Children need self-confidence
How to cultivate self-confidence
If the child has the following situations, it needs to be paid attention to
1. Lack of concentration, restlessness, impulsive emotions, urgent personality, poor self-control
2, always procrastinate, one will drink water, one will eat, learn to procrastinate, always have all kinds of excuses
3, bad habits, lack of self-confidence, play with the mobile phone can not put down, love to lose temper;
4, do things carelessly, do things without concentration, tiger head, big problems will not be done, small problems are always wrong
5, more and more disobedience, rebellious, resisting, learning is not attentive, not taking the initiative, verbally promised good, do not act
1. Let the child lead the way
Every time you go out, whether it's visiting friends or family or traveling, try to get your child ahead of you and show us the way.
2. Sit in front
If you are not seated in the right number, sit in the front, whether it is a meeting, a lecture, or a performance, you will insist on doing this to cultivate the awareness of children who dare to be the first.
3, let the child do more things within their ability
"Put your shoes on yourself", "Turn off the TV", "Hand the cup to Dad", "Help Mom open the door"... Giving small things to children in daily life and encouraging them to complete them independently will often make children more confident. Self-confidence comes from ability, and children should be convinced that they have the ability to do good things.
4. Face up to others
Practice often looking at others, looking at them with powerful eyes, and keeping a smile on your face.
5. Maintain a good walking posture
Maintain a good walking posture, hold your head high, look into the distance with your eyes open, and often consciously speed up your walking.
6, imply that the child is not ordinary
Often use the method of suggestion to make the child believe that he is a special person and will definitely have a future appearance. This will enable the child to always maintain a good sense of self, and there will be stricter requirements for themselves.
7. Let children participate in family decision-making
Involve your child in decision-making about certain things in the home, such as asking for his opinion when shopping at the supermarket: "Which plate do you see is beautiful?" "At what price do you want to buy milk?" And so on, the feeling of ownership will make children feel that they are very important, and in the process of participating in family decision-making, they can exercise their judgment and ability to do things, and then make further affirmations of themselves and enhance self-confidence.
8. Comfort the child when encountering setbacks
Even if you encounter the biggest failure, such as failing the college entrance examination, you can't treat your child with harsh lessons or punishments. On the contrary, special care and comfort should be given, and the child should be persuaded by hints that there is no way out of heaven, and the story of Saion's lost horse should be used to enlighten the child to believe that sometimes bad things will become good things.
9, find the child's strengths, and encourage
This is not only effective for children in general, but even excellent children need encouragement, and geniuses will wither due to lack of motivation. For those with poor grades, it is even more necessary to use this method to cultivate his self-esteem and self-confidence.
10, tell the child that mom and dad also make mistakes
If parents hide from their children the truth that adults will also make mistakes, it will be difficult for children to accept that they have made mistakes, or give up on themselves when one thing is not done well, so that children will never firmly build self-confidence. Therefore, it is advisable to face the child to admit his mistake truthfully, such as losing the key, forgetting to turn off the faucet, when the child knows that everyone may make a mistake, he will not panic too much because of a little behavioral fault, but will take the mistake as a small episode in the progress, face the mistake, and overcome the shortcomings.
Use these 10 methods well, children will have self-confidence on the road of life and thrive.
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