A treasure mother went to the room to see how her son wrote his homework, but found that his son not only did not write homework, but leaned on the side of the bed and slept on his back, and the mother was angry and helpless, took a video of her son sleeping, and wrote such a copy and posted it to the Internet!
My son is definitely here to repay the favor, how can he write his homework? If he learns what to do, how can he leave me alone to go to Shanghai and go to Beijing to go to university, he must stay by my side, after all, the streets of his hometown still need to be swept, and the northwest wind in his hometown will not be unsatisfied!
In just one short paragraph, it received more than 350,000 likes, 53,000 comments, and more than 86,000 retweets!
Sweep the streets and drink the northwest wind! This mother used witty and humorous language to express the heartache of a mother who hates iron and steel, and the child does not write homework, and the mother can only comfort herself.
This copy seems to be understated, but it is full of countless mothers' humor, helplessness, letting go, accepting, and self-deprecating. This passage has resonated with countless mothers, and the comment area is even more exciting:
"Please pay more attention when your son sweeps the street, and don't overturn the bowl that my son put on the side of the road"!
"Haha, the street is well swept, my girlfriend still has to sleep"!
"Your son will contact my son after sweeping up, and my son will have to sprinkle water"!
"When I sprinkled water, I saw my son spraying hard, and took a shower by the way"!
"Say to your son, when sweeping the street, don't sweep away my son's paper shell, that's his cover"!
"Don't sweep the street too clean, I'm afraid my son won't be able to pick up good garbage in the future"!
"It seems that my son is going to find another way, the street let you sweep, my son has to learn the technique: broom"!
Children are not good at writing homework, old mothers are very anxious, but with children need a good mentality, excessive anxiety has no effect, but counterproductive, parents to learn self-regulation.
Children do not write homework, parents will be angry when irritable, fierce, yelling at children, but the effect is very small, children still do not love to write homework, but also with parents to do.
American psychologist Watson once did a "little Albert experiment", he selected an 8-month-old baby Albert as the experimental object in the hospital, he prepared mice, rabbits and other small animals to put around the child, the child saw the small animals after no fear.
Two months later, Watson began the experiment, he put the mouse next to Albert, Albert was immediately attracted, reached out to touch, but the second time he touched the mouse, Watson knocked the iron rod next to it, Albert was frightened and cried, and then several times, when Albert wanted to reach out and touch the mouse, Watson would knock the iron rod, so Albert became afraid of the mouse and subconsciously avoided the mouse.
What should I do if my child doesn't like to write homework?
1, the next strategy: scolding and roaring
Parents' yelling is like a loud noise, which will scare the child, let the child feel fear and disgust for this homework, as a parent, avoid yelling at the child.
2, the middle strategy: let children experience the pain of life
Children do not like to write homework, some parents let children experience the pain of life, let children pick up garbage, to move bricks, to work in the field, after tasting the pain, children will work hard, but this method is only temporarily effective, after a period of time children will forget this pain.
3, the best strategy: cultivate children's self-driving power
First of all, parents should help their children break down their goals. Let the child learn to split one thing into multiple small goals that are easy to achieve, and after tasting the sweetness, the child will be more motivated, more accomplished and proud.
Second, strengthen the child's belief. Help children establish their own beliefs, such as: what kind of person they want to be, which university to go to, and what career they want to pursue when they grow up. With a firm belief, it will be easier for children to persevere when they encounter difficulties.
Children do not write homework, as parents to maintain a peaceful attitude, write good homework, can not determine what kind of person the child will become in the future. Parents should be patient and guide and help their children.
What do you do if your child doesn't write homework?