The second wife ran back to her ex-husband's house with her daughter, and she had an iron heart to live with her ex-husband: I and my ex-husband are true love
Upward morning
Create Date: 2022-03-2003:52
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Wu Quanli's wife Chen Yun ran away from home with her six-year-old daughter, leaving only a handwritten letter, the letter did not say where to go, not to go out to work or leave the family, the letter also thanked Wu Quanli for taking care of the six-year marriage, indicating that the time had come, they had to go, revealing full of regret and reluctance.
What is puzzling is what Chen Yun means when he says that the time has come?
Wu Quanli said that his wife took advantage of his work when he went out to work, and when he learned the news, he was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and his daughter was taken away while she was still in school, he said that before that, they did not quarrel and contradict each other, so he did not know what the reason was.
He only vaguely heard his wife mention her ex-husband before, and he felt that it must be related to his wife's ex-husband, and he thought that Chen Yun was hiding in her ex-husband's house with children.
Sure enough, when Wu Quanli took the reporter to his wife's ex-husband's house, he happened to run into Chen Yun at the gate, and Chen Yun's ex-husband Liu Wei was also at home. For the arrival of Wu Quanli, the two seemed very calm.
Since Chen Yun and Liu Wei have divorced, why are the two living together again?
Liu Wei told reporters that he and Chen Yun are not divorced, they are husband and wife, so it is normal to live together.
And Liu Wei also took out their marriage license, which was obtained in 2008. The above chapter is completely sealed, not a false certificate.
Liu Wei also said that they had a good relationship after getting married in 2008, gave birth to a daughter after marriage, and never went through divorce procedures, and he did not know how Wu Quanli's marriage certificate was done.
This makes the reporter very confused, because the reporter has seen the marriage certificate of Wu Quanli and Chen Yun, ah, since they are not divorced, why can Chen Yun get married again?
Wu Quanli retorted to Liu Wei, he and Chen Yun were in love at first sight, when the two got married, they also held a wedding banquet, invited twenty or thirty tables, spent more than 100,000 marriages, relatives and friends in the family knew that they were a couple who had lived together for six years, and they were left with their daughter Linlin.
Obviously, Wu Quanli was questioning that the marriage certificate in Liu Wei's hand was fake, and he felt that if Chen Yun was not in a state of divorce, how could he get a marriage license with himself?
The reporter asked Chen Yun, who was standing on the side, chen yun said that she did get a marriage license with Liu Wei and Wu Quanli, but when she was with Wu Quanli, she did not divorce, and Wu Quanli knew that he had a family and children, but he still wanted to marry her.
Why did Chen Yun leave Liu Wei and marry Wu Quanli? Why did Wu Quanli know the law and break the law and remarry Chen Yun?
It turned out that in 2009, Liu Wei was imprisoned for selling stolen goods, and was sentenced to 10 years in prison at that time, when they had only been married for more than a year and their daughter was only one year old. After Liu Wei was imprisoned, Chen Yun waited for him for three or four years, and finally met Wu Quanli under the mediation of his grandmother.
At first, Chen Yun felt that he had a family with children, the family was too complicated, did not want to be good with Wu Quanli, but could not stand his soft and hard bubbles, coupled with his grandmother's grinding ear roots, in 2013 Chen Yun decided to marry Wu Quanli, who was 11 years older than himself.
However, if you want to remarry, you must first go through the divorce procedures, right, at that time Chen Yun submitted the application materials to the court, and finally needed to pay a few thousand yuan, Wu Quanli was unwilling to take money, so Chen Yun did not do a divorce.
Wu Quanli told reporters that he was also married for the second time, and his previous wife's style was not good, she worked outside the home, she came at home chaotically, and then divorced.
After the divorce, I always wanted to find it, but the family conditions were not good and I couldn't find a good woman, so when others introduced Chen Yun to him, they didn't dislike her past, and Wu Quanli also thought that Chen Yun would live a good life with him. At the time of registration, it was not found that she had registered her marriage.
So why can Chen Yun get two marriage certificates at the same time? What is wrong with this?
The reporter compared Chen Yun's two marriage certificates, and can see that the dates of birth on the two marriage certificates are not the same, one in 1987, the other in 1990, three years apart.
When the reporter asked Chen Yun what year he was born, Chen Yun vaguely said that he did not know what was going on at that time, and at that time, many ID cards were different from his real age.
In order to understand the situation, the reporter went to the local police station to inquire, and the reply was that the marriage registration system of each city was not networked at that time, so there was a person who could get a marriage license in different places. For Chen Yun's situation, which is likely to involve the illegal act of making id card counterfeits, Wu Quanli can hold her responsible and prosecute her.
But Wu Quanli recalled the six years together and was still unwilling to do that step. Wu Quanli thought that the two of them cared deeply for his wife when they lived together, and now that his wife was gone, he felt better even if he went to a better family, but her ex-husband's family was poorer.
Why did Chen Yun choose to leave Wu Quanli, who had lived together for six years, and return to live with Liu Wei?
Chen Yun said that the family's economic power is controlled by Wu Quanli, he is stingy, every month to give her and her daughter five hundred yuan of living expenses, she herself at home with children no income, this little money is not enough, and Wu Quanli is also grumpy, at every turn to domestic violence against her.
