I believe that every woman likes to listen to sweet words when she is young, and men also know in their hearts that in the pursuit of all the efforts of girls, sweet words are the most cost-effective way, moving their mouths, girls are full of flowers, and adding points to your impression is a very simple thing.
However, you will find that after middle age, the weight of these love words is gradually decreasing, preferring real actions, men will only talk about love, it is difficult to impress the hearts of middle-aged women.
Uncle Zhou, 54, said that middle-aged women are more or less independent after the baptism of years, and they will also form a kind of aura of their own, they are accustomed to the wind and snow between men and women, and they will not be easily moved by sweet words.
However, talking about the following three topics is very useful, because they go deep into the depths of middle-aged women.
First, talk about feelings, views on marriage.
When women reach middle age, some have experienced the wind and waves of emotion, and some will have new ideas and even unique insights about emotional life even if the emotional road is smooth and unimpeded.
Therefore, in the process of interacting with middle-aged women, topics such as sports and people's livelihood, entertainment gossip and so on are put aside for the time being, focusing on her views on marriage, family, and feelings, so as to understand her values in marriage and feelings.
In the process of talking about this topic, we must know more about her inner state and what kind of a person she is.
There is a saying called: Know thyself and know the other, and never lose a battle.
The pursuit of middle-aged women must "attack the heart". When you know what this woman really thinks in her heart, then in the process of future contact with her, you have a goal and a direction.
Most importantly, send her a message that you are the one who understands her and that you know women better than women.
However, one thing that must be reminded is not to rush to perform, but to express your views endlessly. Women are born with a strong desire to express themselves, and once they enter her rhythm, you are more about listening, not refuting, not complaining, just listening quietly and silently nodding and smiling. Wait for the right opportunity, and then express your views appropriately and appropriately.
Talk about what you and her have in common, common interests and hobbies.
A passage from "Smiling Proud of the River" makes me remember it vividly:
Some people say that it is difficult to meet a person who has commonalities and similar interests, and as Qu Yang said, this is a difficult time in the world. It is the so-called "the most difficult to find confidant in the world".
That makes sense. However, in fact, the common ground is excavated, and there are depths of interests and hobbies, which can be cultivated.
Therefore, in the process of getting along with middle-aged women, be sure to make her interests and hobbies clear, and match them with your own, you will definitely find surprises. Don't refute this first, you can try it and you will know, years of experience.
This way you can talk more about this, and when the other person finds out that she and you have similarities, the emotional relationship between the two people will get closer and closer. It seems that there is providence in the darkness, and two people are arranged to know each other. This is the charm of fate, which will make women more determined about their feelings for you.
Third, talk about the future planning and realization plan.
Some men think that women are emotional, care more about the feelings of the present, and do not think too much about the future. In fact, this idea is very one-sided. For middle-aged women, they enter the middle-aged stage and will yearn for the future more, and this yearning will add a little rationality.
Some middle-aged women have big dreams, and some just want a plain, simple, happy and happy life.
Therefore, talking to middle-aged women about the future is a very important thing, and it is also a time to show your skills.
A wise woman knows that a beautiful skin bag is never better than a powerful inner. You can combine your current foundations with your personal development path to illustrate the realization of your future plans. In this process, try to use your talent to attract her, try to show your shining point. It will definitely gain her favor, and when a woman gradually develops a good feeling for you and gets closer and closer to you, it means that she is impressed by your personal charm.
Conclusion
Now you know, the pursuit of middle-aged women, and young girls, the focus is not the same, do not always use those sweet words of love and love, if you really like her, then do not deal with it casually, but to understand her views on marital feelings, find your common ground, and plan for the future.
Every middle-aged woman hopes to find a sense of belonging and find a man worth relying on in her feelings, so let middle-aged women know that being with you, not necessarily rich and expensive, but can live a stable life, the future can be expected.
Of course, for middle-aged women, they not only care about how you say, but also pay more attention to how you do it, and your actions are the most solid and powerful guarantee.
Sharing here, the 54-year-old Uncle Zhou suddenly sighed: I remember when I was a teenager earlier, everyone sincerely said one sentence after another. At that time, the days passed slowly, the cars and horses were slow, and there was only enough to love one person in my life.
The uncle finally stressed: Although the pursuit of middle-aged women is said to be skilled, if this skill is only once, it is a routine, if you can use it for a lifetime, it is sincere. Hopefully men will treat the woman they like with sincerity and don't live up to her love for you