1. Exhortation
Case: Quarrel with a companion, snatch a toy...
Method: First put down the work at hand, and walk to the child's side, let the child know that you are paying attention and attention; then ask the child the reason for the dispute, quarrel, and patiently listen to the child's thoughts; instill the child to hit people, robbery is not the correct behavior and concept, and ask the child to learn to say "please, thank you, sorry."
Advice: Do not suppress or threaten the child with a loud voice; do not directly pull the child away and then loudly reprimand the child for not being; avoid hurting the child's self-esteem between words.
2. Hit the palm of your hand
Cases: Fights, littering...
Method: Make a paper stick from newspaper, the appearance can be wrapped in a layer of paper; give it a name, such as vigilance stick, Chen Jia stick... Placed in a fixed place as a warning. Suggestion: When you are in a good mood, you can discuss with your child the reason for making a vigilance stick; when punishing your child, first let him say what he is wrong; remind the reason for the punishment; pay attention to safety issues, the part of the beating is mainly the palm of the hand, the buttocks, and other parts should be avoided.
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3. Penalty sitting
Case: Noisy, quarrelsome...
Method: Put a cushion or a chair on the penalty area, you can take a name; prepare an alarm clock or clock to time the penalty time.
Suggestion: The place of punishment is not directly opposite the gate, not too obvious; limit the time of punishment, or let the child say how long the punishment will be; after the punishment, let the child say the reason for the punishment today.