A mention of Chaoshan girls
Almost a five-star positive rating for Yishui
What beautiful and gentle, virtuous and decent, cute and playful
open! open! moisten! side!
There is a saying: If you marry a wife, you should marry a Chaoshan woman
Marrying a Chaoshan woman is simply accumulating eight lifetimes of virtue
But many people don't know that there is another sentence after this sentence
That is
marry! person! other! marry! tide! Shan! man!
Chaoshan men are obviously not as "good life" as Chaoshan women
Not only are there a lot of shortcomings in word of mouth
"Chaoshan men are very macho, and when they marry, they lose their freedom."
"I'm afraid I'm going to have a soccer team when I get married."
"Chaoshan men are not good, delicious and lazy to do and mother's treasure!"
......
It has also been hacked out on the Internet
Search for "marrying a Chaoshan man" at one point
The results of the top 10 are surprisingly consistent
They are all bitterly advising each other, "Never marry a Chaoshan man"
A certain Chaoshan man is even worse
It can be called a gorgeous flower in the man's world
It's as if marrying them is self-destructing...
In short, the reputation of Chaoshan men in the jianghu
Just like the virtuous and virtuous Chaoshan women
It's just that the wind review is exactly at two extremes
Some people don't have to get along with Chaoshan men at all
In his heart, he silently sentenced them to death
For example, a while ago
Sponge introduces a friend to a blind date
As soon as I heard that the other party was a Chaoshan person
The girl waved her hand one after another: No, no
Sponge had to look confused
What did the Chaoshan man do wrong???
Let the girl be so frightened
In the eyes of friends from out of town
Chaoshan Man can be said to be a magical existence in 9102
Today, let's take a closer look
Chaoshan men's "incriminating evidence"
There is only glue in the eyes
"Provincial Boy" don't want to integrate into Chaoshan Province
The Chaoshan people are a group that loves to hug the group, and the xenophobia is known throughout the country.
In Chaoshan, as long as you speak a word of Mandarin and expose your identity as a foreigner, they will silently classify you as a "provincial boy" (slightly pejorative) and develop a natural hostility towards you.
Chaoshan people only play with their own people wherever they go, and their acceptance of outsiders is extremely low.
▲ It seems to be a search engine that sees through everything
selfish
Irritability can lead to domestic violence
Men have an inviolable and sacred position in the family, selfish and violent.
Because of the preference for sons over daughters, boys in the Chaoshan region have been spoiled lawless from childhood to adulthood, and have developed an impatient and violent personality.
Many Chaoshan men have a tendency to domestic violence after marriage, and they beat their wives without a word.
▲ Domestic violence news, the male protagonist is a Chaoshan person
Patriarchal
Don't give up without having a son
Every Chaoshan man has an imperial throne to inherit in his family, and he will never give up until he has a son.
It is said that Chaoshan men are looking for objects, and their appearance and family character are secondary, and the most important thing is to "have a good birth". If you are a skinny little fairy, basically the man's parents will not like it, because it seems that he "can't give birth to a son".
Many Chaoshan people have 5 or more children in their families, and many families want to give birth to a son, even if there are already N daughters in front of them, they must continue to give birth...
Men and women love face
Machismo is deeply rooted
Chaoshan men are simply synonymous with machismo, and the family status of women married to the past is very low.
Even under the impact of modern education, Chaoshan men still adhere to the obsession of "women should do housework" and "it doesn't matter if they give birth to girls, but they must give birth to boys", and even in some people's homes, women are not allowed to go to the table or participate in sacrifice activities.
Obviously, he was a gentle and gentle warm man before marriage, and after marriage, he began to expose his nature. Not only does he not do housework, he does not have children, but he also yells at his wife, as if he is a grandfather...
Overzealous
Pray to God and worship The Buddha every day
The superstition of the Chaoshan people is also a well-known horror.
Every Chaoshan ziniangzi must learn various customs of worshiping the old master from an early age, and only when she grows up can she be a "qualified" wife. If you are a foreigner who marries into Chaoshan Province, these ritual customs are enough to give you a headache.
Chaoshan parents will also use the "eight-character discord" to beat the Mandarin duck, even if you are excellent in all aspects, as long as the "eight-character discord" will be kicked out. Even after nine or nine eighty-one difficulties in getting married, the family will not give you a good look...
lazy and gluttonous
Marry to serve the whole family
Chaoshan men are delicious and lazy, and eating enough every day is to make tea.
Chaoshan men have a very high opinion of themselves, thinking that the trivial housework of washing the table should be done by the woman. When visiting the Chaoshan family, they often found that their wives were busy in the kitchen, while the husband was in the living room, making tea and watching TV leisurely with erlang's legs cocked.
