Someone said, "Adult love, either transfer money or marry you." True love is real. ”
People who truly love you will not let you be wronged, and they will not count you in the name of being good for you. For he will be blessed with you and blessed with all the hardships.
As Hrabar said: "When you meet the right person, he will spoil you and love you and tolerate you, even if you were full of armor and thorns before, you will become a childlike childishness, like a child's laughter and life." ”。
Therefore, a marriage is a honeypot, and a bad business is a fire pit.
01, parents sick husband mention AA
Zeng Yan has always thought that her marriage with her husband is solid and inseparable. After all, it was her husband who took the initiative to pursue her. If she hadn't been married upside down, her husband might not have been able to marry her only daughter in the city.
Zeng Yan and her husband are college classmates, and her husband fell in love with her at first sight, but she did not have a special affection for her husband. If it were not for her husband's stalking behind her, and it was a gift and a flower, Zeng Yan would not compromise at all.
When getting married, the in-laws could not afford to give a decent bride price, nor could they make a down payment, and finally relied on Zeng Yan's parents to accompany the marriage room, and the two people successfully married and started a family.
For the sake of their daughter, the parents wrote only Zeng Yan's name on the real estate certificate of the dowry house very early. After marriage, my husband also tried many times to add his own name. In order to achieve the goal, the husband also threatened to divorce.
But Zeng Yan refused, believing that although the couple was married, the dowry room was bought by her parents. If the husband wants to have face in front of his relatives and friends, he is not always calculating how to add his name to the dowry room, but he should redouble his efforts and save enough for a down payment to buy a house that really belongs to him.
Zeng Yan refused, and her husband thought that he had no face, and he had a lot of estrangement from Zeng Yan since then. Even Zeng Yan's parents were sick, and her husband was indifferent, and he also proposed to Zeng Yan that the couple AA system, whose parents took care of who paid for it.
02, the child with their own surname
The husband's demarcation of the line and the proposal of the AA system completely hurt Zeng Yan's heart. Since then, Zeng Yan has never mentioned her parents to her husband again. And the in-laws' affairs, she basically let go, do not pay attention to it.
When Zeng Yan gave birth to a child, her husband said that his parents had worked hard to raise him, Zeng Yan was confinement and taking care of the child, just look for his mother's parents, his parents raised him hard, it is not easy, do not morally kidnap his parents.
Zeng Yan looked at the man who had let himself paste upside down, did not say a word, picked up the child and returned to his mother's house. When the child was full moon, Zeng Yan directly changed the child's surname and surname with his own. At this point, parents with their children are more dedicated.
When her husband found out that the child had changed his surname, he made a big fuss, thinking that Zeng Yan and his parents-in-law were too bullying. He is obviously not a door-to-door son-in-law, but the child has the surname of his wife, which makes him how to raise his head in front of his parents and relatives and friends?
Zeng Yan didn't care if her husband could lift her head, when her husband first proposed the AA system, she did not expect this man anymore. This child was not born to her husband and in-laws, but to herself and her parents.
03, two years later, the husband is anxious: the child is your surname, my parents are sick, you don't pay for it
The husband thought that the change of surname was just accidental, but for Zeng Yan, it was a beginning. After two years, the in-laws were sick and hospitalized, and the husband went to work alone during the day and stayed in bed at night, and only ran for three days before the whole person fell apart.
He asked Zeng Yan to resign and come back to take care of his parents, Zeng Yan's salary was only half of his salary, but the money he asked for caregivers every day was more than this amount. Zeng Yan listened to it, but did not agree, let alone resign.
After running for a week, her husband finally couldn't bear it, he was anxious, and rushed to Zeng Yan's parents' house overnight, asking Zeng Yan to perform the duties of being a wife and a daughter-in-law. Zeng Yan looked at her angry and corrupt husband and immediately felt very ridiculous.
At the beginning, she was also anxious to sleep badly all night for her parents' illness, but her husband said lightly that whose parents paid for who took care of them, and his son-in-law had no obligation. Now that she is only treating her body in the way of others, what is her husband angry about?
Seeing that Zeng Yan refused, her husband was immediately anxious. He pleaded with Zeng Yan: The child is with your surname, my parents are sick, you don't have money to wait, how long do you have to worry about it? Even if I'm wrong, you forced me. You and your parents care so much about the house that the title deed won't even add my name.
The parents couldn't listen to it, directly drove people away, and told the son-in-law that we did not refuse to add your name, but that you were too calculating. No money, no effort, but good face, want to sit back and enjoy its success, such a son-in-law, if not the daughter likes, we are determined not to let marry.
In the end, Zeng Yan did not go back, and naturally did not contribute money and efforts. It is not that she is cruel, but after experiencing the test of human nature, she understands that the only people who can not ask for returns for their own good in this life are their parents.
Today's Topic:
Do you think Zeng Yan did it right?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!