postscript
The pain of many people has become a habit, caused by the inertia of thinking.
Some habits are learned from the original family, and the wrong way parents get along, or the way parents treat us wrongly, let us get used to it.
Some habits are learned from marriage, and the moments of friction and disappointment with our partners many times make us unwilling to believe anymore.
Many of the modern people's marriage models are "inseparable and not good", and they clearly desire happiness in their hearts, but they dare not believe in happiness.
Like the dog that was electrocuted, knowing that the damage would come, why bother.
In fact, all changes should start from the "heart".
Maybe the external environment has not changed, as long as our hearts have changed, our feelings will change.
Although we have learned helplessness, we are different from the dog that was shocked by the electric shock.
We have seen the source of our suffering, we have seen where the door is, so let's go out toward that door.
Believe in yourself and work hard to change the outcome.
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