"Mention my mother, I just want to hehe" This short essay, why has it touched countless people?

As parents, we often discuss how children are, and we are curious about what kind of existence is a father or mother in the eyes of children.

Seeing this article written by the fifth-grade children, "Mother this species makes me pity", I found that the mother in the eyes of the original child also has various small shortcomings, even "unreliable"...

And the last sentence, "The mother also needs the child's pity", is also warm to the heart.

01

I was speechless when I mentioned my mother, and if I had to make a sound, I would only have one sentence: "Huh." ”

My mother's name is Chen Si. Everyone must not say anything like his name, thinking that the person who is called "Chen Si" often thinks, or is a calm and peaceful person. None of this has anything to do with my mom.

That's how my mom's day started.

From the moment she woke me up at 6:30 in the morning, she nagged, repeating what she had to say almost every day in the five years since I had been in school: Soup, get up and go to early reading, right away, gogogo. Read it out loud and make me hear it... Done reading? After reading it, quickly go to the QQ group to memorize it again... Finished memorizing? After brushing your teeth and washing your face, brushing your teeth will take more than two minutes, your face will be washed twice, you see your blind paste is still in the corner of your eyes...

While nagging about this, she was making breakfast in the kitchen, and after a while she came to my house to see, said two words, and went to stir-fry again...

In short, everything was nagging, and everything did not fall, until I went out with my school bag on my back, and she childishly pretended to say "baby goodbye", which was over.

When I got home from school at noon, from the moment I saw her, the nagging started all over again... The cycle continues, never changing, never improving.

If anyone says she's by her name, I've only had to huh.

02

My mom was a literary editor. Probably the kind of person who changes the article for others.

So, you know, she couldn't look at any of the compositions I wrote, saying that I either wrote without a central idea or that the sentences didn't make sense; either too naïve or mature; either there were no good words and good sentences, or there was no metaphorical anthropomorphic comparison; either the beginning was not good, or the ending was too bad...

"Oh" that god. In short, the essay I wrote was not as good as shit in her eyes. Several times the teacher chose my composition to participate in the competition, she actually sent a WeChat message to the teacher to say a bunch of problems with my composition, and finally suggested that the teacher should not take it out, because there is no drama.

But she never instructed me to write an essay, nor did she change it for me, only when checking my homework, some of them pointed out a bunch of problems.

If anyone says that there is a mother who is an editor, the composition will be effortless and natural, I only have to hehe.

03

I think my mom is a multi-faceted person. She was gentle in front of others, smiling, soothing in tone, and soft in voice.

The content of the speech sounds very understanding. But talking to me was completely different, it was like the roar of the Hedong lion, and at this time she had a vicious face and eyes like a brass bell.

And she turned her face as fast as she could turn a book, yelling at me over there, and she was immediately transformed into a gentle little sister when she answered the phone.

She had a dress, a white background, and a large tiger head with a large black line with a large mouth printed on her chest.

I think this dress is particularly in line with her, this dress represents her heart, hidden killing machine.

If anyone says my mom is very gentle, I'll just have to huh.

04

My mother had the ability to knock on the side and insinuate to physically attack me in all its aspects.

She didn't say a word to me, but every word she said pointed to my heart like a sword.

For example, it is easy for a family to take time to watch TV, and she pretends to chat with her father and says: You see who is who, people are so good now, do you think he has become so good when he watches TV at home all day? Excellent people don't watch TV, people let others watch it on TV...

I'm "le" a mom. Imagine, can I still watch IT?

In this regard, her reasoning is a bunch of piles, and it is all her reasoning, and it is all her reason. What eating green vegetables will be beautiful, eating radish is good for the skin, practicing the piano for at least one sitting for two hours, exercise helps to grow taller, practicing calligraphy helps to concentrate the mind... It's all hers.

And she gave a bunch of examples for every reasoning she opened her mouth, so that I couldn't think of any examples to refute her for a moment and a half.

I secretly decided that I would read more books and learn more about all aspects of knowledge, and one day I would let her open her mouth and have nothing to say.

After all, there will always be a species of "mother" in the world, and this species alone should be worthy of pity for the children of us mothers.

Don't ask me why I use the word pity here, I don't know exactly. This is a word I just learned, which can only be understood, not spoken.

Not long ago, the American "Women's Life Monthly" conducted a questionnaire survey on readers, asking how their mothers taught them and how to be a good mother. Below are excerpts from some of the letters.

Reading is key

As a child, I remember my mother reading to me every day and often taking me to the library. I vividly remember the first time I read to my mother, she had tears in her eyes.

I've been reading to her since I had my daughter, Amy, since the day she was born, because babies love to listen to the rhythmic sounds of reading.

My daughter Amy is an active child who can't sit down for a while. But when she was two and a half years old, she brought 20 books with her every night and kept them by her bedside. When she was able to repeat the Brown Bear I told her, tears welled up in my eyes.

Don't criticize your child in public

No matter what wrong I did, my stepmother never embarrassed me in front of anyone else. Whether they're strangers, family members, or friends. She always waited for us to get home or take me aside to talk about me, depending on the situation.

Parents are consistent

When I was a child I never had the opportunity to be good with one of my parents and against the other. Mom and Dad were always in the same group, and they always supported each other.

For example, the two of them decide together which party I should attend or how late I can stay outside.

Once I didn't want to finish my ballet class, they discussed it together and said before they decided that I had to finish this semester's course. Their agreement of opinion made me feel that their decision was very reasonable.

Stop commenting

My mother used to say, "Don't be in a hurry to comment on how other mothers raise their children, lest you end up finding out that maybe you haven't done a good job yet." ”

What is right for one family may not work for another. Because children have different needs and different personalities, parents also have different requirements and habits. As long as there is no abuse or indifference to children, we should not nag about the parenting style of other people's homes.

Rejoice in the differences of the children

My mother didn't insist on us, and now I'm trying to do better with my children. My mother believes that every child has unique abilities and interests, and children must not be asked to be unified, but should be allowed to be themselves and help them develop their potential.

Whatever path they choose. Most importantly, remember that equality doesn't mean giving your kids the absolute same thing, but giving every child what she needs.

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