"Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", for men, the most feared thing is to choose the wrong industry, find the wrong job, then there will be no room for development, for women, the most feared is to find the wrong man, marry the wrong husband, marriage can not get happiness.
Women want to marry a good husband, can spoil themselves, love themselves, care about themselves, care about themselves, be single-mindedly good to themselves, are willing to pay for themselves, and regard themselves as a man who is a baby of the heart.
But not every woman can find a good husband, there is no shortage of some women's husbands do not love her, or even ignore her, do not care, do not love, and from time to time lose their temper with her.
There are so few good men now, the 4 performances of men "spoiling their wives", even if they are 1, you are married to the right person, you are a happy woman.
1, willing to spend money for you
After many women get married, they will find that life is actually not easy, there are more and more places where money is needed, money is always not enough to spend, and they are also reluctant to spend, and they can save a point on a point.
If you marry the wrong man, he is also very stingy with you, will not let you buy anything, will not let you buy anything, will see the money as dead, and will not allow you to spend more.
But if you marry the right man, will spoil your man, even if the money is not very rich, he would rather spend it himself, but also to buy you what you should buy, never want to treat you badly, even if you do not want you, he will pull you to buy, let you wear beautiful clothes, carry your favorite bag, and materially enrich you.
2, only for you alone
After many women get married, they will find that in fact, the married life is very plain, not as colorful as imagined, and even for a long time, there is no passion between the two people, and the feelings will be much lighter.
If you marry the wrong man, a man without responsibility, he will most likely be tempted by the outside world to betray you, betray your marriage, cheat in marriage, and no longer be good to you.
But if you marry the right man, even if life is bland, he will still be single-mindedly good to you, put his mind and energy on the family, put it on you, will not be ambiguous with other women, know how to keep a distance from other women, his heart is always only you, will not love others.
3, will share the housework for you
After getting married, women will find that laundry, cooking, cleaning, children, etc., there will be endless housework every day, the day is already very tired after work, and the housework is busy at night, and every day is busy until late.
If you marry the wrong man, a man who does not know how to hurt you, he can't see your busyness at all, and he can't see your tiredness, he will never reach out to help you, and he will never share it for you.
But if you marry the right man, he can always share for you, will take the initiative to help you do housework, you cook, he will brush the dishes for you, you wash clothes, he will mop the floor for you, he is always afraid that you are too tired and too hard, and he is willing to do more.
4. Take the initiative to admit your mistakes after quarrelling
There is no husband and wife in the world that do not quarrel, after marriage, two people get along day and night, it is inevitable that there will be times when there is disagreement, there will inevitably be contradictions, and occasional quarrels are also a normal thing.
If you marry the wrong man, do not know how to tolerate you, will not let you, and the temper is still unusually large, at every turn to lose your temper, always special fierce to you, after the quarrel will never admit mistakes, has been cold war with you.
But if you marry the right man, a man who will spoil you, know how to let you, will not lose his temper with you at will, even if he quarrels with you, he will take the initiative to bow his head and admit his mistakes, even if it is not his fault, and always try to coax you to be happy, he is reluctant to see you sad and sad.
A woman's greatest happiness is to find a man who loves herself and spoils herself, and the biggest misfortune of a woman is to find a man who does not love himself, if a man loves you enough, cherish him, cherish his love for you, but if a man does not love you, it is not good for you at all, you can also choose to leave him, do not put yourself.