Instead of complaining that your child is addicted to playing with your phone, try to listen to each other with your child

Six-year-old Nini's parents divorced, and she was sentenced to her mother, but her mother was busy opening a shop, leaving early and returning late, so she was deposited at her uncle's house.

My aunt was very reluctant to see her, and every day she shrugged her face and didn't worry about Nini in her eyes. My uncle was busy with work, and he also came out early and returned late, but he came back before going out and greeted and cared about her.

And her cousin, who was two years older than her, was even more tired of her coming and sharing a room with herself, without a good word.

Seventy-year-old grandmother due to an accident, by a young man riding a motorcycle to escape, causing brain damage to become a vegetative person, a person lying in a small utility room for more than two years, every day by the uncle back to feed with nasal feeding.

During the day, when Nini is alone, she will come to her grandmother's house to talk to her grandmother, and she tells her mother that she only knows how to earn money, that her father has abandoned her and has a new home, and that she has a little brother, and they don't care about themselves.

When it rained, there was thunder and lightning, and Nini was very scared, so she came to her grandmother alone, lay on the edge of the bed and tightly held her grandmother's hand on her chest, so that her grandmother could feel her heartbeat. Grandma didn't react at all.

During the day, my cousin went to school, my aunt went to play mahjong, my uncle went to work, Nini seemed to hear the sound of rats in the house, and she was very scared and ran over to sit with her grandmother and let her grandmother's ear listen, there was no sound in the house, and her grandmother did not move.

Over time, Nini also became lonely and refused to speak, and when she saw her uncle's family, she would take the initiative to avoid it, and when she ate, she would carry her rice bowl to her grandmother's house while eating and talking to her grandmother.

Mom saw that Nini was lonely, so she bought her a smart story player, so that Nini could listen to the story by herself and talk to each other. Nini named her Xiaoni, just like her own sister.

When she has time, she will communicate with Her grandmother with Xiaoni, and once Nini actually connected to a sister in an emotional column in Xiaoni, Nini said what she had in her heart to this sister.

Every day when there was no one else in the house during the day, Nini would listen to each other's stories with her sister and grandmother. The grievances and distress in Nini's heart will be told to Xiao Ni's sister inside.

When the sister was busy, Nini and Xiaoni talked to each other, and slowly Nini's heart did not feel lonely, although she and this sister had not met, but this sister learned everything about Nini in the communication with Nini.

So the year passed quickly, Nini was going to school, and her mother was ready to pick her up.

After getting up after taking a nap on this day, Nini told her sister that she was going to leave next week, her mother was going to pick her up from school, and her sister was also happy to congratulate her, hoping that Nini could study well in the future, get along well with children, and contact her often in the future.

Nini also took her grandmother's hand and shook it to tell her grandmother that she was leaving. Suddenly Nini found that tears were flowing from her grandmother's eyes, and her mouth was still moving, Nini called out to her grandmother in surprise, and her sister inside Nini heard it and hurriedly told Nini to call her mother to tell the news.

Nini hurriedly used the phone watch that her mother bought for herself to call her mother, told her grandmother's situation, her mother did not believe it at first, and then Nini put the phone in front of Xiaoni, and Xiaoni's sister also advised her mother to hurry home to see.

Mom came back, saw the tear marks on Grandma's face, hurriedly called back to her uncle, sent Grandma to the hospital, the doctor was very surprised, heard the process, the doctor said that Nini's more than a year of talk to Little Nini's sister woke up Grandma.

And Nini also relieved the depression and loneliness in her heart through such a confession, which made Nini's mood better and became a mentally healthy child.

Learning to listen to your child is an effective action to help your child break down barriers to communication. Parents try to stand in the child's position, be a good listener, let the child have a person to talk to, you can let the child pour out their inner thoughts, so as to relieve the child's depression, so that her heart is full of sunshine.

Nini has the listening of her grandmother, the persuasion of her sister in Xiaoni, and the mutual dialogue with Xiaoni, so her bitter life has become meaningful, and the grandmother who has not been ignored for a long time has also felt this warm atmosphere and has actually been awakened.

Learning to listen to the child's voice can get the child out of the predicament, but also enrich the child's amateur life, but also can save the child from the mobile phone.

Parents, if you have been complaining that your child is addicted to playing mobile phones, then you can try to listen to each other with your child, listening is the need for us to pay enough sincerity and patience, but also to promise to keep the child's requirements appropriately confidential, otherwise, it will infringe and hurt the child, which is also a point of special attention.

I am a special teacher who pays attention to education, if you have this need, you can pay attention to me, we will discuss together to help you get rid of the trouble of educating children.