"Heart Residence": Feng Xiaoqin, who was married for the second time, finally hardened once!

01

Two days ago I said Gu Qingyu is too green tea

, the comments were fierce. Half of the people felt that I was right, and the other half felt that Gu Qingyu was right, because Feng Xiaoqin was not worth helping.

Indeed this drama, can not find a favorite person. Whether it is a male and female protagonist, or a supporting role, it is difficult to find a role that does not make people complain.

But recently

Trapped at home, although there are too many slot points,

I had to go to one side

scold

side

Keep looking.

Maybe this is life, there are no pure right good people, and there are no pure right bad people.

First of all, when I say Gu Qingyu Green Tea, I don't mean that Feng Xiaoqin is a good person.

If you take Gu Lei's death as the first half of Feng Xiaoqin's life, then she was really unlikable at that time, in addition to doing housework, full of shortcomings.

First, unscrupulous means to achieve the goal

Feng Xiaoqin had a fiancé before marrying Gu Lei, but unfortunately died in a car accident. At that time, Feng Xiaoqin was already pregnant, and she could not bear to have an abortion and gave birth, that is, the younger brother Feng Danian, who was declared to the outside world.

When Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei got married, they hid this experience. In fact, Gu Qingyu had already found out, which was also one of the reasons why she did not want to see Feng Xiaoqin. Feng Xiaoqin's feelings for Gu Lei are not deep, and the most fundamental reason why she married him is that she wants to take root in Shanghai, have a Shanghai hukou, and have a Shanghai house. She knew that Gu Lei was honest, and she could hold it.

After marriage, she thought of various ways to buy a house, which can be described as an extreme.

Second, there is no sense of boundaries

Feng Xiaoqin did things without a sense of boundaries, and brought her sister Xixi to the Shanghai in-laws' house for a few years. Such things are indeed rare.

Shanghai is full of land, Feng Xiaoqin feels that renting a house outside is expensive, and Xi Qian can't afford to pay, so she must squeeze in the Gu family. Although the Gu family house is not small, there are many people living in it.

Four generations of grandchildren

Looking up under the same roof and not looking down, it must have increased the gu family's troubles.

But Feng Xiaoqin did not think so, she said, Xi Xi is a guest, and Xi Xi also helps with housework.

Ask which guest one

Just a few years to live? Over the years, has Sissi paid for food? At all costs

The Gu family has no obligation to raise Xi Qian!

More over

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Later, after Feng Da came, he also lived in the Gu family. Even Gu Dad complained: a family of 6 people, 3 surnamed Gu, whose house is it?

Third, greed

About Feng Xiaoqin's purchase of a house,

Although I said in another article that Gu Qingyu's refusal to borrow money is a bit double-standard, in fact, from Feng Xiaoqin's point of view, she should not open this mouth. A total price of 2.5 million yuan, a down payment of 1 million yuan, but also a installment loan, this is the empty glove white wolf.

The idea that a woman wants to gain a foothold in Shanghai is good, but to get these things, she should rely on her own efforts, not rely on Gu Lei and his family.

Gu Lei's salary is not high, Feng Xiaoqin has no income, to buy a house, all rely on reaching out to his family, Gu Lei is of course embarrassed.

If it wasn't for Feng Xiaoqin forcing Gu Lei excessively, he wouldn't have an accident.

02

Of course, the TV series must wash the protagonist white.

After Gu Lei's death, Feng Xiaoqin had no one to rely on and to raise her son. In the face of such a big life change, her life is in trouble, but she realizes that she can only rely on herself, put it to death and live later.

Feng Xiaoqin began to send takeaways to supplement the family, and in the second half of her life, her advantages were reflected one by one.

First, effort

Everyone knows that delivery workers are hard, and female delivery workers are even more difficult. Feng Xiaoqin has a low education, and she has to take care of the old and the young, and she can't find a suitable job for a while, so she can only find a casual job to make money. The delivery man is the most suitable and the lowest threshold, as long as there is a small electric donkey.

Feng Xiaoqin sent takeaway food in the wind and rain, did not earn much, but also often complained, gave bad reviews, and even almost was insulted, the old man of the Gu family looked at it and was distressed, let her not do it, give her family, give her the tuition of the little tiger, but she did not want, insisted on doing it. Not only that, but the family's work has not fallen at all, and he still buys vegetables and cooks to take care of the family.

