"Punching the face comes too quickly like a tornado; looking at the essence through the phenomenon, there is a lack of boats and people crossing"
I've seen a little story before.
A reporter interviewed many outstanding people who won Nobel Prizes.
"At what stage do you think your education has benefited you a lot?"
The reporters began by envisioning prestigious universities where these experts worked.
Or a place such as the Academy of Sciences for further study.
But I didn't expect that the answer given by many people was "kindergarten".
I learned the most important things in my life in kindergarten.
Divide your own things in half to your friends, not your own things do not take;
Things should be neatly arranged; wash your hands when eating; apologize for doing wrong things;
Learn to think more; observe nature carefully...
Fundamentally, that's all I learned.
I read this story when I was a child, but I still remember it vividly.
Because I think it makes a lot of sense.
Good habits should start from the doll.
Perhaps many people think that the main task of young children is to play.
But how to have a good time, have fun, play with levels.
Lay a good foundation for the rest of life and cultivate basic moral literacy.
This is a test level.
Indulgence, or blind restraint, is not good.
Instead, it needs to be relaxed.
In such a special period, nature requires special care.
Children need to have a correct three views in kindergarten.
Don't talk big, be sincere.
Children may not be good at lying, or lies may not be so true.
But that doesn't mean it won't.
Absence:
According to the cover news report. (With deletions)
On the evening of March 26, Shiyan, Hubei Province.
Ms. Zhang posted a surveillance video of her daughter Nini in a kindergarten classroom.
The kindergarten teacher was accused of instigating the class to besiege Nini and pull her hair.
According to Ms. Zhang, two parents asked the children afterwards.
It was confirmed that he was instigated by the teacher to pull it.
On March 28, the police responded that they were now involved in the investigation.
Seeing this, we often subjectively impose emotions on that kindergarten teacher.
Criticize it.
But maybe the truth is not as simple as we think.
According to a follow-up report by Singularity Finance.
On March 29, the education bureau of the area involved said.
After investigation by public security and other departments, the online content is inconsistent with the facts.
The content of the video was sent by the parents of the students.
At that time, the situation was a child's mood, and the teacher asked other children to help her.
Maybe I accidentally touched the girl's hair and didn't pull the hair or anything like that.
Officials are also writing a briefing.
This is a kind of reversal.
On the one hand, they asked for an investigation, and on the other hand, they had their own ideas.
Isn't that a contradiction?
The results of the investigation should also be accepted calmly.
Children are not emotionless, and they will resist from the age of 3 or so.
It's just that at that time, the ability to resist was too small, too small to be insignificant.
Not enough to be taken to heart by everyone.
But it will continue to develop until it is puberty.
The reason why the rebellion at this time is that everyone finds it tricky and difficult to deal with.
It is because of the ability to resist, the increase of knowledge and the growth of age.
Gave the children the strength to resist.
And the early childhood stage, as a transition.
He would speak emotionally.
So it is possible for children to lie.
At the same time, as for whether parents will have guiding words.
We don't know that.
Judging from the official information, the only thing that can be determined is that the statement is untrue.
And the reminder that comes to us is.
The education of young children is not sloppy.
Being a person is precious in sincerity, and you should start with the doll.
It's not that everything is unreserved, there's no mental defense.
Rather, under the premise of self-protection, do not deceive and conceal, or even slander others.
Landing children are always to be taught.
In the face of deception, it cannot be a simple brush stroke.
Instead, it is necessary to punish the small and the big admonition, and understand the bad behavior of such behavior.
Parents should lead by example.
At the same time, as a kindergarten teacher, it also has a special growth protection effect on the growth of young children.
Positive upward strength should be given.
Once a mistake in principle is made, it cannot be tolerated.