He even chased after her with a knife and slashed her, forcing her to jump into the pond. Chen Yun recalled her six-year marriage with Wu Quanli, and she felt that more was scolding, and the two people did not have any feelings. She also couldn't stand Wu Quanli's threats to her and texted her verbally.
Seeing that Chen Yun did not want to repent, and his attitude was determined to be with Liu Wei, Wu Quanli's self-esteem was hurt, he worked hard to make money outside the home, just to let his wife rest assured that he could take care of his children at home, but he came chaotically, he decided that Chen Yun was definitely not the first time to betray himself, and for a while he was angry, scolding Chen Yun and threatening to retaliate against Chen Yun.
Wu Quanli wanted to take away his six-year-old daughter Linlin, but Chen Yun did not agree, she felt that her daughter was better than her mother, and Liu Wei did not mind the child coming, Wu Quanli was out of control, suddenly broke out, almost fought with Liu Wei, fortunately, the crowd stopped.
Seeing that Wu Quanli's emotions were out of control, Wu Quanli's uncle proposed a compromise method, let Chen Yun and the child live in Chen Yun's mother's house first, and Wu Quanli should not bother them, let alone retaliate against Chen Yun, and both sides should calm down first and negotiate the next day.
Chen Yun told reporters that she and Liu Wei met each other while working outside, and the two fell in love at first sight, because they grew up in a single-parent family and longed for family warmth from childhood, so they formed a family with Liu Wei, but unfortunately the good times did not last long, and Liu Wei was imprisoned a year after giving birth to his daughter.
Their orphan and widowed mother's life is very difficult, so they are with Wu Quanli under the mediation of their grandmother, but she has no feelings for him at the beginning, just find a way to rely on herself and her daughter.
At first, Wu Quanli expressed that he did not care about Chen Yun's past, and also agreed that she would bring her daughter to live with her, but in the end, Chen Yun slowly lost trust in him.
Wu Quanli recalled being with Chen Yun for six years, he sincerely wanted to live a life, when he got married, he also specially bought a new wardrobe, new furniture and appliances, and also decorated a daughter's room, in order to make Chen Yun feel at ease at home with children, he worked hard outside, so he was not willing to be destroyed by such a beautiful family of three, and he wanted to save this relationship.
The next day, the two sides arrived as promised, as soon as they met, Wu Quanli tried every means to keep Chen Yun and persuade her to return to the family for the sake of the child, but Chen Yun felt that the two had no feelings, and they hurt each other together, and she had an iron heart to live with Liu Wei.
Seeing That Chen Yun's attitude was resolute, there was no room for redemption. Wu Quanli decided to give the option of divorce to Chen Yun, but he had a condition, that is, his daughter was first raised by Chen Yun until she was twelve years old, and then returned to her side, during which time he could watch the children pick up the children to play.
Chen Yun and Liu Wei reached an agreement on Wu Quanli's request and expressed their approval.
In view of the complicated relationship between Chen Yun, Liu Wei and Wu Quanli, the reporter consulted a lawyer on their situation, and the lawyer said that Chen Yun's behavior was suspected of violating the law, but if Wu Quanli did not take the initiative to file a lawsuit, he would not be prosecuted for bigamy, and only needed them to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to revoke the marriage to see which was true and which was false.
Later, the three of them came to the local village committee to mediate together after discussion, and Wu Quanli agreed to the divorce, but he asked for a one-year postponement of the divorce procedures, which was used as an inspection period, and if Chen Yun found that Liu Wei was not suitable, he could come back again.
The staff of the village committee persuaded the three people to understand each other, and at the same time persuaded Wu Quanli to let go of the past, live his own life well, and not to disturb Chen Yun's life.
Sentiment analysis
Chen Yun's fault:
In this relationship, Chen Yun did not treat it well at first, she just wanted to find a man to share the pain of life, because her man was in prison, her orphans and widows had difficulties in life, so she found a similar person, did not understand it well, and hastily entered the marriage, and later found that she was grumpy, irritable, and also loved domestic violence, talking was not a matter of rebellion and so on. Then it accumulated day by day, and finally it broke out intolerably, and then the two people couldn't get by.
The treatment of Liu Wei's feelings is not specific enough, since the two were free love, each other are deep feelings at first sight, always can not be with others after each other is in prison, at least have to divorce first, no divorce to marry others, this is cheating, contrary to the moral bottom line.
Wu Quanli's fault:
Without understanding Chen Yun's previous marital status, he rushed to get married, and was not responsible for himself and others. Always can't desire the family too casually, even if the other party is not divorced, just get married openly, this is bigamy, it is illegal.
In the face of a woman who has no feelings, she should be decent, not begging for it, or intimidating and threatening, but generously saying goodbye, even if we have been together for six years, but there is no love family, even if it is complete and imperfect.
summary:
One is different and two wide, and each is fine. Feelings are gone, and it is better to leave decently than to seek perfection. After no feelings, humble retention is not as good as atmospheric letting go.
Treat feelings with specialism, not jokes, marriage is not a child's play, must be thoughtful, can not have a purpose, or it is a transaction.