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Forward-thinking parents know how to give their children freedom in these 4 aspects

Mountains have peaks and valleys, one high and one low

The sea has waves, and together they are volts

Education should not be focused on the immediate future

Instead, it is necessary to think about the long term

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4 Little Thoughts on Education for Parents

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Forward-thinking parents know how to give their children freedom in these 4 aspects

In a Thai live-action short film "Pineapple Popsicle"

The girl was frustrated that she couldn't sell popsicles

The mother who looked in the eye did not exert pressure and preach

Instead, he suggested that she go to the wet market

In the vegetable market, the chili pepper seller shouted loudly

"5 pieces 1 bag, 10 pieces 3 bags!"

The roast seller shouted while busy

"Fragrant and soft roast meat, a mouthful full of juice"

……

The girl suddenly understood something

She went home and drew a "pineapple popsicle" with her pen.

Then write it in big letters

"Ice cream pineapple ice cream, every bite is good"

The next day

Pineapple popsicles with "advertisements" on them quickly sold out

The pineapple seller's mother was uneducated

But she did it through demonstration and guidance

Teach your daughter to learn from life experience

And learn to solve problems on your own

In reality, this girl

Later, he was admitted to the best university in Thailand

Those who can think independently

And solve problems for children

Even if you leave your parents

You can also walk the road under your feet

Just like the mother's inner monologue at the end of the film

"One day I wasn't around her

I also believe she can live well."

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Forward-thinking parents know how to give their children freedom in these 4 aspects

I once saw a pair of parents in a restaurant educating their children

The child said, "I'll watch another episode of the cartoon and eat."

He was sternly refused by his father and took away his mobile phone

The child cried out

Mom soothed for a while

After seeing the child slowly calm down, he asked

"Daddy won't let you watch cartoons, you're sad, right?"

The child nodded with tears in his eyes

"Mom loves to watch cartoons like you

But seeing more is not good for the eyes

You don't want to become four eyes like dad in the future."

The child glanced at his father and shook his head

Mom continued

I hear the little elf in your stomach crying out hungry

Today's food, the elves have not eaten it

Can we please taste it too?

The child happily agreed to come down

The whole process

Mom's tone was gentle

But the effect was immediate

Empathize with your child's feelings

It is better to reach the child's heart than preaching

Tell your child the consequences of doing this

Far more powerful than a "no" sentence

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Forward-thinking parents know how to give their children freedom in these 4 aspects

The child is in preschool age

It is dependent on the emotions on the adult's face

To judge what adults think

So it was hard for him to judge one for him

He who yells and scolds loves him

Parents with low fault tolerance

In the course of time

Children will be observing the color

Slowly learn to please, evade, and lie

In the picture book "I Love You Forever"

Ali accidentally broke her mother's favorite bowl

Ali was worried that his mother would not love him because of this

After repeatedly confirming that his mother loved him

Ali bravely admitted his mistake

Mom also patiently promised over and over again that "I will always love you"

At the same time, do not forget to remind Ali

Take responsibility for your actions

"But you have to pack up your feathers."

"But then we won't have a snack"

Growth is a constant trial and error, making mistakes

and the process of accumulating experience

Only after wrestling

Children can learn to walk

Ali's mother replied gently and firmly

It gives parenting a lot of educational inspiration

Parents have a little more support and encouragement

Children will have more confidence and confidence to grow

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Forward-thinking parents know how to give their children freedom in these 4 aspects

In "My Boy"

Zhu Yuchen's mother is a typical traditional mother

Decades like a day

Get up at 4 o'clock every morning to boil pear juice for my son

One person tops 2 Filipino maids

She gave her all for her family

The most important thing in her life was to take care of her children

Sacrificing oneself is not an expression of love

Self-sacrificing love overwhelms the child at the same time

It will gradually dry itself up

Virginia has a moving little poem

It's called "If I Love You."

There's a paragraph in it

"Declaring self-sacrifice is great

That's an old lie

You demean yourself

It doesn't make me noble

I can only learn from you 'I'm not worth it.'"

Be a 100-point parent

It is the greatest bondage and constraint on parents

love

It can only flow to children through parents

If the parents themselves are dry

Children cannot be nourished

Life doesn't have to be perfect

You don't have to score a perfect score

Before you love your children

Please be sure to learn to love yourself first

Forward-thinking parents know how to give their children freedom in these 4 aspects

Fromm said in The Art of Love

"Love is an instinct

We all love our children

And think that this love is selfless

Then please make sure you use the right way."

Good parenting

Is moderate freedom

and love from the heart

Cultivate an independent personality

Look to the future

This is the greatest meaning of education

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Photo: Uncle Qiao Zhi

Editor: Yijie Shen Simin

Review: Yijie Zou Liping

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