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In life, when it comes to having children, many young people will become very cautious, with the increase in work and life pressure, if not rich and idle, few people are willing to have more children.
However, due to regional cultural differences, people in different places also have different concepts of fertility, in Guangdong, Fujian and other places, many young people still uphold the traditional concept of having many children and many blessings, and many of them have invested unimaginable enthusiasm in the matter of having children.
In 1988, Bao Mom gave birth to 6 babies in 13 years, 5 women and 1 man fought to the children and daughters, and then prepared to conceive the 7th child
Are you married now in '88? How many children are there?
As the end of the 80s, I believe that many people have reached the age of old and young, and in the married army after 80, the vast majority of people are first- or second-born families.
But in Jieyang, Guangdong Province, an 88-year-old mother has now given birth to 6 children!
Married for 13 years, giving birth to 5 daughters and 1 child, almost every two years to get pregnant with the frequency, this mother in the social platform after posting her life has aroused the attention of many netizens.
In the picture, 5 daughters appear in the same pajamas, each one is well-behaved and cute, and the sisters hold small hands and look happy and warm.
For many young couples, children and daughters are all an obsession, especially when they have 5 daughters, they will always reluctantly want to try again, hoping to spell out a little man.
Facts have proved that Bao Ma's efforts have not been in vain, as a Chaoshan person who pays attention to many children and many blessings, Bao Ma finally fulfilled the wish of her children after giving birth to 5 daughters, and her younger son looks white and pure, very cute.
But this did not make her stop the pace of continuing to create people, it is understood that after having 6 cute children, Bao Mom decided to prepare for the seventh child!
In this regard, some netizens ridiculed the reason why Bao Ma dared to give birth to a baby so willfully must be that there must be a mine in the family, and some people frankly said that this has been seen in the Chaoshan area, almost every family will have several children, and the only child has become a special existence in the local area.
Netizens hotly discussed:
"In many places, many children and many blessings are carved in the bones, in fact, as long as the family situation can be, do not grievance children, it is also very good to have more children, the family is lively, and parents also have to rely on in their later years."
"Chaoshan women are the luckiest if they are sons of one child and two children, and they have completed the task."
" Admire, the same 88 years, gave birth to a daughter, every day to help the homework to be crazy, do not know how this mother with a string of children ..."
Nowadays, with the liberalization of the birth policy, many people have joined the army of two children and three children.
Although everyone has the freedom to reproduce, objectively speaking, "more children and more blessings" also needs to be based on a certain material basis, otherwise it will only reduce the quality of life of all children, and eventually life will become a chicken feather.
To give birth to a second child and a third child, parents should focus on the following points:
First, whether there is enough material base.
The material foundation is the guarantee of the family's life, it is related to the child's food, clothing, housing and learning resources, if there is no material foundation, blindly give birth to a baby, and eventually will only carry huge pressure on yourself.
Second, whether there is someone to help with the baby.
Having a child is a fleeting thing, but having a child is a distant process, so if you want to have more children, you must have someone in the family to help with the baby.
Otherwise, the pressure of taking care of the child is all placed on the mother, and it is easy to affect the mother's negative emotions and family atmosphere.
Finally, whether the purpose of procreation is to really like children.
Some people choose to have more children because they really like children, but some people have children who prefer sons to daughters or blindly follow the trend.
The former can treat every child equally after giving birth, but in the latter family, the phenomenon of uneven bowls of water abounds.
If it is blindly following the trend of giving birth to children, then many parents are very irresponsible in the parenting and education of their children, which is a great harm to the growth of children.
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