Preface
What is it like to spend 300,000 yuan to marry a 19-year-old good-looking Vietnamese daughter-in-law?
As we all know, with the development of the domestic economy year by year, more and more female compatriots have "woken up".
Not only do they shout that they want to be independent and do their own business, but even the blind date requirements and wedding bride price are the same every year, only increasing.
The demands of the female compatriots are enough, but this can "pit" a lot of married men who are waiting to live a hot kang with their wives and children.
No, in order to "avoid pits" safely, the married men directly shifted their attention to foreign girls, and for a while, a marriage and love fashion called "foreign girl movement" was rolled up in China.
It's not that Chinese wives can't afford to marry, but foreign girls are more cost-effective
Just recently, there was a blogger named Jason & Meihui on the Internet who suddenly became popular, and it also attracted the envy and jealousy of many male netizens.
What's going on, and what the hell is this blogger doing online?
It turned out that the real identity of this blogger named Jason & Meihui was a 37-year-old leftover man living in rural Hunan, and his occupation was to take care of and raise a few sheep he bought every day.
Because he has been working in the village for a long time, raising sheep and feeding sheep, this older leftover man has a dark face and looks very old before the long time.
In addition, he has no serious career and cannot bring any stable income to his family, so many unmarried women in the village look down on him.
Even the matchmaker who gives people a matchmaker is reluctant to help him say goodbye, because even if women in China are born in rural areas, they still have to look at the man's income and occupation when looking for a partner.
But this sheep farmer not only has no job, but even his daily income is very unstable, and his age is already very large in the village.
So under the persecution of many difficulties, he had to find a new one, set his sights on choosing a wife abroad, and finally spent 300,000 yuan to marry a 19-year-old daughter-in-law in Vietnam.
After getting married, in order to prevent his money from going down the drain, the sheep farmer also discussed with his wife in advance that they would have several children, and even if the two divorced later, he would be able to share one or two children.
In order to have a better life with his wife, the sheep man also moved to his wife's hometown - Vietnam after marriage, and the two often posted their daily news on their social accounts.
In those daily dynamics, most of the videos are the two showing their affection in a high-profile manner, and this scene also made many domestic male netizens envious, and they all became "old vinegar" in the comment area.
Some people even organized domestic single dog groups in the comment area, so that they could take a good look at the outside world, maybe the next beautiful foreign daughter-in-law would be their own.
Although many male netizens in the comment area are trying their best to persuade their male compatriots to look at the world, a lawyer in Beijing put forward his own opinion.
She said that the Vietnamese bride was only 19 years old, and that she could not register her marriage in our country, and that the blogger's marriage was not recognized by law.
Seeing that many male netizens want to emulate the blogger, the lawyer also suggested that if you want to choose a transnational marriage, you must ensure that the foreign spouse enters the country through legal channels and can stay in China legally.
Although there is a certain risk of marrying a foreign daughter-in-law, I have to admit that the current foreign girl has indeed become a hot commodity in the domestic marriage market.
Because in recent times, there have been many news of "ugly men" marrying high-value foreign daughters-in-law in China, which can envy some single dogs in China who are still worried about finding a partner.
"Beauty with beasts" has become a social icon?
On January 29 this year, a young man from Jiangxi held a grand Chinese wedding in the village, and the audience, relatives and friends present were also excited.
When the wedding video was first posted on the Internet, there were many people who ate melons while watching the excitement and wondered, isn't it just a Chinese-style wedding in the village, what are those who participate in the ceremony excited about.
I thought that the audience at the scene was going for the banquet and the wedding, but when netizens saw the bride's appearance, they realized that these people were going for the bride.
I saw a white-skinned beauty wearing a red and white Chinese-style wedding dress, with a tall nose bridge and a pair of large and divine eyes, which is completely a fairy tale princess into reality.
Seeing that the bride is white and beautiful, many netizens feel that the person who can marry such a beautiful wife must not look bad.
But when the photographer photographed the two newlyweds going to toast their parents, the groom, who had not shown up, appeared, not only did he look ordinary, dark and thin, but even his hair was bald like the Mediterranean.
Standing with a delicate and beautiful foreign daughter-in-law, looking like two generations, not like a husband and wife at all, but like a father and daughter.
Such a scene makes people watch, somewhat of the sense of "beauty with beast", and the gap in appearance is really too big.
Of course, this kind of situation is not only in Jiangxi, but the guy who lives in Yangquan City, Shanxi Province, will also "suffer" from a wave of public gaze in July 2023.
One day in July of the previous year, the young man Yangquan was very excited and nervous, because he was about to go out to pick up his daughter-in-law and get married.
I thought that this wedding was another ordinary hand-holding banquet for older men and women, but the bride who had just gotten off the car was stunned by many roadside onlookers eating melons.
With her smooth and flawless cold white skin, coupled with a tall pure European nose bridge and big eyes, this and the groom holding her hand are completely two worlds away.
The appearance of the Yangquan guy is not even the bride's mother, who looks young, no wonder some netizens will speak in the comment area and say that they want the mother-in-law of the Yangquan guy.
Let's just say that the young man Yangquan can marry such a beautiful Russian daughter-in-law with only his own shiny black skin, which is really a blessing.
Seeing this, everyone really has to admit one thing, that is, China's marriage and love market has been dominated by foreign girls, and foreign girls have become sought-after goods.
So the question is, if domestic men will aim at marrying foreign countries in the future, then where will other women in China go in the future?
Although domestic men have gradually changed their outlook on marriage and love, and have chosen foreign daughters-in-law to confront the "high bride price", such a major change in the concept of marriage also reflects the seriousness of the domestic bride price problem.
In fact, no matter where the daughter-in-law is married, changing the bride price requirements and returning the bride price to the most primitive essence is what everyone should do.
After all, marriage is not a business, and women are not commodities, so don't change the nature of marriage and love because of money.
Therefore, everyone thinks that young men in China should give up domestic high-bride price women and choose to go abroad to marry foreign girls?
Reference Sources:
Published in Sina News on May 5, 2024 on "37-year-old sheep man marries 19-year-old Vietnamese bride".
Published in Shanxi Radio and Television Entertainment on April 20, 2024 Report on "Jiangxi guy marries Ukrainian girl".
Published in Yangquan Wedding Planning July 20, 2023 Report on "Yangquan Guy Marries Russian Bride".
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