Loved, how can you give up?
We all want to meet someone who moves us at the best of times.
Once you hold hands with people who are related, everyone will also have the desire to stay together in a state of involuntary.
After two people become lovers, can they go on hand hand?
Every couple who have loved each other has had a long-term expectation.
However, there will still be many couples, walking and walking, but ushered in the end of parting ways.
They have loved each other, but they cannot keep their vows.
Sometimes, love is really fragile.
Yesterday, the couple swore an oath, said romantic love words, and looked forward to more happiness in the future. Clinker, only needs one possibility, the feelings of two people, it is easy to appear deep cracks.
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Time is silent, but it bears witness to everything.
Feelings are full of variables.
There is no denying that love can change a person.
For adults, in order to complete love, to completely change themselves, it really takes courage.
If you don't love enough, it is easy for everyone to lose enough patience in the emotional world and never want to change and improve for each other. Especially when a person becomes disappointed in love, he will not continue to embarrass himself.
The passage of time is often silent.
However, it can witness all love.
People who truly love each other will walk hand in hand in the long river of time and continue to love happily.
There are also some people who love very shallowly, and in the face of successive tests, they will gradually waver. Until one day, these people will behave out of the ordinary and completely betray the people around them.
Sometimes, even sometimes, some people have already betrayed love, while the other party is completely unaware.
02
Changed hearts, reflected in the details.
A person's energy is limited.
Everyone hopes that the best years will be entrusted to those who deserve to be loved.
Once we fall in love with someone, we will guard carefully, for fear of any misunderstanding of each other's feelings and differences that affect each other's fate.
To this end, many friends have spared no expense and spared no effort.
However, the direction of emotion is not something that one party can influence. For example, girls draw a clear line with men before they are moved; if they fall in love with men, they can easily choose to blindly give.
Because of love, girls are ready to follow each other for a lifetime, and even have the spirit of moths to put out fires.
However, fortunate and long-term feelings are the result of the interaction between two people, and both parties need to work together to manage them. The absence of either party will make the other party become disappointed, thus losing the balance of feelings.
Especially those who like the new and hate the old, it is easy to pick and choose the fate in front of them in the dull period of love. If they encounter new temptations, these people are likely to commit acts of betrayal.
To girls: A person empathizes and does not fall in love, the details cannot be hidden.
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Staring at your phone and smirking, but not showing it to you.
Happiness can be shared.
What does it mean for two people to come together?
After encountering love, everyone will deeply feel that being together with each other can not only relieve the loneliness in the heart, but also increase happiness because of sharing.
Two people who really love each other can't help but share.
Because, for both parties, the other is the most important person, and the joys and sorrows are related to each other.
On the contrary, if couples get along, there is no sharing and sharing, it means that love has gone far, and such feelings have long lost the meaning of love.
How to judge whether a person has changed his mind? From the details of getting along, it is easy to find clues.
For example, it is a common phenomenon for couples to look at each other's mobile phones.
If your lover looks at the mobile phone from time to time and smirks, especially when chatting with others, there is a state of self-forgetfulness, and deliberately avoids you, the mobile phone is not willing to show you. In this case, everyone must have a sense of risk.
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Overtime becomes a habit, but without regularity.
Lovers together, is romantic and beautiful.
When in love, the two couples are eager to stick together every day.
Especially when two people enter marriage hand in hand, or have the opportunity to get along day and night. Once off work, both sides will hurriedly drop off their work and rush to each other's side.
These signals reflect the fact that we love each other very much.
But the love of many people is easy to usher in a transformation. Especially in the period of emotional blandness, the true face of some people will gradually show it, and love or no love will become obvious.
When a person changes his heart, in addition to love, meets a new fate, how do you judge it?
One of the most obvious signs, the other person, is suddenly busy. Find all kinds of excuses to work overtime every day, but the overtime time will appear irregular.
And when the lover asks why, that person becomes impatient. In love, if there is such a signal, everyone must also keep an eye on it.
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Keen to send a circle of friends, but will block you.
In life, there is such a phenomenon:
When single, some people like to send circles of friends.
Mood changes, or when something new happens, everyone will send it out.
And when they encounter love, these people will automatically ignore this hobby and focus on the lovers around them. Psychologically, why is this the case?
Usually, it is influenced by the "exclusivity" factor.
Love needs to be focused and single-minded, and when you meet someone worth loving, everyone will pour time and energy into each other, and in the face of other temptations, they will choose to avoid it.
Therefore, there will always be some people who, after meeting love, rarely send a circle of friends. On the one hand, there is no time to interact with friends; on the other hand, it is deliberately kept at a distance from other members of the opposite sex.
From this point of view, if a person is in a relationship, but frequently sends a circle of friends, is keen to send photos of individuals, etc., and deliberately shields the lovers around him, it can only show a fact that this person's heart is catty.
Falling in love with someone, we all want to last forever.
But in love, in addition to romance and consummation, there will also be betrayal.
Even if everyone loves sincerely, they must be mentally prepared. If one day, you encounter an inappropriate person, the other party has the behavior of empathy and love, the best way to deal with it, or stop the loss in time.
Give up on one and don't care about your people.
For the rest of your life, you will meet someone who truly cherishes you.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.