Open a popular video of YouTube, and a man and woman appear in it.
The man stared forward with a smile, and next to him was a white, delicate, beautiful young woman. The two sat together, one white glowing, the other skin like ink paint, forming a sharp contrast.
It is a multinational couple with a man named Sijie from Nigeria. The pretty girl is Vietnamese and her name is Lai Choi Fong. Off-camera also sits a mixed-race doll with curled hair, and her mother will occasionally hold her and greet the audience.
The couple are a pair of Vlog bloggers active in YouTube, and at the moment, the women are sharing the secret of their happiness with the audience.
Only to see Li Qiufang smiling, softly counting their marriage in a tone, "First of all, I love you very much, and secondly, you always listen to me..."
And Sijie listened very carefully, as if he only had his wife in his eyes.
A love that is divided and combined but destined
In her life, Li Qiufang never thought that she would be married to a foreigner, let alone an African with very different facial features and skin, but love is completely unreasonable.
One day in 2018, Li Qiufang and her friends were playing in the pedestrian street and met two young foreigners. Enthusiastic foreigners saw Li Qiufang and his party and took the initiative to talk with them.
At this time, Li Qiufang had just ended a failed relationship, and her mood was depressed, and she didn't want to deal with them at all.
Although Li Qiufang did not show much interest in the two blacks at first, they were very talkative, introducing themselves generously in fluent English, and Li Qiufang's friends should also come down. So they began to make contact.
At first, Li Qiufang did not take this encounter to heart, but apparently her tall beauty hit the heart of one of the black people, and he was very active with Li Qiufang, and even invited her to have coffee together, this person is Sika.
Lai Choi Fong, a native of Vietnam, is the first time she has intersected with foreigners, but she did not pay attention to this episode. Unexpectedly, her relationship with Sika grew closer and closer.
Sika's hospitality and cheerfulness made Li Qiufang feel comfortable, and she seemed to be able to appreciate the little care that this tall man in black had for her. With the attitude of giving it a try, the two began dating.
The date progressed rapidly, and after only a few meetings, the two behaved intimately. It only took three weeks from holding hands to kissing, by which time they had already established a relationship.
When Sika confessed to Li Qiufang, she was a little stunned but finally gladly accepted this big African man with a thick appearance, although his appearance was a little different from the Prince Charming she expected, but Sika's concentration and enthusiasm touched her.
The exotic couple is caught up in a passionate love affair, with Sika having his own business in Nigeria but remaining in Vietnam to spend his life with his girlfriend.
In this little couple's period of hot love, it is like glue like paint. An unfortunate piece of news put a halt to the relationship. Sika's business in Nigeria has not been performing well, and despite Sika's best efforts, it is still declining.
During that time, Sika was anxious and ashamed, while enjoying the sweetness of love, he did not know how to take on his girlfriend's future, and he might not even be able to afford his own life.
Two months after their relationship began, Sika's business was on the verge of bankruptcy, and out of uncertainty about the future, he bitterly proposed to break up with his girlfriend.
But ever since this lovely Nigerian man entered Li Qiufang's heart, she could never forget it again. Many times when she thinks of the sweet moments of the two, Li Qiufang will feel unwilling.
Li Qiufang is not a passive woman in love, and she is not so materialistic. Out of love and thoughts, she took the initiative to call Sika.
On the phone, she boldly told Sika: "I want you to come back to me." Sika was also very excited to hear this, his girlfriend was sexy and beautiful, which made him unforgettable, and not long ago he was looking through photos in Li Qiufang's social media.
The two are not together, but the hearts are connected, and they are the most special person to each other. As a result, Sika and Li Qiufang quickly reunited.
Although the love of young people is sweet and fiery, it is still a little small in the face of the pressure of life. Despite Sika's efforts to manage their love, financial problems are a thorn in their side.
Perhaps because of bad luck, or maybe it was not suitable for business, Sika's business was irretrievable after all, and finally failed. After bankruptcy, Sika, although she lived a very depressed life and often ate this meal and worried about it, he did not want to drag his girlfriend down.
The two are still in love, Li Qiufang simply can't give up this relationship, she does not agree to break up, but Sika has decided to quickly cut the mess and return to Nigeria.
But the destitute Sika can't even get the plane ticket money, or Li Qiufang, who is still worried about her boyfriend, sponsors Sika to go home.