Second, kindness

Although Feng Xiaoqin is greedy and small, the biggest advantage of her is kindness. Especially for the elderly have a compassionate heart. She cares about her neighbor Grandma Zhang and chats and dances with her.

When delivering takeaways, you can also care about the elderly who are born in plain life

In daily life, I care about eating well or not, and sleeping well.

Feng Xiaoqin

The reason why the nursing home can open well is because she really starts from the needs of the elderly and wants them to be safe

degree

old age.

Zhan Xiang did not want to accept the sick elderly, but Feng Xiaoqin felt that doing so violated their original intention of running a nursing home no later. It is at her insistence that the elderly can stay in the nursing home again, find companions and fun.

Third, persistence

When Feng Xiaoqin wanted to accomplish something, she was particularly persistent and vowed not to give up until she reached her goal. This was true when I wanted to buy a house, and it was also true when I wanted to start a nursing home later. She didn't have any money herself, but Zhan Xiang had ah, and she was soft and hard, stalking. Personally making breakfast and supper were delivered to Zhan Xiang's hands, explaining to him again and again the benefits of the nursing home.

Knowing that Zhan Xiang did not like people to say that he was an upstart who started by speculating in houses, she told Zhan Xiang that this career can not only help the elderly, but more importantly, it can make him more noodles in front of Gu Qingyu and go to a higher grade. herself

Will not do the project plan, just check the Internet, ask for advice, and run the relevant departments over and over again. house

The decoration is also personally watched, nothing

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Fine, fully engaged.

Such a partner, which boss does not want?

Fourth, sober

When you see the word "sober", do you think it is incredible?

Feng Xiaoqin in the second half of her life really lived to understand and live soberly. She's not only

I know that women have to rely on their careers, and they know that the happiness of marriage also depends on themselves.

Feng Xiaoqin met her second spring, the suitor Xiaoding turned out to be a rich second generation, and her mother was in business.

There is a high-end villa with its own elevator and hot spring bar. Such a mansion was something That Feng Xiaoqin had never seen before.

The key is that Xiao Ding is still very sticky to her,

Like her, he said that looking for a wife is to find feelings, and he doesn't care at all that Feng Xiaoqin has a son.

Xiao Ding begged Feng Xiaoqin

Married, as long as she nods, she can live in a mansion. This had to be something she had to laugh at in her dreams before.

For so many years, Feng Xiaoqin's biggest wish was to buy a house of her own, but her husband was lost by her, and the house was still flying in the sky. Right now

With such a big temptation in front of her, how could she not be excited?

However, at this time, Feng Xiaoqin was no longer the Feng Xiaoqin of that year. After careful consideration, she made a sober decision,

Rejected Xiaoding's marriage proposal,

Finally hardened again!

Zhan Xiang was surprised to know and asked her, are you not sick!

Be aware

A widowed woman like Feng Xiaoqin with a son

A man who can find Xiaoding's condition is no less than a pie in the sky. Whoever saw it thought she should grab this well

She had a good chance to change her destiny, and there was no such shop after passing through this village.

But Feng Xiaoqin

No

Go the old way again. she

Say, what is a good day? Happy days. It's impossible to be happy with someone you don't like, and your days aren't much better.

Besides, Xiao Ding's mother is an entrepreneur, which is certainly not simple. Even if Feng Xiaoqin agreed, would she be able to pass her level? If you don't get it right, it's also empty joy.

Fortunately, Feng Xiaoqin's realm had been enhanced, and these material needs were not rare. When she was in her twenties, Feng Xiaoqin married herself to a Shanghai man and relied on this man all her life, and now that she is in her thirties, she doesn't want to do this anymore, let alone go back to life!

She kind of lived to understand, she wants to find a favorite,

People who are in love with each other live a lifetime.

I have to say that women have a material foundation, the spiritual world is naturally independent, sassy and beautiful, will love be far away?

Author: Pretending to be a sleeping cat,

A middle-aged mother. I have done real estate copywriting, writer, Taobao treasurer, HR, experienced vicissitudes, and my heart is still soft. Everyone who pretends to be asleep, she says, expects to be woken up.