With the rise of the live broadcasting industry, many people now even choose to resign and become anchors. Maybe it's because of my hobbies, maybe I think this way is more relaxed.
Now many anchors with goods, sometimes in a few hours can easily enter the account of thousands or even tens of thousands of pieces, it is no wonder that many people will be red-eyed. There are also some entertainment anchors, watching their live broadcast is a good way to relieve pressure, Xiaobian has a classmate, usually the biggest hobby is to watch live broadcasts in leisure time.
But he also has his own bottom line, he said: I watch live broadcasting will never give any anchor money to brush gifts, just watch a happy hehe.
If you meet someone you like to watch, watch it for a while, and if you don't like to watch it, you can take it away, if you charge the anchor, everything becomes very utilitarian, and the live broadcast itself becomes flavorful.
Some people also say that brushing gifts for anchors is actually addictive. Especially after hearing the anchor thank you, perhaps vanity, always thinking of brushing a little more, there have been several real cases before, some are even underage children, stealing their parents' bank cards, and brushing off tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands of anchors.
As adults, when we are exposed to the live broadcasting industry, we must strictly adhere to the bottom line in our hearts, not be able to do something out of the ordinary, and we cannot get out of control because of a momentary vanity, and we must make moves that we regret beyond our control.
Sun Li's husband is a good example, originally the two people are also very loving, but in recent years, because her husband is addicted to watching live broadcasts, he has also paid female anchors many times, resulting in Sun Li choosing to divorce him in the end.
It turned out that they had a very good future, and the two of them planned to have a child in the next three years, but all this was completely ruined because of the husband's lack of business, spending a lot of money.
First, "After my husband fell in love with watching live broadcasts, he couldn't control it"
Sun Li's husband was originally a hard-working, down-to-earth middle-aged man, they have been married for four or five years, and recently the work has finally stabilized, so he began to plan to get pregnant, planning to have a child within two or three years.
After officially starting to prepare for pregnancy, the husband also pushed off a lot of friends' liquor bureau, after work in the evening, he suddenly cleared a lot of leisure, in order to pass the boring time, he would pick up the mobile phone to brush some short videos to see, sometimes brush brush to see the live broadcast.
Sun Li didn't know how he looked, and by the time she reacted, watching live broadcasts had become a hobby her husband had to do every day.
Seeing the situation, Sun Li also reminded him at the beginning, she said:
I don't care if you watch live broadcasts, but there are only two requirements, first, you can't watch those vulgar female anchors, and second, you must not give gifts to any anchor.
The husband also promised her that you can rest assured, what kind of person am I, don't you understand? I'll just look at it, and I'm definitely not going to do those moths. After more than a month, one day the husband saw half of the live broadcast, just when the light bulb in the bathroom was broken, Sun Li called her husband to repair it, and his mobile phone was left on the sofa because of the hurry.
Sun Li curiously picked it up and looked at it, but she found that her husband was watching a female anchor who was dressed coolly and was dancing.
Looking at the anchor in the screen to scan the head scratching posture, Sun Li looked at it a few times and was disgusted, waiting for her husband to come out, holding the mobile phone and questioning her, do you usually look at such things?
Unexpectedly, the usually gentle and elegant husband actually got angry with Sun Li this time, and he said what do you want to do with my mobile phone? Who made you move my privacy?
Sun Li asked him in disbelief: "I didn't watch anything, I just want to know what types of live broadcasts you've been watching lately, are you so angry?" Have you forgotten what you promised me? Such a woman is not serious at first glance, what is there to look at? ”
The husband was even more angry when he obeyed this, and grabbed the mobile phone: "What is improper?" Can you see with just your eyes what this person is like? Besides, I just like to watch her sing and dance, there is no other meaning, don't you always think about it like this, okay? ”
Second, "the husband rewards the female anchor to spend life-saving money, and the wife is determined to divorce: can't go on"
Sun Li really did not expect that her husband would throw such a big tantrum at herself because of other women, and since then she has not paid attention to him for a long time, and she no longer cares about him watching live broadcasts.
Sun Li's father-in-law has been in poor health, and has been hospitalized many times during this time, and the doctor said that there is only one way to completely cure it, that is, surgery.
They calculated the cost of surgery, plus the miscellaneous costs of hospitalization, which added up to about 100,000 yuan. Sun Li and her husband also prepared the money early and stored it in a bank card, and the mother-in-law called that day to say that the father-in-law was ready to be hospitalized for surgery.
Sun Li put down the phone, thinking about checking the balance in the bank card again, this check directly made her stunned, originally there were nearly 200,000 bank cards, and now there are only three cents left.
Sun Li sat on the couch and thought for a long time, and finally thought of a ridiculous possibility. She found her husband who was watching the live broadcast on the computer in the study and asked him directly: Did you charge the female anchor with money to brush gifts?
My husband didn't admit it at first, but finally couldn't help but admit the truth. After Sun Li heard his confession, her eyes were black and almost fainted, and her husband sent out nearly 200,000 yuan to the female anchor in the form of a gift during the time she did not know, which was the life-saving money for the father-in-law's surgery.
Sun Li angrily scolded her husband:
You're still not a man, and I told you long ago, why don't you listen to me? This money is reserved for our father to save his life, why are you so cruel? ”
The husband kept his head down and admitted his mistake:
I originally wanted to only charge a little, who knew that her mouth was so sweet, praised me for being bold, and said that she admired me, I couldn't control it for a while, the more I rushed, and when I reacted, there was no money in the bank card. Wife, you give me another chance, I'm not going to do it again, I really don't want to leave you, I don't want to lose this home.
After calming down, Sun Li told her husband: Although you are not a person, your parents are good-tempered, and they have helped me a lot over the years, so I will not save your father.
Your father's money for surgery I will talk to my mother-in-law's family, borrow from them, first fill this vacancy, but the two of us can't live on, you do such a thing, I must divorce you, after the divorce you will slowly return this money to me.
Third, adults are responsible for what they have done
Sun Li and her husband originally had a fairly happy marriage, but in the end, because of her husband's own impulses, she personally destroyed the family.
As an adult, watching live broadcasts once in a while, as a means of passing the boring and lonely time, is understandable, after all, who does not have a few hobbies of entertainment?
Even if you want to brush gifts for the anchor, no one can control you, but the key is that we must be based on our own actual conditions, if it is really a million dollars, a happy brush of thousands of thousands of pieces is naturally not a problem.
But if it is an ordinary family like Sun Li and her husband, not to mention that the old man is about to be hospitalized, at this juncture, Sun Li's husband is so brainless that he put out his own father's life-saving money, just to be able to bo the female anchor to laugh, it is a very irrational move.
At the same time, this also brings great harm to the wife, adults must be responsible for their own words and deeds, behind every decision you make, you must go through enough deliberation, rather than like a child to say how to do it, no plan, no rules, like a headless fly, and finally you will definitely knock yourself out of the head and bleed, but also let the person you love the most disappointed to leave.