On the day of their separation, they enjoyed their last warmth at the airport. Although Sika said to Li Qiufang fiercely that I no longer love you Yunyun, both of them understood at this moment that they had each other in their hearts.
The plane to Nigeria carried Sika away from the small Southeast Asian country, and they all thought that this was the last side, and from then on, there would be no end in sight.
Back home, Sika is determined to forget the relationship and start over. He deleted Li Qiufang's phone number and social account, and since he didn't deserve it, don't be delusional.
But fate seems reluctant to break up the couple. Because she felt unwell, Li Qiufang, who was hesitant, suspected that she was pregnant. When she took a test with a pregnancy test stick, she was shocked by two red bars.
The last time she remembered being intimate with a man was the day she said goodbye to Sika, and she fell into a panic, not knowing how to be good, but when she thought of her beloved boyfriend, she settled down again.
She decided that she must be the first to tell her boyfriend about this. At this time, Sika, Nigeria, received an unexpected phone call, which was an ex-girlfriend who had been separated for a month, and brought him a heavy message.
At first, Sika did not fully react, and when he realized what Li Qiufang had said, all kinds of complicated emotions surged into his heart, both unexpected and uncertain, with the joy of being a father.
Feeling Li Qiufang's nervousness at this time, Sika told her, "I will be the father of the child."
The boyfriend's responsibility also made Li Qiufang very moved. The two were not separated because of emotional problems, but forced by the helplessness of reality, and now that they have children to lead the red line, both sides are naturally reunited.
The joy that the arrival of the child brings to the family
Sika, who flew to Vietnam, couldn't wait to find Li Qiufang. For the sake of his children and for the sake of his beloved woman, he decided that he could no longer be a deserter of love this time, and he wanted to give Li Qiufang a righteous identity.
So in 2020, after 9 months of acquaintance, they got married. In order to get the recognition of his family, Sika resumed his job as a foreign teacher, and at the same time, he aimed at the self-media work that was on the cusp and devoted himself to video output.
Out of the haze of failure, Sika began an active life, in order to create a better life for his children and lovers, he racked his brains to improve the quality of video, improve shooting technology, and strive to attract more fans.
Sika, who is busy with work, has not forgotten his wife, who is suffering during pregnancy, and he takes good care of her daily life.
Sika takes good care of Li Qiufang, worried that his wife will suffer emotionally, so he often tells her "I love you" and gives her a warm kiss.
She also took on the work of cooking at home, so that her wife did not have to worry too much about housework, and also gave her enough space to rest. In front of the two friends, he also gave his wife enough face, showing his obedience and love for her husband.
It's just that when Sika thinks about the pain of the birth, she can't bear it, and she feels that she can't compensate her wife for anything.
Later, the couple learned that there was a project called water birth in Thailand, which, as the name suggests, was to reduce the discomfort of pregnant women by giving birth in constant temperature water.
Sika was so excited to learn of this that she immediately decided to let her wife enjoy the same treatment. For this matter, the couple made arrangements in advance, and Sika, who loved his wife, arranged for Li Qiufang to give birth in Thailand early. Unfortunately, the plan could not keep up with the changes.
After the amniotic fluid was worn, Li Qiufang was unable to give birth to the child for a long time, and the long wait made Sika anxious.
Doctors saw that the pregnant woman's condition was getting worse and worse, so she had to urgently change the plan. He called Sika aside and told him solemnly that the child was too heavy to give birth normally and that it was necessary to have a caesarean section.
Thinking of a knife in his beloved wife's stomach, Sika was eager to take her. But it wasn't the time to be emotionally manipulated, and Sika quickly agreed to the decision to operate.
Time passed anxiously, and for Sika, it was like a year, he hoped to see the doctor come out early, and he was afraid of bringing bad news. I hope that my children will be safe, but I also feel sorry for the pain of my wife.
Finally, the child successfully fell to the ground and was a cute and healthy baby girl. Sika was certainly happy about the good news, but he was more worried about his wife who had the operation.
After the operation, Sika kept her apart next to Li Qiufang, serving her attentively, really putting his wife on the tip of his heart. Looking at the child in their arms, both of them smiled happily.
As soon as the child was born with wrinkled skin, Li Qiufang also quipped how there could be such an ugly child, not at all like herself, and then the child grew wider and wider, and the facial features could see the shadow of the parents more and more, and Li Qiufang was even more in love with the child.
