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Love often stems from friendship, compared to the impulse at first sight, love is more of a long-term love.
It is said that it is rare to know oneself in life, and if you are lucky enough to meet it, you must know how to cherish it. If it is for you, if you only regard each other as friends, not as lovers, then you must pay attention to proportions and maintain a certain distance when communicating.
A lot of feelings originate from jokes between each other, and the scale of jokes is not well grasped. Maybe the person you say is unintentional, does not mean that the listener has no intention, even if the other party does not misunderstand, it will bring you unnecessary trouble.
Often walk by the river, where there are shoes that are not wet. Not everyone can withstand temptation, and not everyone can play ambiguous. Between the opposite sex, even if the relationship is good, the minimum measure is still there,
You know, many times the truth is said through jokes, which seem to be jokes, but they are the truest thoughts in the depths of the heart. Therefore, between the opposite sex, these three kinds of jokes cannot be made, and it is easy to "stir" out feelings, and it is necessary to think twice.
We're going to make it all up
Many single men and women, after a long time together, will gradually ignore the "taboo" between friends as the relationship deepens. This also often gives people the illusion that since two people have such a good relationship, why not be together?
In fact, it is normal for single people of the opposite sex to complain about each other's single life and want to fall in love. But if two people are together and often make jokes like "Let's just make it up together", it is likely that the relationship between two people will "change taste".
Maybe it's just a joke for you, but the other person may mistakenly think that you like her, which will only make the relationship between them ambiguous.
Isn't that just a breakup? Don't you still have me? No, let's get together
The biggest taboo between friends of the opposite sex is to interfere with each other's emotional problems, especially when the other party's feelings are in trouble. Maybe you're out of comfort, maybe it's selfish, that's why you say to her, "Isn't that just a breakup?" Don't you still have me? If not, let's be together."
You know, this kind of joke has two results. The first is that she really listened to you, turned back to you, and found that you were just joking, then it will undoubtedly make her feel that you don't respect her, you are teasing her, and maybe the friendship between the two of you will break. The second is not listening to you, choosing to get back together, but still maintaining an ambiguous relationship with you, you are not boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, just ordinary friends.
Therefore, no matter how good your relationship is, don't easily meddle in each other's emotional problems, let alone make jokes about it. Otherwise, either you can't be friends, or your relationship will become unclear. Over time, it is also a kind of harm to each other.
Invite each other to their home in the evening
In fact, friends of the opposite sex interact with each other, whether the other party is single or not, to be a guest at each other's home, it is a very common thing.
But don't be at night, it's easy to misunderstand. If you live alone and the other person is also a person, if you are not careful, your relationship will change.
Maybe you are just joking, but the other party really went, maybe you will misunderstand that you have the possibility of further development, if the other party is just going to be a guest, then it will undoubtedly make your relationship become very awkward.
It is said that there is no pure friendship between men and women, but all friends of the opposite sex who have a good relationship have some good feelings for each other, but not to the point where they can say love.
So once someone breaks that layer of window paper in a joking way, the relationship between you will completely change.
Therefore, as an adult, you should think twice about doing things and pay attention to grasping the measure. Learn to be responsible for yourself, for those you love, and for others. Sometimes there are some jokes that can't be made casually, even if you just want to make fun of them.
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