will never be able to uproot them.
19. Take your child's personal requirements seriously.
20. Take seriously the serious questions and opinions raised by children.
21 If you do not first raise lively children, you must not teach intelligent people.
22 If someone asks me what kind of qualifications are needed to educate my children, I would say that it requires extraordinary patience and a moderate amount of love.
23, people who are good at using time can always find rich time. Learning to be a master of your time will benefit you immensely.
24, the most severely punished children, grow up and rarely become the best people.
25. Gently training children to develop the habit of suffering without cowering is a method that can calm their spirits and lay the foundation for courage and determination for their later life.
26) Let the child independently complete the basic part of the work he is engaged in, even if there will be no positive results.
27. Provide children with books and materials to let children do what they love.
28, interest is the best teacher. When a person's interests are combined with his ambitions, then he is not far from success.
29, to educate children well, we must continue to improve educational skills. To improve educational skills, parents need to make personal efforts to continuously improve their own training.
30. Let children think independently.
31. Education begins with life. Before we perceive that the personality has been established, it is difficult for later teachings to move and change it.
32 Education should be happy, when a child is in an unhappy mood, his intelligence and potential will be greatly reduced. Scolding and blaming will not lead to good results.
33 Forgiveness touches the most sensitive corners of a child's self-esteem, giving the child the willpower to correct mistakes in his or her mind.
34. Take time out of your child alone every day.
35, every mental health child is upward, is love to learn, is confident, these qualities are necessary for children to grow.
36 Some education should begin when the child is in the cradle.
37. Educate children such as raising flowers, carefully watering, fertilizing, and caring for them in order to succeed. But in fact, not everyone can raise flowers well, and if they don't understand, they must ask others for advice and learn the experience and art of raising flowers.
38 Boys are free by nature and are not good at obedience; treat them with sincerity and frankness, and help them build up their courage.
39, strive to be an optimistic, happy person. A happy person, when looking at a child, is more about seeing his strengths, while an unhappy person sees more of the child's shortcomings.
40. Let children develop the habit of reading from an early age.
41, educate children to first stimulate interest and love, otherwise it is just a cramming indoctrination, meaningless.
42, the process of educating children, but also the process of educating yourself, you want your children to be how you want, you should be. From our children's words and behaviors, we can often hear and see our own words and deeds.
43 A wild and difficult horse can become a horse if properly trained.
44 Once the child thinks that his views are valuable, then he naturally feels his own value, and his sense of independence will become stronger and stronger.
45. It should be emphasized that there are many hidden dangers in not taking serious education seriously. Parents are not smart enough to make their children happy too early.
46 Kindness accompanies the child, and he sees that all that is sprinkled on the world is love.
47, a family with children, like an extra mirror, he can reflect everything in your heart. You are happy, he is happy; you are irritable, he is also irritable.
48 The purpose of education is to make children a happy person, and the means and methods of education should also be happy.
49. Teach children to interact freely with adults of all ages.
50. Build a display shelf where children can fully display their works. 51 The imbalance of normal relations in the family is a fertile soil for various pathologies that later produce spirits and emotions.
52. Encourage your child to find problems and then solve them later.
53. Encourage children to be as undependent as possible from adults.
54, the child's shortcomings are not terrible, the terrible thing is that the parents who are the leaders of the child's life lack the correct concept of tutoring and the method of teaching children.
55, parents can not accompany their children for a lifetime, so it is necessary to cultivate children's social awareness and independent consciousness from an early age.
56. Those who can learn the Fa and learn the Fa will do more with less; those who fail to learn the Fa will do more with half the effort.
57, parents must let their children know that on the road to growth, it cannot be smooth. Success is often accompanied by hardships, hardships, setbacks and setbacks.
58 Parents are the first school for children to understand the world and acquire knowledge.
59, people who know how to respect themselves will also know how to respect others, including respect for their own children.
60. Answer all questions raised by children patiently and honestly.
61, some familiar with some of the basic principles of physiology and the preliminary knowledge of psychology, for a good child is indispensable.
62. Give play to children's ability to actively recognize their own talents.
63 Parents are natural teachers, and they have the greatest influence on children, especially young children.
64, the role of the parent, like the role of the mountaineering guide, do not ignore the young climber kicking and crying, pulling him straight to the top of the mountain.
65, parents are educating their children at the same time, but also self-education.
66, give the child a room or part of the room, mainly for the child to play.
67, give the child the best, even if it is very little. Give the best to the child, although not status, money. The best thing for children is not our helplessness and vices.
68, encourage children to make up stories, to fantasize.
69. Although the child's academic performance is important, the quality cultivation of the child is even more important. Children's strong self-motivation first comes from the persistent pursuit of lofty goals. Therefore, parents should help their children set lofty goals from an early age and stimulate their children's indomitable ambitions for realistic goals.
70, the cultivation of children's health psychology is more important than the care of children's bodies, children only have a healthy psychology, in order to challenge the future and succeed.
71. Parents are the earliest teachers of all words and deeds of children in life.
72, setback education is not just to let children live a hard life, do some hard work, the focus of setback education is to cultivate children's strong quality in facing setbacks.
73, take the child to the place where he is interested to play.
74 When children start asking questions that don't have answers, they grow up.
75. Parents should be responsible for both the development of the child's body and the psychological development of the child; both the development of the child's intelligence and the cultivation of the child's ability in all aspects; both to teach the child how to learn knowledge, but also to teach the child how to behave.
76, parental care is the vitamin that children need, but parents should keep in mind that children need a normal dose of vitamins, without it is indispensable, too much is useless.
77, singing with children can make children more confident in life, so that children feel that there are many beautiful things in life, not just boring learning, homework, grades, etc.
78 When the child is happy, it is easier for him to learn anything, but in a state of low mood and mental tension, his confidence will weaken, and even a great educator will not have any way to face them again. The only way to do this is to adjust their emotions to happy, confident, focused, and then start learning. Many children who are considered untalented and born worse than other children are not, but the educators do not do it properly.
79. Parents should gradually cultivate the habit of independent thinking and independent problem solving, and thus build their children's confidence.
80. Read something for your child regularly.
81, when the child's mood swings, stupid parents blame the child, smart parents care for the child.
82, parents rely on the child in everything, there is no higher requirements for the child, in such an atmosphere of the child to grow up, it is likely to be everywhere to me as the center, and it is easy to indulge themselves.
83, parents develop reasonable behavior habits and pay attention to make children learn to do it.
84, do not educate children when their mood is very bad, then it is easy to vent this emotion to the child.
85, do not scold the child for being messy in the room or on the desktop, as long as it is related to his creative activities.
86, do not use verbal abuse to punish children.
87, successful tutoring creates successful children, and failed tutors create failed children.
88, do not empty and insincere praise children.
89 Don't start educating or forcing your child to learn something after he is depressed or just upset. In this way, you will often mistakenly think that your child is too talented based on poor educational results.
90, honestly evaluate your feelings for your children.
91. Factors such as family tension, disrespect for the child's personality, and non-democracy directly affect the child's learning and life.
92, parents should be good at carefully observing their children, from the child's every move and only a few words to find the child's curiosity.
93, help children find worthy TV shows.
94. Help children interact normally with children from different social and cultural classes.
95, there is no topic that parents can not discuss with their children.
96, do not look down on the child's failure, and say to the child: "I will not do this." ”
97 You can't tease a child because he makes a mistake. Praise your child for memorizing poems, telling stories, and singing songs.
98, everywhere for the sake of children, has become a lot of parents doting on their children's high-sounding reasons.
99, never tell the child that he is worse than other children.
100, interact with the child and help the child modify his homework.