They named the child Upi. Little Upi's complexion was neither as dark as his father's, nor as white as his mother's, but brown. It's like the skin tones of two people are mixed together.
It's the crystallization of their love and their big matchmaker. For the little couple, the presence of Upi saves their love.
After returning to Vietnam, the young couple became more and more affectionate, and life was on the right track. As a video blogger, Sika often shares his happy life outside of work.
On the social platform, it can be seen that the quality of life of a family of three is very good, their house is spacious and tidy, the tableware is beautiful and expensive, the two often laugh in front of the camera, and the overflowing satisfaction is from the heart.
The more beautiful the little up, the more beautiful it is, or the pistachio of his parents. The robust Upi is often carried by his parents to exercise, and he has learned to swim at a young age, looking at the children who are flexibly rolling in the water, and the cute figure makes the parents laugh.
Looking at the child's similar facial features to themselves, they are more and more certain that the combination of the two is correct.
Happy life after marriage
Enjoying all this happiness, Sika's most grateful person is his wife Li Qiufang. Without her silent waiting, without her dedication to love, perhaps I don't know what kind of depressed life I live in in which corner of Nigeria today.
Sika is also more caring for his wife. Due to production and feeding, Li Qiufang's body has gained a lot. She often sighed at the extra flesh on her stomach. Sika looked at Amy's wife worried about her figure, and she was distressed and funny.
Thinking of how slim and beautiful Li Qiufang was, he deeply felt that he owed his wife too much. So he took his wife to and from the gym frequently, watching her sweat on various equipment, and he gently wiped away her sweat.
With the encouragement and support of her husband, Li Qiufang's weight loss journey was very smooth, and she quickly recovered her slim figure, especially after giving birth, she added a bit of femininity, and she became more moving.
At this point, Sika felt that everything was in order, so it was time to make good on his promise to his wife.
At first, they only registered their marriage, not the wedding. Sika's hard work to earn money is not only for a better life for the family, but also for silently preparing for a happy wedding for his wife.
Now that two years have passed, I have achieved a small career, my children have grown up a little, and the wedding is the icing on the cake of my life.
After consulting with his wife, Sika decided to throw a grand cruise wedding. In order to ensure that every detail of the wedding was not flawed, the two spent a lot of time and energy and did everything themselves.
After many considerations, in order to achieve better results, Li Qiufang specially selected a wedding dress weighing 10 kilograms, which is a big burden to wear on the body, and Li Qiufang has practiced for this many times.
They also carefully selected a delicate little white dress for the special little guest of the wedding, Wu Pi, and you can imagine how beautiful the mother and daughter are when they get together.
Facing the eyes of his friends and family on the wedding day, Sika walked slowly to his bride, his little child still in his arms. Wu Pi didn't seem to realize today's grandeur, and looked at his parents cutely.
The sea, the white veil, and the child constitute the most beautiful composition, and every stroke is written with love.
Returning to his daily life, Sika runs his own channel more seriously, and for him, it is not only a job to support his family, but also a career he loves.
These videos record his love for his wife, his daughter's daily life, and his own views on the world, and he wants to be a world thinker more than a vlog blogger.
In his channel, there are a series of videos in which he interviews Vietnamese girls on the street about their views on topics such as occupation, which also reflects his concern for social hotspots.
And his and Li Qiufang's married life is also very exciting, they are not respectful of each other's model. Sometimes the two would hate each other, And Li Qiufang said directly to Sika, "Why are you so ugly", "I hate you talking a lot", and Sika also jokingly picked up his wife's tricks.
There are also many happy moments that are not humane, and Sika will take Li Qiufang around, and the photos record their smiles like flowers.
Young daughters are also dependent on their fathers. Once, the couple played a trick, they put the child on the ground, the two walked in two directions, and as a result, Upi always followed his father's figure and made Sika laugh.
And the cheerful and funny Sika can always tell the little things in life vividly, fascinatingly, and amusing his wife and the audience in front of the screen.
Such a brilliant and cute Sika, with his personality charm, has won nearly 1 million fans on YouTube, which is also a big achievement.
Once he was down to the point where he might have less than 10 yuan in his pocket, but after only a few years, he was not only happy with thousands of dollars, his wife was on the side, but he also had a successful career and millions of fans.
All this is not only grateful to his wife for not abandoning him in his most difficult times, but also thanks to his living mind and unremitting efforts. And his love for his wife and responsibility for the family are probably one of the reasons why he can gain the love of the audience.