Chaoshan men at home ten fingers do not dip the yang spring water, marrying the past is equivalent to serving them for a lifetime...
See here
I believe that all the Chaoshan compatriots have begun to rub their fists
Originally the wind evaluation is not good
Such a Chaoshan man can still get a wife!
But! Listen to me!
Sponge as a native of the Chaoshan posture of the girl
There are too many Chaoshan boys who have been exposed to from childhood to adulthood
I want to tell you
The above statements are too one-sided
The older generation of Chaoshan people did have excessive feudal ideas
But now the Chaoshan people of the new era
It's a new look!
Tips: The following explanation is not "whitewashing"
It is only what the Chaoshan people have seen, heard and felt
About exclusion
Unity ≠ xenophobic
In the early years, the Chaoshan people succeeded in doing business in Nanyang, thanks to the mutual help and mutual assistance of the Chaoshan people. As the saying goes, one side of the water and soil to support the other side, since ancient times, the Chaoshan region has gathered the Chaoshan people together because of the ancestral hall, we are not exclusive, just united.
When sponge went to college, many girls were warmly crying by the Chaoshan boys in the same village ~ military training to send herbal tea, dragon boat dumplings, New Year's Day to send tangyuan, Mid-Autumn Festival to send mooncakes, and even, during the physiological period to send a cup of warm brown sugar ginger tea!
To use "xenophobia" to distort the unity of the Chaoshan people is too unjust...
▲ Even the Chaoshan people who were invited by Jesus to enter the temple to worship would be xenophobic?
About having children
Pay more attention to eugenics and eugenics
The Chaoshan people of the previous generation have made great achievements, so they all hope that a man will inherit the family business. However, with the increase of life pressure and the increase in the cost of raising children, many Chaoshan people have not pursued the number of children, but pay more attention to eugenics.
The sixth census shows that the ratio of men to women in Chaoshan is 103:100, far lower than Shenzhen's 118:100, and even lower than the national level.
The Chaoshan people's preference for sons and daughters is already a relic of the old era.
About machismo
Chaoshan man's domineering pampering
In the Chaoshan of the last century, because most men shouldered the burden of the family, they formed a family structure within the male and female protagonists. In those days, men were on a higher footing than women.
In the new era, Chaoshan women are no longer a single housewife role, and many Chaoshan women have entered the workplace, assumed the responsibility of supporting their families, and are consistent with men in status. And the chaoshan men who have been generally educated also know how to respect women.
However, there is a saying in Chaoshan called "love mu and work hard". Chaoshan men still have the phenomenon of "machismo" in some aspects. For example, eating and rushing to pay the bill, taking on the heavy responsibility on themselves, and not allowing their beloved girl to work too hard outside...
About delicious lazy to do
Delicious without refutation, lazy to do no reason
I accept that Chaoshan men are delicious, after all, Chaoshan food is really too much to eat. But to say they're lazy to do it, we must refute it!
Chaoshan men are famous for loving to do housework and love to be clean, and there is a Chaoshan man in the university dormitory, which is equivalent to owning a mopping machine for free, and it feels uncomfortable not to drag twice a day.
In their careers, they are not lazy, to know that Chaoshan people are famous for their love to fight, most of them have a "boss dream", shrewd and capable, willing to endure hardships, so the Chaoshan area is particularly rich in rich and great people
About superstition
The bye-lord procedure is no longer cumbersome
The custom of ancestor worship in the Chaoshan region has a long history, and for the Chaoshan people, this is a kind of custom inheritance.
People in every place need faith to sustenance, and worshipping the old master is not a superstition for the Chaoshan people, but a spiritual belief, praying for the blessing of the family by worshipping ancestors.
Although most of the Chaoshan families in the new era have inherited the custom of worshiping gods, they have simplified the process, and their hearts are sincere and spirited, and they do not seek formal complexity.
▲ A manual can be easily obtained
Write at the end
There are thousands of labels in Chaoshan Province, worship of gods, temple fairs, flower lanterns, English songs and dances, beef hot pot... Every label shows the mysterious charm of the Chaoshan area, but to interact with Chaoshan boys, you must be fully prepared psychologically.
Chaoshan boys will take you to integrate into Chaoshan and will also use Chaoshan cuisine to make you increasingly obese. They love their families and take care of their families, there is a Chaoshan man around them, you will be spoiled and lose your ability to take care of yourself...
There are still many controversies about Chaoshan men, but with the development of the times, the ideological concepts of Chaoshan men in the new era are gradually changing.
They are no longer what you call them! Please also don't judge a person and veto him when you don't know him.
Try to let go of "hearing and hearing" and don't know a person from someone else's mouth, knowing yourself is far more important than hearing.
What's more, Chaoshan men are also very good.
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