Text/Flying Fish
Lin Qingxuan said: "The lowest point of the valley is the starting point of the mountain, and the reason why many people who walk into the valley cannot walk out is precisely because they stop their feet and crouch in the valley and cry in trouble. ”
Life exchanges, taste life with joy, face it with a smile, treat the world with a normal heart, look down on everything, and everything can follow fate.
In this life, we will encounter many things, and we will also meet many people, people come and go, get together and part, are the norm of life. Gains and losses and successes and failures, everything should be looked down upon.
Some losses are not bad things, it is precisely because of the loss of a person you love, what you like, so that you can completely see clearly, everything, are all about fate, things that have no reason, how can they be lost, and people and things with fate, even if they have not yet arrived, but as long as you still keep believing and maintaining enthusiasm for life, it will eventually come.
In life, sometimes, what you lose is a love, but what you get is a friendship. There are gains and losses, everything is looked down upon, and everything is just fine.
When I watched "Semi-Familiar Lover", Zhou Jinshun in it said that he had already begun to call Luo Ying and Huang Ryan the big brother and sister-in-law, in fact, he just put it down. Let go of love and can't, because for him, like Luo Ying, it is also lucky, to be able to meet, it is originally a fate, but Luo Ying is only a friend to him, so some people, even if they are not lovers, will use the way of friends to bless each other.
An emotional experience that cannot be loved may also hide a lot of sadness for him, but he can face this experience with a smile, face others with a smile, and keep unhappiness to himself, which also shows that the maturity of adults begins with looking down and following fate.
There are many things in life that they do not expect, there are also many things that make them unsatisfactory, love and can not, is not satisfactory things, but we look down on the choice of feelings, so we understand that we can not force, everything is to see fate, not that they are not good enough, but two people do not have fate, they still believe in love, after all, one day, fate will come to themselves, find their own happiness.
When I remembered one of the scenes, talking about Wang Yucheng's departure, I left a letter for Zhou Nan, and after Zhou Nan read the letter, her emotions were suddenly out of control and she cried.
The reason why she cried was because she couldn't stand such a sudden parting, because Wang Yucheng left early, there was no sign at all, and she didn't greet everyone, so she secretly left alone, so Zhou Nan couldn't stand it in the face of such a parting.
In fact, Zhou Nan regarded Wang Yucheng as a friend, so he would be so sad in the face of his friend's sudden departure.
In life, we meet some people, that is, we have met briefly, but they will eventually leave.
All encounters and separations in life are the norm. The moon has clouds and sunshine, people have sorrows and joys, look down on separation, and everything must look forward.
When you miss each other, you can contact at any time, no matter the end of the world, as long as there is each other in your heart, the distance is not a big deal, now the network is so developed, the traffic is so convenient, really miss a person, in fact, you can go to meet.
And we must also learn to accept the separation in life, because not everyone can accompany you to the end, and those who can accompany you on a journey, we just need to remember a lifetime.
An Yiru said that flowers bloom sometimes, thanks sometimes, and all things sometimes. Embrace sometimes, life and death sometimes, gather and disperse sometimes. Once beauty reaches its extreme, it becomes desolate.
Perhaps, there are some things that we will never get, and some people always leave unexpectedly and suddenly, which catches people off guard.
Man, gathered by cause and effect, also dispersed by cause and effect. Love rises with the wind and gathers and disperses.
The past is a foregone conclusion and there is no need to mention it again. Life is like a passer-by, why should there be a thousand knots, look down on all sorrows and joys, look down on all gains and failures, follow fate, have light in your heart, there is no need to borrow anyone's light.
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