I remember the saying: "Life is like an echo wall, what you shout, it will respond to you in the same way." 」 ”
I agree with this saying very much, smile at life, and life will smile at us as if we were in the mirror. He laughs when we laugh, and he laughs when we are sad.
It was as if we would hear an echo when we stood in the valley and cried. So, why does the valley have an echo, and it is precisely because we shout loudly that the valley has an echo.
It's like our feelings, if you want to know if a man loves you, it's actually very simple, it depends on whether there is sharing between you.
As someone once said, "Because I like each other, I want to share my daily life with each other." More importantly, I want each other in our lives. ”
Oh, yes! Family, lovers, loved ones, and friends are inseparable from sharing. Especially in feelings, it is inseparable from the desire to share. Because sharing is a two-way street. When you are not even willing to share, it proves that your relationship is over.
This is actually very understandable, when a person has been properly sharing his life with you, the happy things he encountered, the first time you did not respond, the second time you did not respond, the third time did not respond, slowly he will no longer think about sharing with you.
Because sharing without a response is just a huge drain on feelings and enthusiasm, and it is also an important precursor to the disintegration of your feelings. Therefore, it is really important whether the feelings of two people are shared or not. Because of the desire to share, it is a preservative for feelings.
It's like reading a short story on the Internet: "I remember one day on my way to work, I saw a tree that grew very strangely, and it seemed to be full of bugs." My first instinct was to take a picture and show it to you, and that's when I knew I was playing: I liked you so much. ”
Yes, this matter seems insignificant, but in fact, its position in the relationship is very important. Because in these seemingly small trifles of life contain the thought of the other half.
Only when you are put in your heart will you want to share everything with you. Where to play today, what to do, eat a delicious meal, all want to share with you. This is actually the best proof of loving someone.
This is also the reason why many people like to "show love". Because this is to share with others, but also to tell the relatives and friends around you. It is also the greatest confidence in your relationship.
Indeed, some people will say that being in love is a matter of two people, there is no need to talk to other people. But at least if you feel that this relationship is open, it can also prove that there is no spare tire in this relationship, and you have not thought about ending.
Although it is not said that the love affair of two people will necessarily go to the end, but the unlisted love affair is more or less because of concerns about both parties. Because of concerns, they will consider whether to share their feelings.
Because if a person really likes you, he can't hide it, and his first thought is to let the whole world know about you, which is a desire to share.
Therefore, if you want to know whether a man loves you in the end, whether he can share the things in life with you is also an important reference standard.
I remember a passage like this: "The so-called happiness is to find someone who is willing to talk nonsense with you and is willing to listen to your nonsense." "Because it's a way of sharing, and it's a way of sharing that responds to each other."
After all, where there are so many sweet words in life, more often than not, they are some trivial things in life. Therefore, the person who is willing to experience some interesting things in their lives, see beautiful scenery, eat delicious food, and want to share with you at the first time must be the person who loves you.
You know, everyone is busy right now, and not everyone wants to share it. Of course, not everyone is willing to listen, but it is only because of you that I am willing to share with you the bits and pieces of my life.
It's only because it's you that I want to tell you how much I miss you. So much so that you want to know everything, so when you want to know if someone loves you or not, the easiest way is to take a look at your chat history.
When your chat memories are all shared, then the other party must love you very much.
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