Physiological education is very necessary for us, it can lead us to know ourselves, to understand our own body. But in the mainland, physiological education has always been defined as a "difficult to talk" topic, in the growth process of some children, physiological education is seriously lacking, some children because of physiological problems and even have a psychological burden, into inferiority and depression.
I have an example of this around me. My colleague's child, who is in her first year of high school this year, has always been a confident and cheerful little girl, but recently she has become very silent.
Once, when I was chatting with a colleague, I mentioned this incident, and the colleague looked very remorseful, and after a closer discussion, I learned that the reason why the little girl was silent was because of low self-esteem.
Most of the girls in the class have already had menstrual period experience, but she has not experienced menarche until now, which leads to being overwhelmed when she first went to school and being ridiculed by her classmates for a long time. Originally outgoing and cheerful, she gradually became less talkative.
Colleagues told me with great regret that they blamed her for not doing a good job of physiological education in advance, and now that the child is grown, she does not know how to tell the child.
We all know that in modern society, due to the lack of physical education, there are countless "tragedies", and each case has sounded the alarm bell for parents.
Adolescence is the most important stage of a child's growth, during which the child will not only change physically, but also change greatly psychologically
Parents who have adolescent children in their homes must pay more attention
1. Family education is the key
The impact of family education on children is the greatest, because he is subtle and has a lifelong impact on people. Just like the girls in "Guarding the Liberation of the West", who were abducted and sold by human traffickers and even got sick, they basically knew nothing about basic physiological knowledge. They do not have a little defense against strangers, do not know how to cherish the body, do not know the safety measures, is really a major failure of physiological education!
Therefore, physiological knowledge must be systematically and holistically taught to children, so that they know how to protect themselves, do not feel embarrassed, the more difficult it is to talk about it now, the more embarrassed and embarrassed, the more likely it is for children to fall into dangerous situations in the future.
At the same time, parents should also pay attention to their children's mental health, communicate more with their children, be in a position of equality with their children, respect their children, understand their children, let their children maintain a healthy psychological state, and spend puberty safely.
2. Provide the right way for children to understand physiological knowledge
Children are in the growth stage, the mind is not yet mature, the changes in the body will also make them have a strong curiosity about their own body structure, due to shyness, children may go through small websites to understand, because of the age is too young, can not distinguish the good or bad of the information is true and false, it is easy to be led by bad information, misguided.
The world is very complex, mentally immature children are most susceptible to the induction of bad factors, therefore, parents should pay close attention to their children's adolescent education, do not let the risk factors have an opportunity, and provide a strong guarantee for children to smoothly pass through puberty!